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Simplifying sexual titles? Ignorant or simply simple?

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Ella Jade

As a Bi girl I have a high interest in sexuality and all of the titles and subtitles that float around in the LGBTQ community.

I myself identify to people as 'bisexual' to people who ask but if I want to get really technical i'm a 'polysexual, polyamorous, demi-romantic'.

What titles do you consider yourself and how do you identify if people ask the basic question "What are you into?"

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Without intending to sound crude at all (no more than usual anyway), what does it mean if looking at your photo gives me a second log of morning wood? Like Girls Because They're Qute? :D

To be honest, I have given up trying to keep up with all the new terms and abbreviations that seem to be generated almost on a weekly basis to label people with various sexual preferences and peccadilloes (I'm not belittling anyone here, I just like using the word peccadilloes). Sometimes it just seems it's so people can demonstrate how avant garde and sexually sophisticated they are, or maybe deliberately trying to confuse the majority vanilla crowd.

As for me, I am (very) straight but that hasn't prevented me from spending half an hour with a pre-op T person (albeit only a couple of times), as part of my modest experimentation -- decided it was not really for me. I much prefer spending time with hot, sexy, bisexual girls -- my favourite flavour of girls.:)
 
XLNC said:
Without intending to sound crude at all (no more than usual anyway), what does it mean if looking at your photo gives me a second log of morning wood? Like Girls Because They're Qute? :D

To be honest, I have given up trying to keep up with all the new terms and abbreviations that seem to be generated almost on a weekly basis to label people with various sexual preferences and peccadilloes (I'm not belittling anyone here, I just like using the word peccadilloes). Sometimes it just seems it's so people can demonstrate how avant garde and sexually sophisticated they are, or maybe deliberately trying to confuse the majority vanilla crowd.

As for me, I am (very) straight but that hasn't prevented me from spending half an hour with a pre-op T person (albeit only a couple of times), as part of my modest experimentation -- decided it was not really for me. I much prefer spending time with hot, sexy, bisexual girls -- my favourite flavour of girls.:)
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Hahaha, you're welcome to give us a call if you want me to service that second log of yours! hahaha
Peccadilloes :P tbh, I had to google that one hahaha! fancy! *pinky up*
I agree to a certain extent with your avant garde theory, then again it is interesting hearing how people identify - I heard a new one the other day - Bear-sexual.. basically it means your into big hairy men! I was sitting around in a beanbag at my mates house and looking up all of these sexuality terms and I was like "WTF?? THEY LIKE BEARS??" my mate was like "No honey.. no." hahaha It led to some pretty interesting conversation.

It's really cool that you're comfortable enough with your sexuality that you can experiment without feeling like it wrestles with your masculinity. Personally I find a man who can experiment more masculine than your average "I can't like dudes, I'm not a fairy" ocker crap!

Well, babe. Grab a spoon and dig in, because It sounds like i'm your favorite flavor ;D
 
I like how you identify yourself, especially polysexual which is the ultimate state of being I think.

I'm polyamorous and straight although I haven't been in a live-in polyamorous relationship for a long time but it's how I would identify myself if I could explain it to anyone. To me, polyamorous means equal love, empathy, trust and respect with all those in the relationship supporting each other equally but in their own way of course.

I was in a live-in polyamorous relationship for a couple of years and it was the best relationship I've ever been in although it was complex and required a lot patience and empathy but on the upside there was just so much love.
 
These don't sound very simplying...polyamorous walrus...bear sexuals?? sounds disgusting...is that with honey?
 
Dallas said:
I like how you identify yourself, especially polysexual which is the ultimate state of being I think.

I'm polyamorous and straight although I haven't been in a live-in polyamorous relationship for a long time but it's how I would identify myself if I could explain it to anyone. To me, polyamorous means equal love, empathy, trust and respect with all those in the relationship supporting each other equally but in their own way of course.

I was in a live-in polyamorous relationship for a couple of years and it was the best relationship I've ever been in although it was complex and required a lot patience and empathy but on the upside there was just so much love.
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I think you're definitely right, I find that humans really aren't monogamous creatures for the most part. I will allow the exception here and there but I think chasing monogamy is like chasing cars on foot for the majority.. It's a losing game. Humans have wandering eyes and they should have the opportunity to enjoy the shiny thing in the corner of their eye. I think telling your partner they can't have or experience something they want to experience is just such a waste of life.. I don't want my partner getting to their grave and thinking "Shit, I wish I had of done this or that" and know that ultimately they didn't get it because I said "no."

Life is about seeking pleasure and I am no one to deny someone I love the pleasure they seek!

It's wonderful to hear you've experienced such a lovely level of relationship comfort. I often struggle to find that myself. You lucky duck Dallas!
 
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Ella Jade said:
I think you're definitely right, I find that humans really aren't monogamous creatures for the most part. I will allow the exception here and there but I think chasing monogamy is like chasing cars on foot for the majority.. It's a losing game. Humans have wandering eyes and they should have the opportunity to enjoy the shiny thing in the corner of their eye. I think telling your partner they can't have or experience something they want to experience is just such a waste of life.. I don't want my partner getting to their grave and thinking "Shit, I wish I had of done this or that" and know that ultimately they didn't get it because I said "no."

I have a booking but I will continue this asap!
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Yes, I totally agree, I think humans with a few exceptions struggle to stay monogamous. Like you said it's a losing game for most. I think for me it goes a lot deeper than wandering eyes or wanting to enjoy the shiny things, I really enjoy the complexity of polyamory especially as there are so many forms it can take depending upon the needs of those involved and I have found it only seems to enhance a good relationship if those involved are honest and understanding. Forcing your partner to stay monogamous seems cruel to me, like having a bi partner and not allowing her to have her girl time, I have always encouraged my partners to fulfill their needs.
 
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