I have often thought about contacting her and having a chat
A good hairdresser, waxing the top lip. And reducing the length of her nails. This lady has potential. She has clearly invested in lingerie and outfits.
As for the cat smell, perhaps she is oblivious to it.
I learned many years ago. You can have the most stunning-looking woman, but it comes down to this. How well she greats and treats the men. How well she performs in the bedroom.
I am plain looking, the girl next door looks. But have always done well because of the following.
Taken pride in my appearance. Invested in me with quality clothing, lingerie, and shoes. Buy the best I can afford.
Forget about the cheap sex shop lingerie or best & Less. Know your best features and build on them. Looks only get you so far. You can have the most beautiful-looking woman, But if she has a rotten attitude it spoils her. What is attracted to one person, is different to another.
I have been on the end of hateful, and distressful comments about age or dress size, and it bloody hurts.