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Stealthing

1steelrod

1steelrod

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Those who remove condoms during sex.
I am sure this does happen in a normal relationship.
And I am sure it happens with those in the sex industry
We all know that these do break at times so most times we don't know it has happened. But to remove a condom by stealth is poor form .
It is and can be classed as rape aparrantly but there looks to be new laws being introduced to the criminal code.
Stealthing is a dirty and nasty practice by some who will do it just because they don't like to wear a condom . And some just do it because they are just shit men.
Any thoughts on this matter.
Any one guilty of this practice
 

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1steelrod said:
Those who remove condoms during sex.
I am sure this does happen in a normal relationship.
And I am sure it happens with those in the sex industry
We all know that these do break at times so most times we don't know it has happened. But to remove a condom by stealth is poor form .
It is and can be classed as rape aparrantly but there looks to be new laws being introduced to the criminal code.
Stealthing is a dirty and nasty practice by some who will do it just because they don't like to wear a condom . And some just do it because they are just shit men.
Any thoughts on this matter.
Any one guilty of this practice
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So glad you’ve touched on this topic,, my personal experience men don’t think it’s a big deal to remove the condom with out the other person’s knowledge/consent.
 
Honestly some men are as dumb as a box of hammers if they attempt this. Not only is it a huge breach of trust and respect but how will they feel when they get the call to say 'I'm pregnant' and your the only person who could be the father.
 
mrys said:
Honestly some men are as dumb as a box of hammers if they attempt this. Not only is it a huge breach of trust and respect but how will they feel when they get the call to say 'I'm pregnant' and your the only person who could be the father.
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Agreed, trust and respect.
Am still learning.
This practice has never entered my head for a second, and not surprisingly, I didn't even know there was a word for it or what that word was referring to.
 
Jamie jackson said:
Every time a client asks me to turn the lights right down or off is and immediate red flag….and I keep that room lit up like Christmas lol
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Most WLs want the lights off and to do the Doggy or Reverse Cowgirl don't quite know why this happens but it been my experience almost every time .
 
A lot of girls i see want the lights off. I figured they think its romantic or they are shy or not confident about their body. I prefer lights on cause i admire the view of the girl.
I stop if i notice the condom is riding up and slipping off.
I punt to have no strings attached. And that means no offspring.
 
Smythie said:
A lot of girls i see want the lights off. I figured they think its romantic or they are shy or not confident about their body. I prefer lights on cause i admire the view of the girl.
I stop if i notice the condom is riding up and slipping off.
I punt to have no strings attached. And that means no offspring.
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I suspect that was the rational of the couple of girls that had removed the condom without me noticing. Now I always check.
 
Doggy position is prob the worst position in regards to stealthing for girls. I usually have my hands on her boobs. Cause i like them and she knows where my hands are.
Some girls have mirrors so they can keep an eye on the guy at all times including doggy.
 
In South Australia they have just introduced legislation that if you are caught 'stealthing' you can be imprisoned for life if convicted.
www.abc.net.au

Life imprisonment for 'stealthing' as SA outlaws non-consensual removal of condom

Non-consensually removing a condom during sex — an act known as "stealthing" — is set to be criminalised in South Australia, with those found guilty facing penalties of up to life imprisonment.
www.abc.net.au www.abc.net.au
 
In SA it's a criminal offence. I have had it happen to be a couple times. I went off at them and threw them out. I feel it's more common with private workers then a parlour. Simply due to many parlours have security on premises. From conversations I have had with STI testing clinic it's becoming a big issue. Hence why it bought into law. But until this industry is decrimealised in SA ladies won't report it
 
A wl did it to me once. Later found out she was pregnant and the timing would have coincided.
Never saw or heard from her again so fingers crossed it was someone else’s baby.
 
JT777 said:
A wl did it to me once. Later found out she was pregnant and the timing would have coincided.
Never saw or heard from her again so fingers crossed it was someone else’s baby.
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I’ve had WLs do that to me a few times, I always check.
 
Women, if they want to get pregnant, don't need to stealth. The condom could be sabotaged, or the post coital condom contents could be reinserted afterwards.

A vasectomy addresses this risk.
 
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