Hi djakma and welcome to talking sex
I would suggest you make a post in Chit Chat and ask there for suggestions https://www.talkinsex.com/forums/chit-chat.12/
Hope you enjoy the forum as much as we do
Here @talkinsex you will have more fun & more excitement than at any other forum (it's addictive, just sayin!)
So your mind will be blown, you will have learnt so much, you will be chatting away like no other punter has chatted before whilst having a blast no doubts that you will be telling all your mates about how awesome this forum is