Lord Spikey : please tell me again why you and your friends left Talkin Sex to start your own sex forum .
then please tell me why you have come back to the forum you and your friends don't want to be a member .
Hi Johnlou
Thanks for your question. I am glad you asked.
I can only answer you, to the extent that I am willing to discuss my personal feelings, from my point of view and perception. You will need to ask my "friends" yourself to get their answers.
I took a break from Talkinsex after careful consideration of a series of uncomfortable post conversations that trended badly over time, culminating in a barrage of unjustified criticism and abuse. Rumours abounded about TS going down and as I enjoy the camaraderie offered by forums such as TS and "similar". I decided to be part of a solution, as opposed to being the target of a problem. At that time, the moderators of TS seemed not to mind what was going on and can only guess that was because interest was waning.
The reason I am re-engaging with Talkinsex is threefold:
1. Our similar forum has closed through lack of interest.
2. As mentioned, I enjoy the camaraderie offered by forums and
3. Talkinsex seems to have had a significant change in culture, such that there is not as much vitriol flowing, with perhaps one or two exceptions.
Again you would need to ask my "friends" their reason.
I cannot speak for them.
I trust this satisfies your curiosity.