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Tania Desire said:
If I were in a dating pool I think it would very much depend on the guy, but my first thought here is No, I wouldn't.

It would depend on the age of the children and the age of the man. It would depend on his relationship with his ex. But I would prefer not to.
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Yes that is right ,but what if you where deeply in love.The option of I prefer to is out the window.As for myself I recently met this amazing lady and I would marry her if she had kids or not.Ok she does not but I would if she did.
 
Ahoy;- Cheers saab95tony, well done. So hear my issue;- i am an old pirate, so how do you get a date?
I have no issue with kids, no issue with marriage, but, how do you get a date?
 
happypirate said:
Ahoy;- Cheers saab95tony, well done. So hear my issue;- i am an old pirate, so how do you get a date?
I have no issue with kids, no issue with marriage, but, how do you get a date?
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Even old pirates can get dates. Just ask the lady..hopefly thing workout.
I meet this amazing lady .I am a very shy person and she said yes .
So i will ask her again and see if she will.
If I can ,You can too. Cheers
 
Ahoy Lad;- You make an old Pirate heart smile;- good on you lad, "reach for the sky and grab your prize."
Saab95Tony, you are a good positive lad, I wish you the best in all your endeavors and be happy in all you do.
Thank-you for joining the forum and be happy in life.
 
happypirate said:
Ahoy Lad;- You make an old Pirate heart smile;- good on you lad, "reach for the sky and grab your prize."
Saab95Tony, you are a good positive lad, I wish you the best in all your endeavors and be happy in all you do.
Thank-you for joining the forum and be happy in life.
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Thank you very much Happy Pirate.Cheers and same to you.
 
At my age unless I pick up some gorgeous young thing I'd be mote worried why they never had kids before now.
It would also be a bit hypocritical not going with someone with kids when I have two of my own.
If she wanted kids of our own tho that would be a different story ,I don't want any more kids of my own and have taken care of that.
I wouldn't really want to be with someone with young kids either as I've been there done that , the next young kids in my life I want to be grand kids at least that way I can give them back.
I think having young kids or babies at an old age is wrong for the kids because they cant enjoy you as a parent doing a lot of activities with them as much as a younger parent could
Its all good anyway as I'm never getting married , Why would I do a silly thing like that at my age now :)
 
sparky said:
At my age unless I pick up some gorgeous young thing I'd be mote worried why they never had kids before now.
It would also be a bit hypocritical not going with someone with kids when I have two of my own.
If she wanted kids of our own tho that would be a different story ,I don't want any more kids of my own and have taken care of that.
I wouldn't really want to be with someone with young kids either as I've been there done that , the next young kids in my life I want to be grand kids at least that way I can give them back.
I think having young kids or babies at an old age is wrong for the kids because they cant enjoy you as a parent doing a lot of activities with them as much as a younger parent could
Its all good anyway as I'm never getting married , Why would I do a silly thing like that at my age now :)
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You would do it because you meet someone you loved.That us not silly people meet a fall in love and things happen.I am not a young man 45+ and if I meet the right lady I would after a period of time ask her to marry me .It will all be worth it.
 
When it comes to dating and forming relationships you can never say "never".

No one individual will ever tick all of the boxes so for most of us that means weighing up the "package" as a whole then deciding whether to commit or move on. At 45 your freind will be very lucky indeed to find a woman in his age group without a previous relationship and possibly children from that relationship.

Dealing with that and, possibly, dealing with the ex over child support and access to the kids could be trying. Unless there was a fair bit of give and take on both sides the ex could well be a fifth wheel in the relationship and this would be a strain, particularly in the early stages.

However, if she is a good fit in every other aspect he may well change his attitude as the dating pool for him is not that deep.

If he wants to have kids with the lady in his life he had better get a move on because children shouldn't have to bury their parents while still in school (or university). He may also have to consider that maybe the lucky lady has had enough of child-bearing and motherhood and with her offspring probably at school by now she doesn't want to go back to the nappy bucket.
 
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I've dated a few ladies over the years that have had kids and I've learned one thing. It is not the lady, it is not even the kids, it is ALWAYS the ex. They have access rights and all they want to do is mess things up it the ex missus is happy and they love to use the kids to do it. Would I date a woman with kids? Only if the ex is dead or well away from the scene. That's the truth.
 
Reggie said:
I've dated a few ladies over the years that have had kids and I've learned one thing. It is not the lady, it is not even the kids, it is ALWAYS the ex. They have access rights and all they want to do is mess things up it the ex missus is happy and they love to use the kids to do it. Would I date a woman with kids? Only if the ex is dead or well away from the scene. That's the truth.
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this is how and why a lot of domestic arguments start . to date partner with children you do need to watch your back and watch for the signs of tension with your partner ,

remember you will be damned if you do and damned if you don't , not a good position to be in
 
IMO women are more accepting of dating guys with children then vice versa. However, with the high divorce rates these days, it's a high chance you may meet someone who has kids from previous relationships, especially as you get above the age of 30.

Well if you both have kids, why not create your own Brady Bunch family.
 
Better question is, will you be with someone who won't accept and love your kids?
 
I've dated a few guys that have had children and if I were to ever marry, I would prefer my future partner not to have children from a previous relationship.
 
I think that Strong Women are Really Really Sexy , and I'm reasonably certain most would Agree .
Your question ( or statement ) relates purely to Marriage ? then I guess there is something lovely about
needy , Caring as Well , Im not sure .
But I'm pretty sure I would have no problem being Married to a Really Strong Individual , both physically and Mentally , I think that would be incredible .
But , I guess its all about Balance ..Then I consider myself Strong Minded , a bit Subborn , Opinionated , and Im always the First to become emotional at a Girlie Flick , some women love that ..Some Hate it .
Same with Guys I guess . :)
 
Anastacia said:
I have met my friend who came back from England just recently. He is 45, a bit chubby, spend there a few years and made good money, and he is looking for wife now BUT he said there is no way he would consider a woman with child or children.
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Doesn't sound like your friend is such great catch himself..
 
Honestly........I would avoid a +kids relation ship. I never wanted to have kids so why put up with other people's kids? I know that sounds a bit rough but that's just being honest.
I can't picture myself as any kind of motherly person.........and I am sure I do every kid a favour if I am not ending up as their surrogate mother.
 
I had 1 child to my first partner at the tender age of 18
needless to say we grew apart
my current partner was a bit hesitant in the begining but soon realised that i was a package deal
to have me he had to accept my son.
Not to be his DAD but a mentor in his life
he and his family are very religious so it was hard for him to know that i had a child with another man.....
But now he wouldnt change a thing
he has taking onboard his role and loves my son like he was his own
we now have 3 more kids
full house LOL
i would hope that any one dealing with this situation takes the time to get to know the child before making a really bad decission
kids are our future
 
Sapphire said:
I've dated a few guys that have had children and if I were to ever marry, I would prefer my future partner not to have children from a previous relationship.
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I thick your right males are lot harder because they are harder t
Linda said:
I had 1 child to my first partner at the tender age of 18
needless to say we grew apart
my current partner was a bit hesitant in the begining but soon realised that i was a package deal
to have me he had to accept my son.
Not to be his DAD but a mentor in his life
he and his family are very religious so it was hard for him to know that i had a child with another man.....
But now he wouldnt change a thing
he has taking onboard his role and loves my son like he was his own
we now have 3 more kids
full house LOL
i would hope that any one dealing with this situation takes the time to get to know the child before making a really bad decission
kids are our future
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i am very happy for you that you and your patner are living life to the fullest and the children are number one.
 
saab95tony said:
I thick your right males are lot harder because they are harder t

i am very happy for you that you and your patner are living life to the fullest and the children are number one.
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Thanx love they are and will always be number 1
 
Otherwise this COULD transpire.....

New kid belonging to you two always right!!
Other kid always taking the blame....(Mother protecting her daughter from previous relationship!) I AM JUST SAYING.:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
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