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Interview with a Perth Male Escort
24th of January 2014 6:15pm. By Custer
As I waited in a Fast Eddy’s restaurant on one of those humid and uncomfortably sticky evenings for the arrival of Paul, the Perth Male Escort, over a Pineapple Juice I did not know what to expect. When Paul arrived he was wearing a casual red shirt and jeans. He was well groomed and clean cut, yet not over groomed. He is well into his late 40’s. His physique is reasonably healthy, yet non athletic. As I stood up and shook his hand he emanated pleasantness in his smile. In a nutshell, he is a pleasant and good bloke. However, if anyone were to bump into him on the street no one would ever suspect that he is a Perth Male Escort, who has been good at what he is doing for over 10 years.
Paul ordered himself a flat white and finishes off the small talk that is hard to avoid. What became apparent immediately is that this gentleman oozes a confidence that is balanced by a kindness that makes him a strong presence. I begin to see why ladies would be putty in his hands even though he does not possess the stereotypical image of what a typical make escort should look like.
As we began, we set the level of discretion that Paul wanted in the publishing of this interview. He first specified that he does not want his working name or online profile to be disclosed in this interview and was ok with not receiving publicity from this interview. He stated that the discretion is more for his regular clients than it is for himself. As in the eyes of the female clients, seeing a male escort is considered a taboo activity, which they like to keep quiet. Women are a lot more hesitant to be involved and/or admit to seeing escorts and he did not want them to find out about this interview. I respectfully agreed to that and we move on.
Paul can you give me an idea of how frequent your bookings are?
In general, work is a lot scarcer when comparing it to the amount of work that female Perth escorts get. There are two main reasons for this.
I am 100% straight. This means that I do not provide any services whatsoever that involves physical contact with other males. Although I do offer threesomes with couples where there is no male-to-male contact. The majority of clientele in the Perth escort industry is predominantly male and male escorts that provide homosexual services get a lot more work.
There are very few women that think about seeing a male escort. In fact only about 10% think about it and within that 10%, only a couple of them would pick up the phone and take some sort of action.
So I must ask Paul, why do you do this?
It is definitely not for the money. I have another career that I am doing very well in and I will never give that up. I feel that if I was ever to give up my career and rely on this, the dependence would bring about a level of desperation. It would show through to my clients and it would never be the same to me.
I do this because I love the adrenaline rush. I love the feeling of being wanted. When a woman is willing to be with me without having to pay them it is already a great feeling. But when they are willing to pay me for my company it is a wonderful feeling.
At times I am taken out to restaurants like Rock Pool where I am wined, dined, and pampered. I love that.
So how much do you charge for your services?
I charge $250 for 2 hours and that is negotiable.
Wow, that sounds like a great deal when comparing to what a lot of female Perth escorts charge.
It sure does, but one has to be in tune with what market is there.
So Paul, tell us about the kind of women that you have had the privilege of meeting that are patrons to your company and services.
Most of the women are in the age group of between 40 and 60 years of age. A few of them are between 60 and 70. They are generally women who are well presented and very pleasant. Many of them are very successful career women or women that are married and well established financially.
For example I have many regulars. The one who has been my regular for the longest (about 8 years) is a Singaporean business lady who travels here for business and sees me every time she is in Perth.
What are the needs these women are looking to meet by coming to see you?
A lot of the times they require a shoulder to cry on, alleviate loneliness, some companionship, and a some of the time they do not even require sex. A lot of the time and energy on my part is spent on building a connection and then counselling these ladies.
Does this have a tendency to create a relationship of some sort that can have certain demands beyond a professional transaction?
Yes…. about two thirds to half of my clients develop some sort of relationship with me and yes, they can become somewhat dependent and needy. This can and has taken away from my personal life in the past. I do out calls and hotel in calls now. But I once allowed clients to know where I live. That did not turn out so well due to their needing beyond what I am able to provide. So now I keep the location of my private residence confidential.
Is there a type of clientele that you least prefer?
The hardest clients to deal with are mostly under the age of 35 and ninety per cent of very attractive women are a pain in the ass. They are very aware of the way they look and know that they can pick up men easily for free. Because of that they are rather demanding and judgemental.
Can you give me an example?
I turned up to a private residence once and when the door opened, the lady said. Oh…you’re not as athletic as I expected. She said this in a judgemental tone. I turned around and left. I do not put up with this kind of disrespect.
Rejection of that type is rare, as the types of women who seek this kind of service are looking for something that is far deeper than skin.
That leads me onto the next question. As you are not the stereotypic image of a male escort at least in my mind of a Calvin Klein Model type, how has that been working out for you?
It has been great. As I said before women who are after those sorts of men are typically a certain age that possess certain physical traits. They are more than happy to go and search for those men in a pub.
The kinds of women that are comfortable enough to use the services of a male escort do not want to see that. They are comfortable with somebody like me. I am a real person and being non-intimidating is probably the most important aspect.
I have a wealth of life experiences that has given me qualities that a lot of young men with little more than a great body can offer. Many of the qualities that I pointed out in my earlier answers are what women come to see me for.
Now I have a question that I am very curious about that I am sure a lot of readers would love to know. Have you ever had trouble performing physically? As men need to have a level of mechanical functionality before he can fulfil on the act.
Very seldom has that ever happened, as connection is the key and that has to be genuine and goes both ways. On occasions this sort of things has happened, it is for other reasons. Let me tell you a funny story.
I once turned up to an outcall where the home was a very lush place. A huge house with beautiful gardens and lions on either side of the gate. You get the idea. As I knock a nice looking lady greets me. She leads me to a bedroom and things begin to escalate towards that direction. As we are getting into it I hear a thump from the closet… I was startled. When I checked, it was her husband in there with his cock in his hand while he was watching us. I took a second to understand what was going on. After that, it totally killed the mood. Nothing more was going to happen.
Wow…. that’s a quite a story that sounds like it comes out of a porn movie…. Paul tell us how you got into this industry.
Well interestingly enough it was over a dare. I once had a job where I worked around a lot of working ladies. I remember one Sunday afternoon we were looking at the classifieds in the paper and had a conversation about how there is so much choice for men out there, but not for the ladies. I had a look at what ads were available for Perth male escorts and said to the ladies I can do this. One of the ladies said I dare you….and the prize was a bottle of whiskey. So me being the way I am I placed an ad in the paper. The day the ad turned up I got a booking, that evening. I was nervous as a wreck in my first booking. That was more than 10 years ago and the rest is history.
In your opinion, what qualities does a man need to have in order to be a male escort?
Being a reasonable matured and evolved person, a nice person, be yourself. Most importantly, do not blow your own trumpet.
Well Paul before we wrap this up I would like to ask if there were a message you wanted to put out there from a male Perth escort, what would it be?
Let me think about this for a minute before I answer you.
For the ladies who are thinking about seeing a male escort, know that we don’t bite. Society has come a long way and there is nothing wrong with using the services of service providers like myself to meet a wide variety of needs.
To call one of us is a lot less risky and a can be a lot more pleasant than if you were to go home with a guy you meet in a pub or a club.
Thank you very much Paul for offering us an insight into the world of male escorting in Perth. I for one, as I am sure many readers have, have learned a lot about this side of the industry that many have not thought of. It has been most pleasant.
24th of January 2014 6:15pm. By Custer
As I waited in a Fast Eddy’s restaurant on one of those humid and uncomfortably sticky evenings for the arrival of Paul, the Perth Male Escort, over a Pineapple Juice I did not know what to expect. When Paul arrived he was wearing a casual red shirt and jeans. He was well groomed and clean cut, yet not over groomed. He is well into his late 40’s. His physique is reasonably healthy, yet non athletic. As I stood up and shook his hand he emanated pleasantness in his smile. In a nutshell, he is a pleasant and good bloke. However, if anyone were to bump into him on the street no one would ever suspect that he is a Perth Male Escort, who has been good at what he is doing for over 10 years.
Paul ordered himself a flat white and finishes off the small talk that is hard to avoid. What became apparent immediately is that this gentleman oozes a confidence that is balanced by a kindness that makes him a strong presence. I begin to see why ladies would be putty in his hands even though he does not possess the stereotypical image of what a typical make escort should look like.
As we began, we set the level of discretion that Paul wanted in the publishing of this interview. He first specified that he does not want his working name or online profile to be disclosed in this interview and was ok with not receiving publicity from this interview. He stated that the discretion is more for his regular clients than it is for himself. As in the eyes of the female clients, seeing a male escort is considered a taboo activity, which they like to keep quiet. Women are a lot more hesitant to be involved and/or admit to seeing escorts and he did not want them to find out about this interview. I respectfully agreed to that and we move on.
Paul can you give me an idea of how frequent your bookings are?
In general, work is a lot scarcer when comparing it to the amount of work that female Perth escorts get. There are two main reasons for this.
I am 100% straight. This means that I do not provide any services whatsoever that involves physical contact with other males. Although I do offer threesomes with couples where there is no male-to-male contact. The majority of clientele in the Perth escort industry is predominantly male and male escorts that provide homosexual services get a lot more work.
There are very few women that think about seeing a male escort. In fact only about 10% think about it and within that 10%, only a couple of them would pick up the phone and take some sort of action.
So I must ask Paul, why do you do this?
It is definitely not for the money. I have another career that I am doing very well in and I will never give that up. I feel that if I was ever to give up my career and rely on this, the dependence would bring about a level of desperation. It would show through to my clients and it would never be the same to me.
I do this because I love the adrenaline rush. I love the feeling of being wanted. When a woman is willing to be with me without having to pay them it is already a great feeling. But when they are willing to pay me for my company it is a wonderful feeling.
At times I am taken out to restaurants like Rock Pool where I am wined, dined, and pampered. I love that.
So how much do you charge for your services?
I charge $250 for 2 hours and that is negotiable.
Wow, that sounds like a great deal when comparing to what a lot of female Perth escorts charge.
It sure does, but one has to be in tune with what market is there.
So Paul, tell us about the kind of women that you have had the privilege of meeting that are patrons to your company and services.
Most of the women are in the age group of between 40 and 60 years of age. A few of them are between 60 and 70. They are generally women who are well presented and very pleasant. Many of them are very successful career women or women that are married and well established financially.
For example I have many regulars. The one who has been my regular for the longest (about 8 years) is a Singaporean business lady who travels here for business and sees me every time she is in Perth.
What are the needs these women are looking to meet by coming to see you?
A lot of the times they require a shoulder to cry on, alleviate loneliness, some companionship, and a some of the time they do not even require sex. A lot of the time and energy on my part is spent on building a connection and then counselling these ladies.
Does this have a tendency to create a relationship of some sort that can have certain demands beyond a professional transaction?
Yes…. about two thirds to half of my clients develop some sort of relationship with me and yes, they can become somewhat dependent and needy. This can and has taken away from my personal life in the past. I do out calls and hotel in calls now. But I once allowed clients to know where I live. That did not turn out so well due to their needing beyond what I am able to provide. So now I keep the location of my private residence confidential.
Is there a type of clientele that you least prefer?
The hardest clients to deal with are mostly under the age of 35 and ninety per cent of very attractive women are a pain in the ass. They are very aware of the way they look and know that they can pick up men easily for free. Because of that they are rather demanding and judgemental.
Can you give me an example?
I turned up to a private residence once and when the door opened, the lady said. Oh…you’re not as athletic as I expected. She said this in a judgemental tone. I turned around and left. I do not put up with this kind of disrespect.
Rejection of that type is rare, as the types of women who seek this kind of service are looking for something that is far deeper than skin.
That leads me onto the next question. As you are not the stereotypic image of a male escort at least in my mind of a Calvin Klein Model type, how has that been working out for you?
It has been great. As I said before women who are after those sorts of men are typically a certain age that possess certain physical traits. They are more than happy to go and search for those men in a pub.
The kinds of women that are comfortable enough to use the services of a male escort do not want to see that. They are comfortable with somebody like me. I am a real person and being non-intimidating is probably the most important aspect.
I have a wealth of life experiences that has given me qualities that a lot of young men with little more than a great body can offer. Many of the qualities that I pointed out in my earlier answers are what women come to see me for.
Now I have a question that I am very curious about that I am sure a lot of readers would love to know. Have you ever had trouble performing physically? As men need to have a level of mechanical functionality before he can fulfil on the act.
Very seldom has that ever happened, as connection is the key and that has to be genuine and goes both ways. On occasions this sort of things has happened, it is for other reasons. Let me tell you a funny story.
I once turned up to an outcall where the home was a very lush place. A huge house with beautiful gardens and lions on either side of the gate. You get the idea. As I knock a nice looking lady greets me. She leads me to a bedroom and things begin to escalate towards that direction. As we are getting into it I hear a thump from the closet… I was startled. When I checked, it was her husband in there with his cock in his hand while he was watching us. I took a second to understand what was going on. After that, it totally killed the mood. Nothing more was going to happen.
Wow…. that’s a quite a story that sounds like it comes out of a porn movie…. Paul tell us how you got into this industry.
Well interestingly enough it was over a dare. I once had a job where I worked around a lot of working ladies. I remember one Sunday afternoon we were looking at the classifieds in the paper and had a conversation about how there is so much choice for men out there, but not for the ladies. I had a look at what ads were available for Perth male escorts and said to the ladies I can do this. One of the ladies said I dare you….and the prize was a bottle of whiskey. So me being the way I am I placed an ad in the paper. The day the ad turned up I got a booking, that evening. I was nervous as a wreck in my first booking. That was more than 10 years ago and the rest is history.
In your opinion, what qualities does a man need to have in order to be a male escort?
Being a reasonable matured and evolved person, a nice person, be yourself. Most importantly, do not blow your own trumpet.
Well Paul before we wrap this up I would like to ask if there were a message you wanted to put out there from a male Perth escort, what would it be?
Let me think about this for a minute before I answer you.
For the ladies who are thinking about seeing a male escort, know that we don’t bite. Society has come a long way and there is nothing wrong with using the services of service providers like myself to meet a wide variety of needs.
To call one of us is a lot less risky and a can be a lot more pleasant than if you were to go home with a guy you meet in a pub or a club.
Thank you very much Paul for offering us an insight into the world of male escorting in Perth. I for one, as I am sure many readers have, have learned a lot about this side of the industry that many have not thought of. It has been most pleasant.
but I know discretion is very important to us 
