Is seeing an escort cheating?

Bill75

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Yes I agree
After a massive row with the Mrs, I always tell her I'm just ducking down to the local rub & tug to fix the situation... Always works a treat and can't understand why any woman would have an issue with it 🤔
If you're hiding something then its Cheating.... Whether it's with your favourite regular escort whilst working on your marriage lol, Suzie down the corner knock shop or Sally from the office....
 

Ruckus

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Haha yes.. if you're keeping it secret from them and they aren't ok with it.
Maybe establish those boundaries long ago
 

Bluey

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I wonder If the situation was reversed, and our wives/girlfriends were caught out secretly seeing a WM would we be ok with that…..
 

azcort

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i feel that if you are in a sexless marriage, its way better to see an escort than to have a mistress.... so to me its the lesser of two evils
 

AlwaysUp

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i feel that if you are in a sexless marriage, its way better to see an escort than to have a mistress.... so to me its the lesser of two evils

I am happy with the marriage, but 100% not happy with the sex. I like it a lot, she likes it a lot less.

I like my house too much to get separated!

So I want to keep the peace. No harassment/ begging for sex and feeling shitty for the rejection. Happy to pay by the hour and get EXACTLY what I want.

If it's judged as cheating, then I am happy with that. Each to their own, I prefer to be that happy person that gets what I want rather than be a miserable cranky frustrated bastard.
 

Marko99999

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I don’t think it is.. I think there’s two sides to it thou so it’s 50/50.
men have testosterone so we constantly have the urge to satisfy our sexual desires.. that’s the physical aspect”
Mentally yes it’s cheating as you are going behind your parters back..
 
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PerthBoy1987

I would think so but if the partner is happy for you to do that then its all good.
 
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SmilyECoyote

I am happy with the marriage, but 100% not happy with the sex. I like it a lot, she likes it a lot less.

I like my house too much to get separated!

So I want to keep the peace. No harassment/ begging for sex and feeling shitty for the rejection. Happy to pay by the hour and get EXACTLY what I want.

If it's judged as cheating, then I am happy with that. Each to their own, I prefer to be that happy person that gets what I want rather than be a miserable cranky frustrated bastard.
well said and I think that sentiment would apply to a number of guys
 

No idea what to do

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No other way to look at it, Yes seeing an escort is cheating, even if your partner knows you are
some accept it Mine would not
Pretty sure it would cost me 1 or 2M

What she don't know wont hurt IMO I convinced myself Yes It was dick :excited: Brain
 

Lacie4U

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No other way to look at it, Yes seeing an escort is cheating, even if your partner knows you are
some accept it Mine would not
Pretty sure it would cost me 1 or 2M

What she don't know wont hurt IMO I convinced myself Yes It was dick :excited: Brain
I suspect you may not be alone in trying to convince yourself “ what she doesn’t know won’t hurt”
 

Tallboy

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Choose a working lady at $100 to $200 a week/fortnight/month or lose your home or $500 000 to leave your wife or partner.
The law Makes it an easy decision.
 
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