I think that often the ability for a male to have multiple orgasm is restricted only by themselves. If you have a pre arranged expectation of an orgasm (or anything else for that matter) then you will always get exactly what you expect, however if you dare to expect that there's more that's possible, then you open yourself up to a whole world of possibilities! This might sound like a flower power, hippie way of thinking, but, believe me, it's true. You need to hold back and allow yourself to keep going through the sensation. Like holding back the tide mentally, and surfing the wave physically. This then builds and builds...and builds, then you need to have the strenght to keep surfing, even when your body says you've already reached the shore... :laughing4
Try it, what's the worst that can happen?
Lisa xxx