Is Kissing a Member of the same Sex Cheating?

[Dallas]

I think there's a rule of disclosure in any relationship where you are expected to tell your partner things that you know would otherwise upset them if they found out on their own.

 

[Madam Tracey]

a lie of omission is still a lie...

NO IT'S NOT. It neither is nor isn't...is the word equivocal or ambivalent ....it's not a lie....even though it can't be the truth by omission .

 

[XLNC]

NO IT'S NOT. It neither is nor isn't...is the word equivocal or ambivalent ....it's not a lie....even though it can't be the truth by omission .

Hmm... Sound a bit defensive there. Have you been smooching your wares?

 

[Happy2]

Then you could both play, dismember datmember

So the witness protection people brought you to OZ and gave you the identity of Dallas did they Mrs Lorena Bobbit ?

 

[Langtrees VIP Darwin]

You dont have to have sex or kiss to cheat. If you find yourself deleting messages, i'd say your probably there.

 

[Madam Tracey]

You dont have to have sex or kiss to cheat. If you find yourself deleting messages, i'd say your probably there.

If you are deleting messages does that mean you have no privacy....that someone might be going through your phone or email..!! Invasion of privacy....up there with cheating...not as bad as saying nothing.

 

[Happy2]

Hey Cyclone when we xxx with xxx Debby xxxxxx will we still be wearing that xxx And when Rochelle and Morgan Sapphire xxxxx
Hey who deleted my post ?

 

[Langtrees VIP Perth]

You dont have to have sex or kiss to cheat. If you find yourself deleting messages, i'd say your probably there.

I 100% agree with you. Cheating where its emotional rather than physical is much worse.

 

[Ziggy Pop]

If you are deleting messages does that mean you have no privacy....that someone might be going through your phone or email..!! Invasion of privacy....up there with cheating...not as bad as saying nothing.

These are all examples of acts of deceit. How does one differentiate between these, and what makes one of them worse than the others?

If any of these things are happening in a relationship, I would get out straight away.

 

[Langtrees VIP Perth]

These are all examples of acts of deceit. How does one differentiate between these, and what makes one of them worse than the others?

If any of these things are happening in a relationship, I would get out straight away.

Unfortunately sometimes you don't know about these sorts of things until it is too late.

 

[markeys]

My wife and i are both bi, but we have a simple rule we only play together even if one is just a voyeur,
I dont see how doing something with someone of the opposite sex is any less cheating than doing something with the same sex.

 

[Happy2]

My wife and i are both bi, but we have a simple rule we only play together even if one is just a voyeur,
I dont see how doing something with someone of the opposite sex is any less cheating than doing something with the same sex.

I personally consider what your doing to be miles away from cheating
Absolutely miles from cheating

 

[Dallas]

It's not cheating if you and your partner have rules and know and agree to what each other is doing such as in open relationships as well as polyamorous ones.

 

[homer]

Would one be cheating if they visit Swanbourne?

 

[Dallas]

Would one be cheating if they visit Swanbourne?

This is a good question homer, I'd say yes if you were the one doing the picking up, but if you were laying their trying to look inconspicuous and some guy hits on you then as long as you say noooo I'm taken, it's all good

 

[homer]

This is a good question homer, I'd say yes if you were the one doing the picking up, but if you were laying their trying to look inconspicuous and some guy hits on you then as long as you say noooo I'm taken, it's all good

That is a good answer Dallas, if you say so.

 

[Dallas]

That is a good answer Dallas, if you say so.

Ideally you get hit on by a girl though

 

[homer]

Ideally you get hit on by a girl though

Yes ideally but not at Swanbourne.

 

[Happy2]

Yes ideally but not at Swanbourne.

What is wrong with being picked up by a girl in Swanbourne Homer?
Please exploin !

 

[homer]

yes, Miss Hansen. Goils ain't goils at Swanbourne.

 

[DitaTempest1]

Intent is a big thing. If the person is attracted to the person they're kissing and they'd know their partner would consider kissing cheating then that speaks for itself. Whatever kind of body a person inhabits doesn't factor in for me, I don't really get why there are different rules for different genders.

I agree.. Like the song says, "A kiss is just a kiss..." BUT... I think it depends greatly on the situation: if you kiss someone and it feels like cheating, then it probably is...

 

[XLNC]

... if you kiss someone and it feels like cheating, then it probably is...

Exactly -- most people (not psychopaths) have something called a conscience to tell them if they've done something wrong.

 

[Rochelle]

What about if you just say nothing...that's not lying?

LOL.......it is a bit of a technicality but I have to admit it works.........

 

[Jaylily]

I am on the fence about this. Until it actually happened I don't know how I would feel about it.

 

[Viktoria Richards]

It all depends on your relationship arrangement. You probably know if your partner would be cool with it or not.

 

[Matt C Harlots]

Hmm Very Good Question, Depends is it just a bit of Bi fun or a serious romp with feelings?

 

[Ciao Baby]

Of course it is
No matter how u try 2 sugar coat it cheating is still cheating