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Punting during chemotherapy

Yorkshire Lad

Yorkshire Lad

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I’m about to start a 12 week course of chemotherapy, in the literature provided by the hospital it tells me that my resistance to infection will be reduced. I wondered if any of you have had chemotherapy in the past and did you still indulge with the ladies given the exchanges of body fluids etc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated I’m normally a once a week guy and the thought of 12 weeks abstinence and possibly longer is not something I would welcome. You’re welcome to private message me if you need to.
 
I’m no Doctor, and it depends on whether you kiss, perform oral etc, but I would probably not indulge during your 12 weeks. You’ll be on a state of weakened defence, and even f everyone is super clean, you just never know.
Concentrate on yourself mate, get as healthy as can be, follow all recommendations and come back stronger.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
 
Sometimes live comes down to deciding where your priorities lie. A few moments of pleasure or a life of future promises? No one can make that decision except your self. For what it’s worth you have my support (and a lot of others on here) for whatever you decide.
 
I agree with previous comments Yorkshire Lad. Focus on recovery and the good times to follow. My best wishes for a speedy return to a life without health issues!
 
Yorkshire Lad said:
I’m about to start a 12 week course of chemotherapy, in the literature provided by the hospital it tells me that my resistance to infection will be reduced. I wondered if any of you have had chemotherapy in the past and did you still indulge with the ladies given the exchanges of body fluids etc. Any advice would be greatly appreciated I’m normally a once a week guy and the thought of 12 weeks abstinence and possibly longer is not something I would welcome. You’re welcome to private message me if you need to.
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Hey there, my friend. First off, I just want to say you’re strong. Facing chemotherapy is no small thing, and it takes courage to even ask questions like this. I respect that.

The road ahead may have its challenges, but the most important thing right now is your health, your well-being, your strength. Your body is about to go through a tough battle, and every ounce of energy you have should go toward healing and protecting yourself. That means being mindful of infection risks, getting plenty of rest, and giving yourself grace if you need to adjust your lifestyle temporarily.

Intimacy is a beautiful part of life, but so is making sure you’re around and healthy to enjoy it for the long haul. Maybe this is an opportunity to explore different kinds of closeness and deep conversations, emotional intimacy, or even just taking a moment to appreciate the presence of those who care about you.

Twelve weeks might seem like a long time, but in the grand scheme of things, it’s a short chapter in your story. And you, my friend, have so many more chapters ahead. So take care of yourself. Listen to your body. Surround yourself with love, and remember you are not alone.

Sending you strength, patience, and all the good vibes in the world. You’ve got this.
 
Wow that’s a little overwhelming guys thank you for your thoughts it’s really appreciated.The thing I left out is that the chemo is just the prep for major surgery which is more than likely to remove the “little fellas” ability to get involved in the darkside so this could be my last opportunity to post something into the memory bank, more on that later when I find out what kind of affect the chemo will have.
 
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