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Reason for Being a Punter

Contrarian said:
Me three Fudd! Yup, you can find self help books in all the bookstores on just about every crisis but loneliness.
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Wish I could say things'll get better but modern life isn't proving it so. Would you escorts consider someone at $20 an hour to see a movie or walk around the river with? Don't see that happening even if you offered it to someone on the dole.
 
Perth boy said:
I have been reading this thread for awhile and was in two minds to post.

For me I haven't found two many W/L's that are as good looking or in as good shape as my wife.
My wife has childhood sexual abuse issues and also suffers Depression. She finds it very hard to be intermit
She is my best friend and we have a great life.
The sexual issues in our relationship drive me completely nuts. We have had all sorts of professional help and she is trying some experimental thing at the moment that has not been done in Aust before.
So I see W/L' from time to time.

I got to say I am strongly considering the single life and full time punter. . After many years of this it's starting to really get to me.

Well that's a very personal part of my life I don't normaly tell.
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Brave and awesome post brother... I hear your frustrations and I understand.

But bro don’t go into the single punter life if you don’t have to. I ended my first marriage and for a decade I became Master Yoda... I have done what most men dream of doing when it comes to sex... but I was still lonely.

I am married a second time now and am happy and will not go back to the Jedi life.

But in sayin that. Some of my friends have a god life but get some punting on the side. And if done right. It can be the best of both worlds...


Just my thoughts.
 
I married young and fathered a child, I realised that I was gay after hiring my first male escort as an experiment. I broke all the rules and started seeing X escort, came out, quit corporate life and entered the sex industry, much to my family’s horror. I dream: to create Australia’s first alpha male fantasy figure - this time for women. ‘Jake Ryan’ was born 2014 The branding was unique: Jake loved the ladies, they loved him right back and I was the brainchild shot to industry number one. What could possibly go wrong. What didn’t go wrong

Now I work in the industry Full time and haven’t hired an WL, it’s just awkward as I know everybody, kind of wish sometimes I wasn’t a part of it So I can enjoy being on the punters side of the industry, but this site is also fun too, so this all began as a punter
 
Historian said:
Wish I could say things'll get better but modern life isn't proving it so. Would you escorts consider someone at $20 an hour to see a movie or walk around the river with? Don't see that happening even if you offered it to someone on the dole.
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Dating escorts are quite popular, 30 years ago where much more popular, many escorts would accept this sort of fee if 3-4hrs were on the table.
 
Xavier Jung said:
Many reasons with the main ones being I feel much more comfortable and safer with sex workers, and I love professionalism.
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Certainly this. Until I am ever ready for another long term relationship, if ever. I am quite happy with sex workers as there are no strings attached and I get a little intimacy to satisfy my single life. No complaints though I am a real romantic and would love to wine and dine a lady too. I am relatively new at all this as well compared to some and will eventually pluck up enough courage to visit Langtrees or a reputable private to spend a solid hour with a lovely lady. Perhaps this Christmas.
 
Hire a new woman every time and it does not cost as much as a girlfriend/wife that nags and nags and holds out on sex. 50% of marriages end in divorce.

A prostitute loves you for you no matter who you are or what you look like so long as you are paying. The prostitute is an honest open gold digger that does not hide the fact the love of money.
 
stovo82 said:
A prostitute loves you for you no matter who you are or what you look like so long as you are paying. The prostitute is an honest open gold digger that does not hide the fact the love of money.
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Do you know why she is called a Hooker and its called hooking? She is not a gold digger <--- You called her if she was a gold digger she would of called you, so the term call girl would be then a lie then, A prostitute only gives you her time that is it, but hey all women have the ability to smile and tell a man what she knows he wants to hear, really dude you need to go back to year 9 and learn some female tricks... I can tell you one secret a lady whom is say very tiny say size 6 and is about 5 foot zip sees a man that is 6'5 and weighs about 130Kg and she prays he doesn't pick her after he picks someone else she breathes a sign of a relief...
 
stovo82 said:
Hire a new woman every time and it does not cost as much as a girlfriend/wife that nags and nags and holds out on sex. 50% of marriages end in divorce.

A prostitute loves you for you no matter who you are or what you look like so long as you are paying. The prostitute is an honest open gold digger that does not hide the fact the love of money.
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Take it from me Stovo none of them love any of us , the word your looking for is Tolerate
 
BigBlackCock said:
The loneliness. The sheer loneliness. If escorts didn't charge as much as they did but worked for say $20 an hour, I'd willingly pay $100 to spend five hours and go cycling, art galleries, walks along the river and browse cosy little bookstores.

And all without the sex. Truly. The loneliness just kills.
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wondering if theres something in this like $200 for 4 hours of company like during the day when the girls might be lucky to make $$$$ take you down the beach have fish and chips for luch I watch you go for a swim I take you back to earn the big $$$$$$$ when the timing is right
 
Interesting thread here made me think why i indulge in the punting realm.
Simple i am not endowed with Brad Pitt looks or Arnolds body and at ?0 its very difficult to find a lady out there. Tried singles bars etc but no luck and as i married young and was a one woman man until i divorced i hadnt had many ladies in my time. I see this as catching up for lost time and you gotta spoil yourself cos no one else will lol. Sometimes its just nice to have a joke and a chat with a beautiful lady as in my line of work they are few and far between. God bless all those working ladies out there keeping us randy blokes happy you provide a great community service and deserve every dollar you earn.
 
I had to go through a lot of samples of beautiful women before I found the one ;)

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Razdor said:
I know we all have different reason why we see WLs. My mate asked me once why I see WLs when I have a beautiful lovely partner. I did not tell him the real reason. But being anonymous here I would say why. After my partner had an accident playing a sport, she had to start taking different medicines. On particular medicine works very well with her, but there is a draw back: her sexual drives have diminished. We have not had sex for a year now.

Maybe you guys can share your reasons

Raz
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Thank you for sharing 🙏xx
 
BigBlackCock said:
The loneliness. The sheer loneliness. If escorts didn't charge as much as they did but worked for say $20 an hour, I'd willingly pay $100 to spend five hours and go cycling, art galleries, walks along the river and browse cosy little bookstores.

And all without the sex. Truly. The loneliness just kills.
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I hear you. But not $20 an hour though. There would be a price balance somewhat higher for such an option.
 
ozwarlock67 said:
That would have to be one of the top reasons.

I actually share a house with a W/L. If I want something, I pay her like any other punter. She's not an innocent, but can be a bit straight about some things, so I take my fetishes and role play fantasies to other private W/Ls I have built up a friendship with over the years rather than break the trust I spent years building with her.

Straightforward, but expensive.
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Dang.....this thread was started in 2010. These days I live alone and like it. Sharon lives a couple of streets away, but has retired from the game and has discovered god.

Goes right against my grain.
 
I am punter by default because I am unfortunate to be mentally/socially/physically disadvantaged and face endless rejection. I would not be a punter if I had freedom of choice and options. I would have to become a multi-millionaire but I would be an old man or it will never happen. Only becoming rich can make up for a man having the physical appearance of Shrek or Gollum.
 
It's called a male sex drive, we punt because we can't get it when we want it. Gf/wife knocks you back but the tanks below are over-flowing time to do a milk run down the local shop(hint hint). Even if you luv your partner those urges will be knocking and unless your happy to be a imp dick for your other half for life,it's down to the local shop we all go.

Same with looking for a root on the local dating apps, takes time, effort and hopefully something at the end with a girl interested in the same thing as you FwB. By then your tanks are busting again and your options are either to keep that dam at bay or head down the local as an easier choice.

Our world is backwards on this rule of thumb involving sex. But hey the things we do for love right?
And that's why I became a punter cause at the end of the day it's NSA and the other side is always willing. You do the math.

If your other half is willing to go the distance for your pleasure regardless what they are feeling atm that's a relationship built to last. But alas as we all know there is a higher percentage closer to 100 that things never turn out this way. And that we're dreaming for thinking that way, so off to the local shop we go.
 
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Most of us are unattractive men because we are not tall enough less than 1.90m in height. Height is the most important feature of a man. The taller the man the more attractive of a man. The tallest man is the most attractive man because he dwarfs his competition and stand out from the crowd. NBA basketball players stand 2m+ in height and they are tall and rich and amongst most attractive men in the world.

Due to our lack of height, unattractive men generate little or no interest from women and nothing can make up for being an insignificant short man. Being a punter is the only option for us short guys. Short guys need lots of money to make up for their lack of height to attract women.

The short guys have to put a lot more effort in attracting women and make up for our lack of height. The tall guy always gains more attention and interest from women with no effort because being tall he is regarded as more attractive and more deserving. Personality, confidence and intelligence mean nothing in attraction it is all about physical attraction.

Short guy with money must be aware that we are likely to be used/lead on by women that only seek fortune or to provide for kids that are not his. Divorce is more costly to men leaving us financially worse off. Being a punter saves on being ripped off by a divorce that takes away your hard earning savings.
 
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Cher is 100% bang on correct... Men will never ever ever make the rules of engagement, and relationships sorry but women will always make the final decision no matter how much he may love her , the ball is always in her court. AND

really why do women want to be involved with men anyways in these modern day times, whats in it for her anyways, a diamond engagement and wedding ring then a life of serving his needs putting up with him, his drunk ways, his spending habits, and even down to the fact of his sexual needs one month are and were not meet so he went to see an escort and her life feel apart, etc etc, why does a woman need a man today, where by today a Female can:

1. Get a good education
2. Go to university
3 Pay her way through her degree either by doing escorting or a normal job and have no hecs debts <--- that I love about women!
4 Get a decent job at the end of her degree
5. Get a home loan on her own (a smallish home as she doesn't need a garage, carport, etc etc for the toys, she needs a decent ensuite/walk in robe.. :)
6. Buy a new car the same
7. Pay tradies to do work for her in her new home while she goes to her career.
8. Pay mechanics to work on her car
9 She can buy cats to keep her company
10. So why does a female need a man to live with in these modern day times,.. ?

11. AND oh.. She can not only earn a bucket load of cash in her career job, BUT she can work as an escort on weekends and make even more cash... <--- so she can use escorting as an avenue for her sexual needs, ok they may not be what she wants but she can get off with clients whom make her horny.. Win/WIN for her!
 
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