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Should Men Confide in Working Ladies About Their Marriages?

Some men share their deepest pains with working ladies, finding solace in their compassion. This poignant blog explores the emotional exchange, its limits, and lessons learned.


All very well and good and dandy... but what is out there for women in the same situation? the sisterhood, booking a male escort and/or an affair which we all know will enrage the Husband and we have read and seen the aftermath of that in evening news /newspapers at times... Men do it all very well and good the wife is supposed to remain calm and accept faults, and she needs to change etc etc etc, I have heard this so many times before, but she does it ONCE and all hell breaks lose....

I have heard so many times, from women, my hubby started seeing escorts after my body changed due to pregnancy which he wanted kids not me etc etc, and its all a woman's fault, or she entered menopause and didn't want sex a much, which I have also heard while he needs Viagra to get it up... once again its on the woman's shoulders...

Men are like Teflon nothing sticks and everything in life easily justified even spending half of her cash on escorts for this purpose, after all marriages in Australia are 50/50 split so $500 for an escort that $250 of her cash.. No wonder why Lesbianism is on the rise and or many women are remaining single for life hence Australia's birth rate is massively declining, but once again that's not a males fault...

I have been involved in this game for years and I know why schedules in parlors are always full during the working week so the wonderful loving husbands can play away, and go home and pretend its all wonderful with the wife BE a F-ing MAN and divorce her, tell her the truth after all you were once the so called man to get on bended knee to ask for her hand in marriage , married men who do this no matter what, once the wife hears about it and starts divorce proceedings she needs to clean the bugger out... ruin him...


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Does it say its all OKAY to visit escorts???
 
I have never burdened SW's with my problems. Everyone that's still breathing has enough problems of their own. I put my troubles to one side and enjoy the time, intimacy and pleasure with my chosen lady. You can pick up your issues/problems when you leave. They will be the same as when you arrived but with luck they will look smaller for the time spent.
 
I have never burdened SW's with my problems. Everyone that's still breathing has enough problems of their own. I put my troubles to one side and enjoy the time, intimacy and pleasure with my chosen lady. You can pick up your issues/problems when you leave. They will be the same as when you arrived but with luck they will look smaller for the time spent.
Wise words
 
All very well and good and dandy... but what is out there for women in the same situation? the sisterhood, booking a male escort and/or an affair which we all know will enrage the Husband and we have read and seen the aftermath of that in evening news /newspapers at times... Men do it all very well and good the wife is supposed to remain calm and accept faults, and she needs to change etc etc etc, I have heard this so many times before, but she does it ONCE and all hell breaks lose....

I have heard so many times, from women, my hubby started seeing escorts after my body changed due to pregnancy which he wanted kids not me etc etc, and its all a woman's fault, or she entered menopause and didn't want sex a much, which I have also heard while he needs Viagra to get it up... once again its on the woman's shoulders...

Men are like Teflon nothing sticks and everything in life easily justified even spending half of her cash on escorts for this purpose, after all marriages in Australia are 50/50 split so $500 for an escort that $250 of her cash.. No wonder why Lesbianism is on the rise and or many women are remaining single for life hence Australia's birth rate is massively declining, but once again that's not a males fault...

I have been involved in this game for years and I know why schedules in parlors are always full during the working week so the wonderful loving husbands can play away, and go home and pretend its all wonderful with the wife BE a F-ing MAN and divorce her, tell her the truth after all you were once the so called man to get on bended knee to ask for her hand in marriage , married men who do this no matter what, once the wife hears about it and starts divorce proceedings she needs to clean the bugger out... ruin him...


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Does it say its all OKAY to visit escorts???
I would have to say thats a bitter and narrow minded view in my opinion, but I respect that you are entitled to have it.
 
if you see an escort regularly, then it’s only natural that a rapport is built up and personal topics are discussed. I don’t necessarily see that as a problem with that as long as either one doesn’t become a crutch for the other.

We all see escorts for different reasons, but if you’re seeing an escort because you have relationship issues then that’s a different story.
 
Clearly as a WL I am advertising for paid services. But as an escort who charges for my time, not by service, I have many clients open up to me, even on the first visit! I would never dream of asking them personal questions regarding their life, purely because it’s none of my business! But if they choose to share details of their private life then I’m not going to make them feel like I don’t care. I’m a great listener and quite often, sharing or confiding in someone helps put things into perspective and makes them a lot more comfortable with you. Tbh they will probably leave feeling a lot more satisfied than if they’d only come and fucked you. Believe it or not, we are only human after all, and if I can help them physically and emotionally destress then I am more than happy to do so. It’s not always all about the money or only about sex. Don’t get me wrong though, if my client wants to fuck for the whole booking time, then I’m your girl!
 
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There are a lot of interesting and conflicting opinions in this threat - all of which valid. We definitely have a lot of men come through our doors wanting more than just a physical connection. A lot of the time clients have hidden struggles and feel comfortable enough with their chosen service provider to express those struggles. As long as its a safe space for both the client and the service provider and everyone is comfortable and enjoying their time, thats the most important part.

At the end of the day, it really is only up to the client and the provider to decide where the line should be drawn as individuals - no single instances will ever be the same. Some workers and clients may be completely comfortable with certain conversations, while others aren't... As long as the people involved are able to communicate what is and isn't okay, thats what matters. 💗 🥰
 
All very well and good and dandy... but what is out there for women in the same situation? the sisterhood, booking a male escort and/or an affair which we all know will enrage the Husband and we have read and seen the aftermath of that in evening news /newspapers at times... Men do it all very well and good the wife is supposed to remain calm and accept faults, and she needs to change etc etc etc, I have heard this so many times before, but she does it ONCE and all hell breaks lose....

I have heard so many times, from women, my hubby started seeing escorts after my body changed due to pregnancy which he wanted kids not me etc etc, and its all a woman's fault, or she entered menopause and didn't want sex a much, which I have also heard while he needs Viagra to get it up... once again its on the woman's shoulders...

Men are like Teflon nothing sticks and everything in life easily justified even spending half of her cash on escorts for this purpose, after all marriages in Australia are 50/50 split so $500 for an escort that $250 of her cash.. No wonder why Lesbianism is on the rise and or many women are remaining single for life hence Australia's birth rate is massively declining, but once again that's not a males fault...

I have been involved in this game for years and I know why schedules in parlors are always full during the working week so the wonderful loving husbands can play away, and go home and pretend its all wonderful with the wife BE a F-ing MAN and divorce her, tell her the truth after all you were once the so called man to get on bended knee to ask for her hand in marriage , married men who do this no matter what, once the wife hears about it and starts divorce proceedings she needs to clean the bugger out... ruin him...


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Mate, I think you might have joined the wrong internet community. You might be happier at a bible group.
 
No they should not. This is a line that should not be stepped over for the privacy of the client and the lady

Can I ask and please be honest? when you were on the "other side" did clients do this with you?

Privacy hmm if you have a long booking which involves lots chatting as we all know... you can nearly find out in a very innocent way at where a working lady lives.. eg..

C. What you do on weekends to relax.
WL . I have three dogs I walk along the coast near Coogee
C: oh its nice what they have done there with the development etc
WL yes it is, I love it there, close to the beach close to some shops and my other job.
C. Yep I am plumber and was called out to the local woollies there to fit a water heater
WL. yep It's so great I do all my shopping there on Sundays and is so handy if i need anything I can just run over the road without jumping in the car..
C. Sweet, I stopped by the dome there afterwards grabbed a coffee for the long drive home
WL, I am always there every morning for my fix...
C. Very innocently now knows that the big city of Perth where Said Escort lives...
 
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All very well and good and dandy... but what is out there for women in the same situation? the sisterhood, booking a male escort and/or an affair which we all know will enrage the Husband and we have read and seen the aftermath of that in evening news /newspapers at times... Men do it all very well and good the wife is supposed to remain calm and accept faults, and she needs to change etc etc etc, I have heard this so many times before, but she does it ONCE and all hell breaks lose....

I have heard so many times, from women, my hubby started seeing escorts after my body changed due to pregnancy which he wanted kids not me etc etc, and its all a woman's fault, or she entered menopause and didn't want sex a much, which I have also heard while he needs Viagra to get it up... once again its on the woman's shoulders...

Men are like Teflon nothing sticks and everything in life easily justified even spending half of her cash on escorts for this purpose, after all marriages in Australia are 50/50 split so $500 for an escort that $250 of her cash.. No wonder why Lesbianism is on the rise and or many women are remaining single for life hence Australia's birth rate is massively declining, but once again that's not a males fault...

I have been involved in this game for years and I know why schedules in parlors are always full during the working week so the wonderful loving husbands can play away, and go home and pretend its all wonderful with the wife BE a F-ing MAN and divorce her, tell her the truth after all you were once the so called man to get on bended knee to ask for her hand in marriage , married men who do this no matter what, once the wife hears about it and starts divorce proceedings she needs to clean the bugger out... ruin him...


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From a mans perspective, you are quite nieve to the complications and repercussions of divorce.
You bag men for being gutless, but at the same time you're happy to meet and take their money.
You smell of hypocrisy as much as the married men who see escorts.
 
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