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My journey into seeing SW and some things I've learned.

2daysoff1

2daysoff1

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When I started seeing SW, I saw all these stunningly beautiful women advertising and assumed that they would only want to see good looking, young, virile type guys.
Imagine my surprise when I found that my hygiene, my ability to follow directions, respect boundaries, be polite and honest meant much more than my looks, physicality and age.
Deposits and screening have gone from being something I worried about to knowing it is a way to ensure her safety and to a certain degree, mine. I'm going to pay her so what does it matter if it's before or on the day. There's plenty of info available to get a good indication of who you are dealing with.
I try to follow her instructions/conditions, I'm about to spend money to enjoy myself with a woman, the last thing I want to do is piss her off. That's not really going to work in my favour.
In my younger years, being very shy, I never got to have the range of sexual experiences I saw others having. I was so shy and lacking in confidence that my fear of rejection overcame my desire for sex. Now, many years later and SW have became so much more accessible, I'm not interested in affairs or flings so seeing SW has allowed me to experience the things I missed in the past such as different body types, ages, nationalities. It has allowed me to try these things in a consensual way with a high level of discretion and awareness of sexual health.
Being able to discuss what I'd like beforehand has led to some great times, I'd rather ask and be told no than to hear don't do that.
I've also had herpes for many years and telling the SW concerned has, I believe, helped build a level of trust.
I don't go to a booking thinking I'm some sort of sex god and I'm going to blow her mind, I go there hoping it won't be unpleasant for her and at best, that maybe she gets some level of enjoyment herself.
Something I've often wondered.
I may see a particular SW worker and would love to see her again. Now this will depend on the "ances" Fin"ances" and Circumst"ances"
Now I'm not going to contact her until I can book again. I'll send a thank you message straight after a booking but that's it.
Do SW ever wish a client would book again?
 
2daysoff1 said:
When I started seeing SW, I saw all these stunningly beautiful women advertising and assumed that they would only want to see good looking, young, virile type guys.
Imagine my surprise when I found that my hygiene, my ability to follow directions, respect boundaries, be polite and honest meant much more than my looks, physicality and age.
Deposits and screening have gone from being something I worried about to knowing it is a way to ensure her safety and to a certain degree, mine. I'm going to pay her so what does it matter if it's before or on the day. There's plenty of info available to get a good indication of who you are dealing with.
I try to follow her instructions/conditions, I'm about to spend money to enjoy myself with a woman, the last thing I want to do is piss her off. That's not really going to work in my favour.
In my younger years, being very shy, I never got to have the range of sexual experiences I saw others having. I was so shy and lacking in confidence that my fear of rejection overcame my desire for sex. Now, many years later and SW have became so much more accessible, I'm not interested in affairs or flings so seeing SW has allowed me to experience the things I missed in the past such as different body types, ages, nationalities. It has allowed me to try these things in a consensual way with a high level of discretion and awareness of sexual health.
Being able to discuss what I'd like beforehand has led to some great times, I'd rather ask and be told no than to hear don't do that.
I've also had herpes for many years and telling the SW concerned has, I believe, helped build a level of trust.
I don't go to a booking thinking I'm some sort of sex god and I'm going to blow her mind, I go there hoping it won't be unpleasant for her and at best, that maybe she gets some level of enjoyment herself.
Something I've often wondered.
I may see a particular SW worker and would love to see her again. Now this will depend on the "ances" Fin"ances" and Circumst"ances"
Now I'm not going to contact her until I can book again. I'll send a thank you message straight after a booking but that's it.
Do SW ever wish a client would book again?
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I love hearing stories like yours…the first thing that came to mind was “how you were concerned about what she would think of you“ that’s really sweet xx
It’s never ever about looks or appearance for me, only their presence.
And hey if a client is not so nice, maybe being nice still can change that!? and if not cool you don’t lower your standards to be unkind back.

But if you had a great time with her, yeah why the hell not book her again.
Regular clients are wonderful if it’s kept professional.
Happy punting 2daysoff1

Alana K
XXX
 
Alana K said:
Regular clients are wonderful if it’s kept professional.
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If a client books longer than one hour between sessions there is a lot of time to speak.. which means this :

Once you know her cats name, and how many children she may have, and how she spends her downtime away from the scene its time to move on... Regulars maybe great for the cash flow side of the game, but for some the regularity and the lines that this game needs are blurred..

But I know of a few dudes over east that live by the 3 booking rule no matter how model looking, or how great the booking experience is, 3, 1 hour bookings and that's it.. but once you know her cats or dogs names its all over its became to personal as you not only know say Alana K but you are starting to know Maud Edmiston also which can lead to a client actually finding out things you don't wish to share...

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