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Polyamorous and swingers the same?📗

Iges148

Iges148

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I am curious to see if members know what polyamorous people and relationships are. Do you think it is the same as swingers, open relationships, an excuse ‘to get some’? I am polyamorous but find it hard to connect with similar people and wonder what the perception is out there.
 
I don't beleive they are the same.

Generally speaking, my understanding is that:
  • Polyamorous is when you have more than one relationship i.e. it's not just sex but a shared bond/meaningful relationship with more than one partner i.e. genuine feelings and fulfilment are involved.
  • Swingers are typically couples that enjoy having sex with other couples or singles, but it's normally a shared activity. Friendships may develop, but they are not intended to be bonded relationships as such, more "friends with benefits".
  • An open relationship is when both or one person in a couple is free to explore sex outside the relationship. Typically it's just sex, otherwise if a relationship and feelings start to develop with another partner, it moves into a polyamorous type scenario.
End of the day though, they're just all labels, and your life, relationships and sexlife are your own and don't have to be pigeon holed. I guess using labels is just a way to communicate what's going on and seek advice also.

I'm curious how you manage being polyamorous, it seems like it would present a lot of challenges. I can also imagine though that it's a situation capable of bring out the absolute best in someone and really make them feel complete. The challenge being able to manage the aspects of personalities that can cause lots of conflict, and you'd have to work so hard at communication and time management.

If you don't mind me asking are you in a polyamorous relationship now?
If so for how long, and what sort of challenges are you managing?
If I've overstepped the mark and you don't care to answer - all good. I'm just really curious about it, and thought I'd take the opportunity. 😊
 
I was in several polyamorous relationships, but in the end it has become a relationship with my first girl, who I have been married to for 30 years. There have been many challenges, spending time with different partners to avoid jealousy (that has always worked well), how is new relationship introduced to an existing relationship, how do you deal with breakups when there are multiple people involved and managing different opinions and values by all involved.
More recently I have stepped away from relationships with others, other than my partner. She is in a stage of her life where menopause is causing huge doubts and she is after stability. I love her and can understand what she must be feeling. However I cannot just switch off my polyamorous feelings. It part of my dna. That is a real challenge, but my love for her is stronger than the polyamorous feelings.
 
Hello I'm in a open relationship with 2 ladies as they love me being with them for their requirements with sex as we love being together me with one lady as she won't commit to being married or a full time partner as for the other lady she loves sex with me as we are into swinging with each other and those who love to swing with us as we love to swing with those people who loves swinging as I'd love to be in a polysexual relationship with those who love to love more than one partner. As I'd love to be in a polysexual household with those like minded people who loves each other as they love being with other's bodies who loves sex with polysexual people. As it's like a swingers party that never stops. I do know of a house that are all polysexual and all into each other's bodies as they love being with each other in the house. But as they are in each other's bodies with each other in the house. They all have one thing in common. They all share the same sti's and std's from their bodies being with other bodies as they all love doing it with those who also do the same with them. I'd love to live in a similar house with all genders who have fun with each other who loves sex in the open relationship being in a polysexual house with each other being with each other as it's a open relationship as polysexual people are into each other's bodies as they love sex with each other as we'd be living life loving more of each other as all are into swinging with each other's bodies as I want this for myself to be in one of those houses as I'd fit in with all who are in the house. As I'm clean from any diseases as I practice safe sex. As I'm a escort for genders with cocks as that's a desire for myself with trans girls as I'd love to love her as she loves being with me as I'd love to be partnered to a trans girl. Or be in a open relationship with a trans girl or two as love is love as I love being with a trans girl over being with a woman as I am in a open relationship with another 2 ladies. Neither will commit to being married to myself as they just see me for their desires for sex with me as I do. And as I do love those genders with cocks as I'd love to love more with their needs and desires with me being with them as I'm bi-sexual omisexual intersex person who loves being with those genders who have and those who don't have cocks with me. As I'd like to be partnered with a trans girl who is naturally born trans girl as I'd love her for being herself with me as I'd love her for loving me to transition myself into me being transitioned myself as I am loved by her to be married couple as 2 trans girls. But marriage is something that I want to do as I'd be working as a escort for hire and be partnered with another who is is into working as a escort as well. As I love working with other's who loves sex with me for a income and love being partnered with another who works in the same industry. Together as escort who are partnered with our bodies as we both love being together for our love for each other including our love for working as escorts with other's who loves sex with us. Not both at the same time with the same clients, either. But I can't see those ideas coming to be. As it's been very hard to find another naturally born trans girl who wants to see me transitioning myself into a trans girl like herself nor can I find a polysexual house that wants another in the house. But it is easy for me and my other girlfriend to go swinging at a swingers party as we both love being nude with other like-minded genders who loves being with those who are just the same as ourselves with having sex together as one big happy party together as I have done so for 2 decades now as I still love it. Only wish that it doesn't stop at the end of the swingers party as it is the house that I live in with those others who loves being loved by all in the house as the house is the same with a swingers party as it never end's and no one becomes married to any other in the house as everyone loves being loved by everyone else as everyone does it with everyone else who lives in the house. This would be ideal place for myself as we love being together for our love for sex with each other's bodies as we love being in a open relationship with everyone in the house. But love being nude with others who loves being with me as I'd be working as a escort for those who want me for their desires with me as I love working for what I love doing as I'd like to be partnered with another who works in the same industry as myself as I've been in relationships with working girls who loves sex with those who pay for the convenience of their time with those who are already in a relationship as they have fun with me as their relationship isn't worthy for sex as they are awesome customer's because they have a need a desire for sex as their current partner from marriage is not what it was as they still love to enjoy being with another as they love sex as they love being with me for their fun with sex as I'm bi-sexual omisexual and love working those who love me being with them. As I'd like to be partnered with another who loves me as we both love working in the same industry as escorts. As it's a open relationship with our bodies as we both love being with those who are paying customer's for us both being escorts with them. As I love naturally born trans girls who are who I want to be partnered with as I'd like to be partnered with her as she loves me enough for me to transition myself into a trans girl as I'm intersex. As I'd be complete with myself as I'd be the woman that I always wanted to be. Sounds confusing but being born with the gender of a woman with the top part of me as the bottom part is that of a man as I don't have any balls in my scrotum as my body can't make children as I'm sterile as I need a injection of testosterone as my body can't make any testosterone for my body to function normally. As I'd love to make myself complete as I'd like to transition. So I'd be all woman who has a cock as I'm not going to get rid of my cock as I love the feeling of what it does and where it goes with whoever that is paying customer as I'd like to move to Perth and work in the same industry as I already do. But in a state where it's better for me than working in a state where it's more confusing than if I was to be in Perth as I'd be working from a shop front than working from people who answering my advertisement for me as a escort. As I get a lot of prank callers. And I get real paying customer's as I am and do love open relationships with as many others as I'd love to be in a polysexual relationship with as many others who are with me as they are with other's. As I'd be there now if I was welcome into their group. As I am ok with that lifestyle as others are also ok with that lifestyle as that's where I'd be. As I'd love being loved by all as I love all for being themselves as we are ourselves together as lovers of living life loving each other's bodies as we love living life in the lifestyle that we choose to live life as lovers of being together as for the future of ourselves being ourselves together regardless of anything everything whatever that happens is because of love we have for the lifestyle that we live as it's just how things will turn out as the house stays together as one. This is a dream that I love to come true and only being a dream is best as a dream. As I'd love her that naturally born trans girl who loves me being with her as she loves me for loving her as she is a naturally born trans girl to be partnered with me as she loves the idea of me becoming more like herself as I'd only transition myself as I'd be partnered with another who loves me for me to better myself as I have always wanted to be transitioning myself as I'd be loved by a trans girl who loves me for being myself as we'd be married couple as 2 trans girls. As I'm bi-sexual omisexual polysexual adventurous exhibitionist versatile nudist open-minded broad-minded and keen for her to take me as she loves me as I'd love being with her. As I am intersex non binary gender fluid gender neutral switch swinger escort. That can take it as well as give it. CD and toy's is the way that I am different from the norm as I've been this way since birth as it's only fitting to be partnered with another who loves me as I love being with them. As I'm definitely different so that should let another naturally born trans girl to love me as I love her for loving me as much as I am with her.
 
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