Need help with my girlfriend

[22 Blue]

I need some advice about my girlfriend

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

ask away

 

[22 Blue]

She is very possessive and wants me all to herself, I am having sex with three other girls. I am too young to settle down, she wants me to get married to her and have lots of kids

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

Moved to its own thread, I would say get a FIFO job and run.

 

[Sexty8]

Sit her down and make her watch the movie “hes just not that into you”....

 

[Lord Spikey]

She is very possessive and wants me all to herself, I am having sex with three other girls. I am too young to settle down, she wants me to get married to her and have lots of kids

Here is my advice:

You say she is your GIRLFRIEND.
Don't be a arsehole. Be loyal and faithful to her alone.
If you don't want to do that, then break up with her.
Don't be an arsehole

 

[Slugger1]

Yep, man up and let her down gently if she thinks it will lead to something more, as she has feelings.
Play the field by all means but try and be honest as they will find out anyway!

 

[22 Blue]

Thanks for your advice I will tell her about me seeing other women and be honest with her. An see where it ends

 

[Penny S]

Wish you luck mate hope to you don't get any scratch marks later

 

[Annabelle Davies]

Thanks for your advice I will tell her about me seeing other women and be honest with her. An see where it ends

I think the point the others were making was be upfront at the beginning of the relationship... life is a game but play it right and be a good sport

 

[Terti]

She is very possessive and wants me all to herself, I am having sex with three other girls. I am too young to settle down, she wants me to get married to her and have lots of kids

You need to be honest with her, say that you don’t see marriage or kids in the immediate future. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind .

 

[John Smithl]

First rule, always be truthful.
Second rule, always be truthful.
Third rule, be true to yourself and tread your own path, even if it may diverge from hers. It gives an opportunity to find what she is looking for.

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My partner and I have been together for two years. She knew from the very start of my interest in having more partners and exploring with others. She was dating someone else for a little while and found out it wasn't for her. We have both been honest and open with all the feelings arising. We've to a swingers night together and plan to go again. I'd very much like to experience an ffm threesome which she knows about. I have also mentioned seeing escorts as well, which would most likely be the best way to experience the threesome.

Be truthful, be open. A man that can compassionately stand in his truth in all aspects is needed in this day and age despite society , social and peer pressure, etc.

Keep us all posted on how you go.

 

[Pluck a Duck]

Dump her and I'll take over. I've a big one!

 

[ozwarlock67]

Here is my advice:

You say she is your GIRLFRIEND.
Don't be a arsehole. Be loyal and faithful to her alone.
If you don't want to do that, then break up with her.
Don't be an arsehole

Three other girls!!!!! Talk about stamina!
Lord Spikey is right. I hope by now you've finished up with her as that kind of setup has no future.