Poor communication a major factor for bad sex?
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Agree - being honest and open with your partner about your likes and dislikes sexually is the key to great sex!
Her: whats up
Him : nothing
Her : Yes there is its me isn't it
Him : no I am just feeling we are in a rut sexually
Her, yes I think so to, maybe we should mix it up a bit
Him: yes I think that too.
Her: what are you thinking
Him : you have a Twin Sister don't you
Her :
Her: You have a brother dont you
Him; Sure do.
Her: How about this, we do a MMF with you and your brother and me,
Her: then we do a FFM with my Twin sister after all ladies 1st
Him : I think I am happy in this rut
Her: thought so...
Him : nothing
Her : Yes there is its me isn't it
Him : no I am just feeling we are in a rut sexually
Her, yes I think so to, maybe we should mix it up a bit
Him: yes I think that too.
Her: what are you thinking
Him : you have a Twin Sister don't you
Her :
Her: You have a brother dont you
Him; Sure do.
Her: How about this, we do a MMF with you and your brother and me,
Her: then we do a FFM with my Twin sister after all ladies 1st
Him : I think I am happy in this rut
Her: thought so...
Or laziness maybe ?
Or a failure to communicate you know how that must work.... or people say we must meet up again and never do.. why not be honest from the get go..... after all you go for a job and interview people are honest there... @!
If you ask me..... remove the TV, The Ipads, Iphones, PC's Laptops etc etc from the bed room.. only have a bed, two bedside tables two lamps and thats it...... Bedrooms are for sleeping and shagging simple really..... but we all know this as adults don't we..... but I need this or we need this in the bedroom.. piss off you do all you need is this..
But hubby wants to watch the game...... wife wants to stream suits season 67....
But hubby wants to watch the game...... wife wants to stream suits season 67....
i agree i had a boyfriend & if there was a TV around he would choose watching the footy over sex. Very frustrating when i hadnt seen him all week .
TantraShiva
Legend Member
Yes. The main reason for bad sex is no communication. Men want to know but girls have a hard time expressing what they want.
TantraShiva
Legend Member
Footy over sex, can see why you had a bf. I would most certainly choose you over sport
Footy over sex, can see why you had a bf. I would most certainly choose you over sport
[/QUOTEI I hope my next partner has the same way of thinking as you, ❤
When I first started having sex I wasn’t sure what I wanted which made communicating my desires harder, perhaps inexperience, not just lack of communication, also plays a part 
Best sport is what?
That is Bullshit... Men think women are mind readers and then argue with them for not having that super human power to read his mind, of what he wants.... Women know how to express themselves when they have the trust/love and comfort of being with a man they love... But we all know that right..... BUT ironically this same dude can walk into Langtrees and ask a complete stranger for these services and hand over $400 for such, that $400 could pay for a nice romantic night at crown casino where by he and his lady could re-ignite the passion they lost. BUT he gets sprung at Parlor as most men get caught in the end, and looses $400,000 plus in a messy divorce...
Down boy
Gold Member
Yep. That’s already happened 3 times this year to me.