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Question for WLs - Best foreplay ?

sunyun

sunyun

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Hi, When I was young and married (before I got divorced), I was told that the best sex followed a well 'warmed up' partner.

The advice was to start kissing and caressing the extremities first (fingers and toes), and work up to the more erogenous zones (are nipples and pubes the most erogenous zones ??), leaving the actual intercourse until neither of you can stand to not be doing it any more.

So I have two questions of WLs :

1 Do you enjoy foreplay, or are we just wasting your time ?

2 If you do enjoy foreplay, does the above description work for you ?

I get most enjoyment when my partner enjoys it too, (or is a good actress !), so I am very interested in what I am doing.
 
Hi Sunyun

Great question!

There are times when a quickie is required, (never knock a quickie), but in general I love foreplay. This doesn't have to start in the bedroom. It can be a foot massage in front of the TV, or feeding each other dessert.
Men tend to get horny very quickly and when the deed is over, roll over and go to sleep. Women take longer to warm up and then longer to warm down - hence the desire for kisses and cuddles afterwards.

The fact that you are even asking the question means that you care about your partner's pleasure so half the battle is won already.

Every lady is different so I suggest a lot of research with different ladies...lol

Hope this helps

Seleena Swan XXX
 
Hi Seleena,

Thanks for the feedback.

i love your pic in your profile - if you worked in Perth, Id definately want to meet you.

Cheers.
 
sunyun said:
Hi, When I was young and married (before I got divorced), I was told that the best sex followed a well 'warmed up' partner.

The advice was to start kissing and caressing the extremities first (fingers and toes), and work up to the more erogenous zones (are nipples and pubes the most erogenous zones ??), leaving the actual intercourse until neither of you can stand to not be doing it any more.

So I have two questions of WLs :

1 Do you enjoy foreplay, or are we just wasting your time ?

2 If you do enjoy foreplay, does the above description work for you ?

I get most enjoyment when my partner enjoys it too, (or is a good actress !), so I am very interested in what I am doing.
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1. I think foreplay is the best thing ever! you are definitely not wasting your time.
2. As far as the description above, i've never been kissed all over but kissing certainly helps. Personally i love it when the guy starts lightly touching up my legs and moves into my private areas, keeping your underwear on helps too, lightly touching and caressing over the nickers is really erotic and feels amazing. Dont forget about the nipple though lightly sucking and licking is a real turn on, dont bite or be too rough (unless she likes that) coz during heightened states of sexual arousal everything becomes more sensitive.

If you think your girl is being a bit of an actress then ask her to tell you what she likes instead of just getting too it, she may be shy about telling you something isn't working for her and doesn't wanna hurt your feelings. ASK AND YOU SHALL RECEIVE!!

hope all that helps

xxSarahxx
 
I love foreplay!!!!!! I usually start with undressing each other (hot!!!!!!) followed by a shower (both in the shower).......even hotter.......a great way to explore each others body.....touch....more touch and tease. I love kissing all over and exploring the other person....every corner.....every cm of skin.....discover scars....moles.....birthmarks.....whatever is there to discover lol....I guess you get the idea. I love to be touched caressed all over....love the smell and feeling of skin.......rrrrrrrrrrrrrrr........from top to toe before easing into the "love making".
Great sunyun......I love the idea that there a guys out there who think about a ladies' pleasures. Good on you. If you ever should come to Langtrees...... :thumbsup:
R.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Like the ancient art of darning, the eroticism of slow gentle foreplay seems to have been forgotten with the younger W/L these days. Takes me 15 - 20 mins to assist the lady to get "warmed up", gentle nipple licking, neck licking, tickling the lower back, behind the knees, kissing the vulva, gently tongue action around the clitoris is sometimes a lot better than Wham Bahm Thank You Maam! LOL

Good sex is a two part thing. W/L are sexual beings who I find usually really enjoy the sex! Both partners need to assist each other to achieve sexual enjoyment.

O0
 
Hi Charlie......I am hearing you......the art of foreplay seems to come with age (like a good wine.....always better with age). The most of the young clients believe in a quick, rough encounter......the harder/faster the better. Guess it is our job (W/L's job) to keep the art alive and pass the secrets of pleasures on to the young ones.
:notworthy
R.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

PS: You sound very much like you know what you are talking about. O0
 
before i got married, i used to see a w/l and she used taught me some of the finer aspects in foreplay...she did say to me that what worked to get her "warmed up" might need to be done differently with other ladies...
 
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