Brother this might not be a popular answer among others. True rapport and connection can seldomly be achieved in this context. Even when there is potential there is something in the way.
This is better sourced elsewhere without the attachment of intimacy. Ironically true connection and intimacy may be achieved from there.
In the context of the industry, pay for what you want, take it, and separate your feelings. If it is not ideal, don’t take it personally. If it goes amazing beyond expectations, then especially don’t take it personally. Enjoy it for what it is, and don’t force it for what it is not.
Yours sincerely
Yoda
