Maintaining professional boundaries

[Tiah Tiara]

As a professional Escort, I aim to give my clients and customers a quality memorable experience and ensure a satisfactory service which creates an ongoing professional friendship. However...
It's very annoying when clients catch feelings and try to pursue a personal sexual relationship.

How do I keep the boundaries clear without disrupting an otherwise wonderful connection??

Any advice?

 

[Nina Stone]

As a professional Escort, I aim to give my clients and customers a quality memorable experience and ensure a satisfactory service which creates an ongoing professional friendship. However...
It's very annoying when clients catch feelings and try to pursue a personal sexual relationship.

How do I keep the boundaries clear without disrupting an otherwise wonderful connection??

Any advice?

This is a fantastic question to ask the forum.

I have had my own fair share of these instance’s happening during my professional career.

It is never easy to let anyone down when you don’t feel the same way, let alone when they are your client.

Suggestions welcome from punters. Help us figure this out

 

[mrys]

Truth is the best. You meet clients on a pay per meet basis. Remind them of that. It's your business not you dating looking for a life partner. Clients sometimes confuse the transaction with something more. Your question is bitter sweet as it says you are doing your job brilliantly and or the guy is looking for something to compensate a void in his life in an unlikely place. Yes I have had feelings for a WL and a WL has had feelings for me, both situations were awkward. And I'm happy we both walked away happy. Truth wins just tell them the truth as soon as you think they have feels for you.

 

[LongHair]

I am with Mrys on this one, truth is essential, it may be a little bit of short term pain for the client, however you are saving them from long term heartache.

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

I've lost so many clients to this I now have started drawing boundaries from the start as soon as I see they want more, I feel so mean because they are lovely but they can't understand that I'm not after more but I've learnt the hard way with not setting firm boundaries from the beginning. It's really rough but the only way to do the right thing is be honest, I've told clients I'm not looking for anything more and I absolutely don't want a relationship with anyone for a very long time and even that doesn't work because they think they can change my mind. Now I have to end our professional relationship because it's not fair on them to continue when they want more than I can ever give.