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Paul1
Hi there - I need some help.
I have been in a long term relationship that is good for me in many respects and I love my wife. However, for quite a few years the sparkle has gone from our sex lives. I have had opportunities in the past to have affairs but have always avoided these. As life goes on, now in mid 50's, I feel that unless I "use it I will lose it". I have been to Langtrees in Perth for a "look" but not gone further. I have contracted some ladies but again not gone further. I am not into anything kinky, I just need some responsive female company. I am very worried about health issues (like herpes etc) as to collect something unwanted would be a disaster for me. I am the "rock" of my family and just to be found to be thinking along these lines would destroy my life. I have read some of the articles written by others in this community and feel that I can separate sex from relationship and that i would not feel guilty if I were to partake. The questions are "should I have a go" and if I do this would it be better (safer) for me to go to somewhere like Langtrees for the experience as opposed to seeing a private working lady. What are the health risks either way. Your guidance will be sincerely appreciated.
Paul (the new "but old" kid on the block)
I have been in a long term relationship that is good for me in many respects and I love my wife. However, for quite a few years the sparkle has gone from our sex lives. I have had opportunities in the past to have affairs but have always avoided these. As life goes on, now in mid 50's, I feel that unless I "use it I will lose it". I have been to Langtrees in Perth for a "look" but not gone further. I have contracted some ladies but again not gone further. I am not into anything kinky, I just need some responsive female company. I am very worried about health issues (like herpes etc) as to collect something unwanted would be a disaster for me. I am the "rock" of my family and just to be found to be thinking along these lines would destroy my life. I have read some of the articles written by others in this community and feel that I can separate sex from relationship and that i would not feel guilty if I were to partake. The questions are "should I have a go" and if I do this would it be better (safer) for me to go to somewhere like Langtrees for the experience as opposed to seeing a private working lady. What are the health risks either way. Your guidance will be sincerely appreciated.
Paul (the new "but old" kid on the block)
