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Sex with lights on or lights off?

Every partner I've ever had, without exception, likes sex with the lights on.

There are people who prefer sex with the lights off. There might be many reasons why someone wants sex with the lights off, but by far the three most common reasons I've heard are body image insecurity, sexual insecurity, and shame about sex.
 
If you want a light sexual encounter then lights on
If you want a dark sexual encounter then lights off! Easy peasy

Yes, the old story, a light sleeper sleeps with a light on,
And the hard sleeper sleeps with a ... window open.

But lights on of course, otherwise you'll always get asked to turn them on anyway.
Because unless they see it, no lady is going to believe the size of that massive thing that's been pleasuring them.
 
Lights oh but dimmed, nothing worse than lights blinding you while your trying to have fun.
 
I guess there's a time for each way ..
If she's asleep , then leave lights off .. 😒.. braille works fine.

but if you wanna see , and I really do enjoy watching , then ON .. or at least the light on your vid 📲
 
I would prefer a soft warmly lit room (candle light or similar) not stark and bright, however not dark either, light enough to see my partner, however just dark enough to hide those parts of myself that would not stand the scrutiny of the bright light of day ;)
 
🚸 my situation ⚠️

(kidnapping)spend less $200 : Turn off the dark or McDonald bag .

(night club )Spend more $300 : romantic moon light & fairy light 🧚‍♀️ 🌙

(Scientist)Spend more then $500 : turn on the light 💡(bright like surgery) for research 🔬🔍 Every inch of skin pores & pupil & bikini hair and wrinkles 🧐

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Spontaneity is the key I feel, what ever the light may be. My ex and I ended up having sex in the farm waterhole when we were skinny dipping during the day.
 
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