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Have you had someone share a secret just with you then accuse you of telling others ?
I have had this happen to me way too often...
Now I have decided to say DO NOT TELL ME NOTHING PLEASE!

Because life for me is way too busy to waste it on petty things like that!

How do you deal with this issue?:muted::muted::muted:
 
Ahoy;- Ohhh I luv Sargent Schultz, and I live life with his motto, it happens very rarely to me but sometimes I am asked to keep a secret, and I always do keep secrets.
With all the people I have known and all the places I have Been
"I hear nothing,I see nothing, I know nothing"
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I learned the hard way a long time ago to keep a secret to myself.

Nowadays if I want one person to know something I just tell the person its a secret and lo and behold the next day the whole wide world knows the secret.
 
I've had a lot of secrets shared with me but I can't say anyone has accused me of that but I'm sorry to hear that's been the case with you DD, I would find that very disheartening :(
 
DDxoxo said:
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Have you had someone share a secret just with you then accuse you of telling others ?
I have had this happen to me way too often...
Now I have decided to say DO NOT TELL ME NOTHING PLEASE!

Because life for me is way too busy to waste it on petty things like that!

How do you deal with this issue?:muted::muted::muted:
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Welcome to the real world DD, this happens all the time with people...sometimes the accuser tests the waters to see if there is a leak.....if you no whole heartedly that u have kept shared secret and haven't told a soul....you shouldn't worry about it ,
People often misinterpret what's actually said, and put there own spin on it..to seek information.....gee I've lost count on how many times this has happened to myself and many others.
I wouldn't waste time sweating the small stuff. :yawn::yawn::yawn:

 
I know wholeheartedly I do not spill the beans but all too often other people come up to me & say ...
Have you heard..........????? the exact thing I was told no one else knows..... really troubling....:mad::mad::mad:
 
Well.....being careful not to reveal is the key to avoiding this.....

But have you had people you thought were friends absolutely trash you in front of your partner before? That is a low blow.....
 
Obbie said:
So why did you tell me then if it was a secret ???
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I'm with you Obbie, so many times you think you are the only one who knows, then you realise that a couple of others know as well....and you ask ur self WTF ? It's quite disturbing knowing you were told something secret but others no as well. It's just as irritating as being given a message to verbally state to someone then find out that so n so has already told them. That pisses me off for real coz generally u look like an idiot in front of said person. o_O:android::meh:
 
Raye@Langtrees said:
I'm with you Obbie, so many times you think you are the only one who knows, then you realise that a couple of others know as well....and you ask ur self WTF ? It's quite disturbing knowing you were told something secret but others no as well. It's just as irritating as being given a message to verbally state to someone then find out that so n so has already told them. That pisses me off for real coz generally u look like an idiot in front of said person. o_O:android::meh:
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But if I tell the secret about HP to you three beautiful trustworthy people ie Raye, DD and Obbie Surely you will never know one of the others knows the secret Because you are so great at secrets
Not like this blabbermouth eh?
 
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