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Sex addiction

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I think there is a fine line between a healthy desire for sex and sex 'addiction'. I'd hate to count the number of times a day I think about sex/a sexual activity etc. And yes I follow my dreams as often as possible :-) Perhaps more context from the ABC article would help. Maybe the poor guy was in a sexless marriage or the sex was 'Mills & Boon' and he was more a Thunderstruck kind of guy. Nothing wrong with him finding satisfaction elsewhere if his wife had a permanent headache (or a real medical reason to avoid sex?) When is too much libido an addiction?
 
mrys said:
I think there is a fine line between a healthy desire for sex and sex 'addiction'. I'd hate to count the number of times a day I think about sex/a sexual activity etc. And yes I follow my dreams as often as possible :) Perhaps more context from the ABC article would help. Maybe the poor guy was in a sexless marriage or the sex was 'Mills & Boon' and he was more a Thunderstruck kind of guy. Nothing wrong with him finding satisfaction elsewhere if his wife had a permanent headache (or a real medical reason to avoid sex?) When is too much libido an addiction?
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Well said mrys
Unfortunately you’re not going to receive unbiased context from the abc.
 
Fully agree. I suppose if he left home with balls empty, like Kyle S said, then he wouldn't have had the need to cheat. Sometimes I wonder why some wives are shocked their husbands cheat when they know there is a sexless marriage. And it's not as though women don't know that men need sex. It's said that ejaculation is like urination for a man. When he needs to go, he needs to go!!
mrys said:
I think there is a fine line between a healthy desire for sex and sex 'addiction'. I'd hate to count the number of times a day I think about sex/a sexual activity etc. And yes I follow my dreams as often as possible :) Perhaps more context from the ABC article would help. Maybe the poor guy was in a sexless marriage or the sex was 'Mills & Boon' and he was more a Thunderstruck kind of guy. Nothing wrong with him finding satisfaction elsewhere if his wife had a permanent headache (or a real medical reason to avoid sex?) When is too much libido an addiction?
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Well I've been totally honest with my partner, she has no interest in intimacy anymore, I'm continually seeking it.
johnmatilda said:
Fully agree. I suppose if he left home with balls empty, like Kyle S said, then he wouldn't have had the need to cheat. Sometimes I wonder why some wives are shocked their husbands cheat when they know there is a sexless marriage. And it's not as though women don't know that men need sex. It's said that ejaculation is like urination for a man. When he needs to go, he needs to go!!
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I've been very open with fact I need intimacy and sex. It's been discussed numerous times.
It's something that should be a natural want in any relationship.
Apprenty we get one go at life, so I'm not about to waste mine.
We share a house and friendship. I satisfy my needs with others who I find an attraction.
 
JSAU said:
Well I've been totally honest with my partner, she has no interest in intimacy anymore, I'm continually seeking it.

I've been very open with fact I need intimacy and sex. It's been discussed numerous times.
It's something that should be a natural want in any relationship.
Apprenty we get one go at life, so I'm not about to waste mine.
We share a house and friendship. I satisfy my needs with others who I find an attraction.
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I hear you mate. Was in a similar situation. She was only into it once in 2 or 3 months. I brought it up, she told me to use my hands.
 
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