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I think I might have fucked up my relationship with my favorite WL

Another point, if she is moving, she may have taken some time off. Moving is one of the most emotionally stressful things we do. Give both her and yourself time to reset. However also bear in mind it's a professional relationship not a personal one.
 
kriegpaolo_23 said:
maybe she is busy as she is moving house?
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No reply at all tho, not even a courtesy ’Sorry, busy, but can see you soon’???

I would guess the number is blocked and he needs to find a new lady and learn a lesson.

TBH If it were the other way round and Emma with the GG’s was suddenly doing this stuff, I would be freaked the farq out.
 
Insertcoin said:
She's not your friend or partner that you should be getting worked up about mate. Even if u had a good thing going in the past, she has every right not to reply to you. Remember you were just one of her many customers....stop being so creepy.
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I don't think he is being creepy. He sent her some money to help her and offered to deliver some boxes to an address close to hers. I personally think he was just being kind. There should be more kindness.

@JayPerez1977 I think she may just be busy. Moving is extremely stressful and don't take her present disinterest personally. I'm sure everything will be okay once she's had time to settle at her new residence.
 
Also, we don't know the history or outside of this incident, whether something similar happened and was accepted before.

It is a bit crossing the line outside of a business transaction and perhaps on second thoughts, considered it wasn't a good idea.

Anyway, probably give a month off and then send a booking request to see if there is a response if you want to continue the business relationship
 
Tania Admin said:
I don't think he is being creepy. He sent her some money to help her and offered to deliver some boxes to an address close to hers. I personally think he was just being kind. There should be more kindness.

@JayPerez1977 I think she may just be busy. Moving is extremely stressful and don't take her present disinterest personally. I'm sure everything will be okay once she's had time to settle at her new residence.
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Thank you for that.
 
CDSC said:
Another point, if she is moving, she may have taken some time off. Moving is one of the most emotionally stressful things we do. Give both her and yourself time to reset. However also bear in mind it's a professional relationship not a personal one.
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I know it's a professional relationship. She has posted a limited availability and I haven't heard for comformation if there's a possibility of seeing her again. When the latest lockdown ended I booked and got a quick reply I've always gotten something even an update when she's been ill. The fact that I haven't gotten an update is what makes me wonder
 
SilentBoob said:
No reply at all tho, not even a courtesy ’Sorry, busy, but can see you soon’???

I would guess the number is blocked and he needs to find a new lady and learn a lesson.

TBH If it were the other way round and Emma with the GG’s was suddenly doing this stuff, I would be freaked the farq out.
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I would like to know why I got blocked and of that's the reason jus look for another lady
 
Obviously something has changed.
Many a person out there where you can find fun, there’s a thrill of the punt & new discovery. Don’t meander in the dead end of past regrets.

There’s always a possibility that some WL’s
do a cull of guests they service. Some have even admitted it to me.
 
JayPerez1977 said:
I know it's a professional relationship. She has posted a limited availability and I haven't heard for comformation if there's a possibility of seeing her again. When the latest lockdown ended I booked and got a quick reply I've always gotten something even an update when she's been ill. The fact that I haven't gotten an update is what makes me wonder
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As a professional she has the option of deciding if and when she works and who with. If she has not chosen to continue seeing you, just remember the good times, learn from your loss and look for other options for yourself. Remember it was never a boyfriend/ girlfriend situation.
 
CDSC said:
As a professional she has the option of deciding if and when she works and who with. If she has not chosen to continue seeing you, just remember the good times, learn from your loss and look for other options for yourself. Remember it was never a boyfriend/ girlfriend situation.
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I know I would have preferred a not gonna see you than just it happened
 
Sketcher said:
Obviously something has changed.
Many a person out there where you can find fun, there’s a thrill of the punt & new discovery. Don’t meander in the dead end of past regrets.

There’s always a possibility that some WL’s
do a cull of guests they service. Some have even admitted it to me.
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That is interesting to know.
 
Sketcher said:
Obviously something has changed.
Many a person out there where you can find fun, there’s a thrill of the punt & new discovery. Don’t meander in the dead end of past regrets.

There’s always a possibility that some WL’s
do a cull of guests they service. Some have even admitted it to me.
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Agree. I spoke to a lady recently who has decided that she no longer wants to or will provide FS . Rightly or wrongly she is of the opinion that it is easier to not respond (or as you say cull) clients that most likely have an expectation that FS wI’ll still be on the menu.
 
I always view anything “special” as only within the four walls of her service. Anything else I let them suggest and decide whether it’s yes or no, on my terms.
 
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