Sex or Sexual massage for me is personal and private. Perth is a small world. Its different to being overseas and knowing you will 100% never see the person next to you again, let alone them even knowing your language. Anyway, the moment private becomes public. Is the moment the desire is lost.
The fact you answered my question this way tells me its more of a lounge experience with many others likely in the same room as you. I dont have the money or personality to not give a fck about what anyone thinks, and as i said, i like things private, not just in the bedroom. But the whole process. Id imagine this is the majority, not many people will happily enjoy a lounge unless desperate or influenced.
I dont want to know who else is their for a root and i dont want or need them to know about me being their too. Its not even something i wish to consider.
Sure its natural, but its private for me. Not public.