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I'm in love with an escort. I really love her as a person, not only as a body to "buy". How do I establish a relationship with her? How do I court her

They have their own burdens in their world you don’t want to understand brother. Forgive her (I’m sure you have). And live your life.

That will make it nicer when you cross paths again.
Why do u think we’ll cross paths again? I highly doubt that and I don’t really want to she was cheating on me behind my back with clients
 
Why do u think we’ll cross paths again? I highly doubt that and I don’t really want to she was cheating on me behind my back with clients
I understand she needs to make money but I don’t forgive the disrespect I got and dishonesty first 6 months was great she stayed on the phone with me and told me when the client left and went and she was always on time after that she stopped it and made a issue about it we started it up again then it stopped after a week so I stopped trying last year because she wanted to be free but silly me I stayed by her side because that’s what u do for someone u care about but she took my care and kindness for granted and that’s life people r pricks Ahha but I’m going to become a better human from this experience I’ve learnt so much from this cougar
 
Yeah it’s hard spent so much time with her and was first relationship I’m 23 she was 46 man fk one booking and she wanted natural and invited me into her private life now she just blocks and ghosts like she has been doing for the past 6 months but this is over now it seems

Well bro take the good. You achieved what a lot of punters would be proud of. And she is going through brown stuff. And that’s not on you
 
You achieved what a lot of punters would be proud of.

At the time yes... Memories yes of the good times...

Pros....

Sex with a GF who is an escort can be out there...
Being with A GF who is a sex worker you can get to places off limits to loads.
You can go see her at work if she still works and get to see how parlors are run as you are there for her not others so you can speak to reception make coffee etc go for walks around the place..

Cons

The sex with her makes being with non sex worker types vanilla and boring as F
you get to places others can't so a normal girl is boring as F
You go to your non sex workers place of work and its just like yours boring as F again..
Life for awhile after the break up is boring as F
 
At the time yes... Memories yes of the good times...

Pros....

Sex with a GF who is an escort can be out there...
Being with A GF who is a sex worker you can get to places off limits to loads.
You can go see her at work if she still works and get to see how parlors are run as you are there for her not others so you can speak to reception make coffee etc go for walks around the place..

Cons

The sex with her makes being with non sex worker types vanilla and boring as F
you get to places others can't so a normal girl is boring as F
You go to your non sex workers place of work and its just like yours boring as F again..
Life for awhile after the break up is boring as F


Could just be me. I crave the connection more. I’ve turned away from the hottest sex sessions where I did not feel a connection. And gone back to girls time and time again where the connection made me feel alive even when the sex was average
 
At the time yes... Memories yes of the good times...

Pros....

Sex with a GF who is an escort can be out there...
Being with A GF who is a sex worker you can get to places off limits to loads.
You can go see her at work if she still works and get to see how parlors are run as you are there for her not others so you can speak to reception make coffee etc go for walks around the place..

Cons

The sex with her makes being with non sex worker types vanilla and boring as F
you get to places others can't so a normal girl is boring as F
You go to your non sex workers place of work and its just like yours boring as F again..
Life for awhile after the break up is boring as F
She wasn’t a parlour girl, she manipulated and used me and I’m the dumb one that stayed for the extra 6 months we were still having sex and it was good I think she’s found someone else and I did see the guy she talked about to me on her instragm so can put two in two together just bloody hard how a girl double my age could do that she’s going through stuff but didn’t think she’d be this heartless but everyone’s in it for themselves and what better thing they can get maybe she thinks it’s better but in reality I 100% know it’s not I don’t have children
 
Unless you know every detail of her life with absolute certainty, do not develop feelings. Keep it casual and professional.
I have said this before.

It’s mostly survival for them, which is understandable. I saw her recently, and I got a hint that she let a group have a session with her for big money during the lunar new year.

Even if I disassociate myself from emotions and feelings, but I do wish all these ladies find happiness.
 
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I have said this before.

It’s mostly survival for them, which is understandable. I saw her recently, and I got a hint that she let a group have a session with her for big money during the lunar new year.

Even if I disassociate myself from emotions and feelings, but I do wish all these ladies find happiness.
It they are not going to delete my account then I am forced to be devils advocate. Sex.....is not just sex. There are many forms, but namely there can be a dynamic between a slow form long bonding sex.....the calm nervous system kind or the pedal to the metal "pounding pussy" time punters call it. The higher your stress, the higher you chase a higher high until you reach higher.... and higher, and higher.......maybe thats an oversimplication but now onto this WL you "hope finds happiness" shes probably routinely had sex for money 5 maybe 6 times on a good working day for years. Does she pay tax? Well thats the mystery. So lets say as you allege she has sex with 4 dudes at once. There we go again with the higher highs. Bigger money, bigger stakes, she gets her big pay day maybe she also had her own financial stressors which magnified her risk taking, if she likes sex then thats just maximising her hourly rate. However there is the alternative arguement. I notice even these days methods of chasing higher highs are everwhere. Vapes, dexies off market, nads. This is not a judgement. This is the nervous system, this is biology. Its the nervous system desensitising itself over time to the point that taking 3 or 4 guys at once its just a good days work. Does something deep down in the psyche get affected? Probably? But thats getting too involved and reading too much into it. These are just reflections, punting in my own way. Trying to figure out how things work through speculation. I asked to be deleted because I am a post punter. If my account is kept this is all I got.
 
It they are not going to delete my account then I am forced to be devils advocate. Sex.....is not just sex. There are many forms, but namely there can be a dynamic between a slow form long bonding sex.....the calm nervous system kind or the pedal to the metal "pounding pussy" time punters call it. The higher your stress, the higher you chase a higher high until you reach higher.... and higher, and higher.......maybe thats an oversimplication but now onto this WL you "hope finds happiness" shes probably routinely had sex for money 5 maybe 6 times on a good working day for years. Does she pay tax? Well thats the mystery. So lets say as you allege she has sex with 4 dudes at once. There we go again with the higher highs. Bigger money, bigger stakes, she gets her big pay day maybe she also had her own financial stressors which magnified her risk taking, if she likes sex then thats just maximising her hourly rate. However there is the alternative arguement. I notice even these days methods of chasing higher highs are everwhere. Vapes, dexies off market, nads. This is not a judgement. This is the nervous system, this is biology. Its the nervous system desensitising itself over time to the point that taking 3 or 4 guys at once its just a good days work. Does something deep down in the psyche get affected? Probably? But thats getting too involved and reading too much into it. These are just reflections, punting in my own way. Trying to figure out how things work through speculation. I asked to be deleted because I am a post punter. If my account is kept this is all I got.
You seemed to be orbiting around my posts, which is creepy.

In response to above, I am wishing all WL to find happiness not a particular one.

I am not “alleging” any one of anything. Do you even know the interactions that I have? You’re projecting context towards my post.
 
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