No shows by Private Babette

[Babette of Darwin]

Well here I am on a Friday night all dressed up waiting for my client and he hasn't shown up.
What is it with men who make bookings and don't turn up?
He rang me, we spoke twice, he seemed keen enough and then didn't turn up, what a waste of my time.
Anyone else out there experience this and what do you do? Give them another chance or block their number, shame we can't take a deposit from their credit card for wasting our time

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

Babette we will start a system to share this info in our new private advertisers forum that is hopefully being set up this weekend, by the busy Canberra Madam now in Perth Aaron
I am adding the full photo where I got your avatar from to make you chuckle.Well I was but can not find where I saved it to, you will have to wait until it pops up again.

 

[Miss Monique]

So sorry to hear this has happened to you unfortunately it happens a lot. I save all my numbers of no shows, timewasters and rude gentleman so I know not to book them again. The worst thing is when you knock back other appointments because these no show men book. Treat your regular men like kings as you know they always show up

 

[johnlou]

Well here I am on a Friday night all dressed up waiting for my client and he hasn't shown up.
What is it with men who make bookings and don't turn up?
He rang me, we spoke twice, he seemed keen enough and then didn't turn up, what a waste of my time.
Anyone else out there experience this and what do you do? Give them another chance or block their number, shame we can't take a deposit from their credit card for wasting our time

hi Babette i am truly sorry to hear that a booking was made and confirmed and the client still didn't arrive , there could be many reasons for this ( car accident, wife appeared unexpectedly, and many more ) just to name a few ,

now on the other foot , i myself have made a booking with a lady 2 or 3 days in advance and also on the morning of said booking ( all asked for by the lady ) and then to phone her 15 minutes before to arranged time to receive the room number and surprise surprise no answer , so i called for the next 45 minutes and still no answer.



so my question to you and any other lady , who is @ fault ?? should both people be dragged down into the gutter for this , or should we just move onto the next playtime session .


what happens to W/L does happen to the punters no more and or no less .this is all part of the industry . some punters travel a long way to play with a particular lady , will the lady compensate the punter for the fuck around ( would you ) and i don't mean " i will make it worth your while on your next booking either or i will give you a discount on the next play time meeting . all these states are 95% crap , just stated you get you back instead of bad- mouthing the W/L in social media .

my 2 cents worth
what ever happens to W/L also happens to punters and neither accepts this
enjoy the forum

 

[Miss Monique]

Mmm having been a wl on and off for over 10 years I have had to cancel maybe 5 times. Only once was not able to let client know.I think the real issue for WL we deal with crap as it's been put day and night 24/7 it wears you down. On a daily basis I have at least 2 appointment cancel after giving my address at least a couple of no shows a week, deal with many rude total disrespectful men every day, then phone calls and messages in the middle of the night I only work days last night cock pics sent man asking would I visit for 1 hour $100 thank goodness these events are less then the wonderful men who take the time to read your ad in full who remember their manners and are just a pleasure to see. Not all wl are timewasters the same way not all men are. Yes I get their are many wl who are not all there for what ever reasons and waste mens time but we are not all like that luv. Forgive me for my rant

 

[HappyPirate]

Ahoy;- Excellent Thread, Excellent Debate.
Well written guys.

 

[johnlou]

another issue i have come across is the W/L double books all the time and the 1st punter to the address when she is available get the prize ,

enjoy your day and weekend

 

[Phoebe]

Ok so we live in a mobile world, you book a WL you can not make it call her and tell her how hard is that, unless you are married well then use some ingenuity and call her from a mens toilet and say you need to cancel but you will book some other time, but do it with some time ahead so the WL can get another booking..

Same goes for WL' if you can not make it, really call the client and say you need to cancel but you will take his booking some other time how hard is that, also I would call as the escort and say I need to cancel at short notice, but if you book me again or arrange another one say I will give you 15-20 mins for the same price....

my 2 cents worth mobile phones make things easier come on people...

 

[Dallas]

Some of the ladies that I've seen privately actually request a deposit in advance, via paypal. One lady I know charges 50% when she's touring. I think that's fair provided it's refundable if she has to cancel for some reason.

I think some guys make a booking but then later find someone else and don't cancel the original booking. Just a theory.

 

[johnlou]

Some of the ladies that I've seen privately actually request a deposit in advance, via paypal. One lady I know charges 50% when she's touring. I think that's fair provided it's refundable if she has to cancel for some reason.

I think some guys make a booking but then later find someone else and don't cancel the original booking. Just a theory.

Dallas this is a problem , a lot of ladies do not refund for any reason even if it is their fault . many QLDers have been burnt in the past from touring W/L

 

[Miss Monique]

Dallas this is a problem , a lot of ladies do not refund for any reason even if it is their fault . many QLDers have been burnt in the past from touring W/L

If payment is made via PayPal are they asked for gifted family and friends? As normal PP payment can be disputed.

 

[Happy2]

If payment is made via PayPal are they asked for gifted family and friends? As normal PP payment can be disputed.

You know us fellas I bet many men who lose their deposits in the fashion Johnlou mentioned Just walk away Just don't want anybody to know about it Yes I know the dealings are anonymous but that doesn't really come into play regularly It is a silly male pride/embarrassment thing maybe

 

[MikeB]

hi Babette i am truly sorry to hear that a booking was made and confirmed and the client still didn't arrive , there could be many reasons for this ( car accident, wife appeared unexpectedly, and many more ) just to name a few ,

now on the other foot , i myself have made a booking with a lady 2 or 3 days in advance and also on the morning of said booking ( all asked for by the lady ) and then to phone her 15 minutes before to arranged time to receive the room number and surprise surprise no answer , so i called for the next 45 minutes and still no answer.



so my question to you and any other lady , who is @ fault ?? should both people be dragged down into the gutter for this , or should we just move onto the next playtime session .


what happens to W/L does happen to the punters no more and or no less .this is all part of the industry . some punters travel a long way to play with a particular lady , will the lady compensate the punter for the f**k around ( would you ) and i don't mean " i will make it worth your while on your next booking either or i will give you a discount on the next play time meeting . all these states are 95% crap , just stated you get you back instead of bad- mouthing the W/L in social media .

my 2 cents worth
what ever happens to W/L also happens to punters and neither accepts this
enjoy the forum

Unfortunately johnlou, the lady no answer is all too common.

Often it means they do back to back bookings and if the previous booking extends, in the heat of the action they can't or won't press the pause button to let the next client to cancel or delay. Usually they don't want to delay the next otherwise it just dominos!

Still very annoying, maybe punters should share this info just like the ladies in this thread suggest sharing the no show punters? Assume a good receptionist at an establishment would make sure this does not arise, is a risk with a private.

 

[Babette of Darwin]

hi Babette i am truly sorry to hear that a booking was made and confirmed and the client still didn't arrive , there could be many reasons for this ( car accident, wife appeared unexpectedly, and many more ) just to name a few ,

now on the other foot , i myself have made a booking with a lady 2 or 3 days in advance and also on the morning of said booking ( all asked for by the lady ) and then to phone her 15 minutes before to arranged time to receive the room number and surprise surprise no answer , so i called for the next 45 minutes and still no answer.



so my question to you and any other lady , who is @ fault ?? should both people be dragged down into the gutter for this , or should we just move onto the next playtime session .


what happens to W/L does happen to the punters no more and or no less .this is all part of the industry . some punters travel a long way to play with a particular lady , will the lady compensate the punter for the f**k around ( would you ) and i don't mean " i will make it worth your while on your next booking either or i will give you a discount on the next play time meeting . all these states are 95% crap , just stated you get you back instead of bad- mouthing the W/L in social media .

my 2 cents worth
what ever happens to W/L also happens to punters and neither accepts this
enjoy the forum

Hi there, it's interesting to hear it from a males perspective and for the record I've never let a client down, but obviously it does happen, I imagine it's not good business sense for the W/L to do this to clients too often or she will find herself out of work very quickly, word gets around, I have had a few referrals via word of mouth so know that men do talk about working ladies whether good or bad. I am sorry you had such a bad experience, I get quite a few cancellations and it's just part of the job really but it does suck when you turn someone down and then your client doesn't show up but there's not much you can do, you just don't give them another chance unless they ring and apologise with a good excuse for the no show. I've also had 2 young men recently who are regulars have sex with me and then say oh I forgot my wallet, lesson learnt, cash upfront even with regulars who normally pay.

 

[johnlou]

Babette, it all works both ways and for a W/L to do it , it is financial suicide .
as for the no payment upfront , i too have had such a great time with my reg @ the time , and i left without paying and remembered half way home , so i called the lady to apologies and she did not realise until i called her . so we agreed for me to pay her the following week ( double payment )

 

[MikeB]

Hi there, it's interesting to hear it from a males perspective and for the record I've never let a client down, but obviously it does happen, I imagine it's not good business sense for the W/L to do this to clients too often or she will find herself out of work very quickly, word gets around, I have had a few referrals via word of mouth so know that men do talk about working ladies whether good or bad. I am sorry you had such a bad experience, I get quite a few cancellations and it's just part of the job really but it does suck when you turn someone down and then your client doesn't show up but there's not much you can do, you just don't give them another chance unless they ring and apologise with a good excuse for the no show. I've also had 2 young men recently who are regulars have sex with me and then say oh I forgot my wallet, lesson learnt, cash upfront even with regulars who normally pay.

Babette,

Time management and client management skill are as important, if not more so than bedroom skills for successful private W/L I'm sure. I take my hat off to a lady who can achieve this.

While I get disappointed at the no answers or last minute cancellation, I must admit some of my best sessions have been with ladies who have been let down by no shows or cancellation before me lol!

They so love what they do, that they need someone to release with - right place right time treat them right and wow!!! Often starts as a sympathetic/empathetic ear or shoulder then builds. We are all human here, not machines after all.

 

[Dallas]

If payment is made via PayPal are they asked for gifted family and friends? As normal PP payment can be disputed.

Good question, I've never used paypal that much but as far as I can tell it was just regular paypal. But I think that as long as the lady states that it is a gift or a donation then it can't be disputed. Still, I would never pay a deposit with someone I didn't already have dealings with and knew was reliable. But then again in this situation, she knows I am too so usually doesn't ask me for a deposit. It's why I like to see a regular lady, when there's some trust and understanding, it becomes so much simpler to organise!