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How to have anal sex?

5ome0ne

5ome0ne

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So I had natural sex with my girl. It was amazing. But she was not on pills so I have to get the morning after pills The pill is expensive so after some discussion, she said she wants to try anal. Would you advise against anal sex without a condom? I read about having anal sex and it looks like it is a good idea to be clean, use a lot of lube and be slow, and play around the entrance before penetration. Any other tips?
 
The messiness of anal "Stinky bum" is what gives it, it's animalistic attraction... Douching is for wimps I reckon.

Yes plenty of lube.
 
IMHO condom is a must, if you wanna continue to be that sexperimental scientist that you are. And publish your research results here.
 
Ahoy;- Ohhhhh eyyeeeeeee do agree, condoms and lube, personnaly I always like to sink the pink but;- go black in this case
Cheers and Pass the Rum
 
It's his girlfriend why bother with a franger.

Frangerless sex with a girlfriend I would of thought even if it is a shag up the bum.
 
I heard the best way for a man to get anal sex was to punch a cop
The boys in prison would surely give you the anal you were looking for
 
She has to have 3 holes and willing Mr 2 before a poke up the pooper.
 
Well, the morning after pill may be pricey but I don't think the contraceptive pill is. Just help her out with the cost and so long as you are both monogamous with no S.T.D's you can shag away barefoot in the normal way.

I don't think making the back door your default option is realistic.
 
Lube it up, tie her down and go for gold!
ok, maybe you can skip the tying if you HAVE to. But lube and a gentle touch are a must.
 
Miss Missy said:
Lube it up, tie her down and go for gold!
ok, maybe you can skip the tying if you HAVE to. But lube and a gentle touch are a must.
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plus a condom..........even after a douche I would always recommend a condom. Play a little bit with fingers or small toys before you go 'for gold' it will relax the muscle.

Have fun ;)


R.xxxxxx
 
homer said:
lol...gold it is, I am sure he will find a treasure trove in there.
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Is that what the old miners/oil drillers were referring to when they had been out in camps for months , when they mentioned Black gold ?
well brown anyway
 
If you want to have natural anal with your partner generally there are a few things that i would advise (hints and tips picked up along the way through friends and personal experience)

1. Communicate:
Communication is key, for some people talking about it can be embarrassing or difficult, but for the long term communicating openly about anal does a world of difference. Spend the day together, make sure you're both in a good mood and then once relaxed and happy sit down and chat about it.

2. Enemas:
Generally a lot of people are not so keen on anal because they see it as unclean or taboo, usually if the receiver gives themself(or is trusting enough for their partner to give them one) they have a better mindset when about to do the deed. Generally performed about and hour to half an hour before play.

3. Anal Training:
Getting used to the sensation of having something inserted is the best way to go, there are muscles that can be trained so that no permanent damage is done whilst performing or participating in anal sex. Most people tend to get training kits that have different sizes of buttplugs that get them used to size and length, then you can progress to things like dildos and eventually cock or a strap on. Practice practice practice.

4. Lube:
I cannot stress enough how important it is to use lube whilst training or performing anal sex. Unlike the glorious vagina, the anus doesn't produce it's own lubricant. So USE LUBE it will help prevent any pain or tearing of the anus.

5. Take it slow:
Patience is a virtue, the one thing that most pornography (with the exception of my favorite Belladonna) most prep before shooting a film. Take it slow, get used to the feeling and allow your partner to vocalize what feels good and what doesn't. It makes it easier in the long term to know the boundaries and comfort zones when it comes to anal.

6. Have fun:
Learning something new, trying something for the first time you want it to be a positive experience, make it fun and enjoyable for the both of you.... after all it takes two to tango when it comes to you and a partner so make it an experience they remember fondly. Yes there may be awkward moments, yes you may have to take a break and try again later, just nejoy each other and show the respect and pleasure and you'll get the same in return.

^.^
Hope this helped.​
 
happy2 said:
Is that what the old miners/oil drillers were referring to when they had been out in camps for months , when they mentioned Black gold ?
well brown anyway
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I reckon that's what they meant when they yelled on top of their lungs, "Jackpot, Black browny jackpot!!!"
 
I can't emphasise the lube enough. Quality lube as well. Especially if you want to go around again. Torn anus is not pleasant and there Will definately be no seconds.

Quality lube = lots of fun.
 
quiet achiever said:
I can't emphasise the lube enough. Quality lube as well. Especially if you want to go around again. Torn anus is not pleasant and there Will definately be no seconds.

Quality lube = lots of fun.
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YEP, plenty of lube........ and now that I have experienced a moderate number of dildos and strap-ons, I'd like to try the real thing...... but from a TS as I still have a sort of hang up with an actual male giving it to me..... strange heh.
 
Tones of lube fosho! but make sure to be very supportive and comforting etc and go slow.
 
Its really so useful and informative post.
Nice to meet you guys.
















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Be sure that during anal sex key used is to be gentle (slow). And the big DON'T here is do not go for vaginal sex after anal sex using one condom. As,it may create infection to you and your partner
 
That's unavoidable Obbie unle$$ she's a doucher. But douching is a cop out me thinks.
 
Hardly wise Obbie. It's just smarts. Why settle for 2 if a girl is aok for #3.

Anyways most girl$ just do the standard 2... I think.
 
Free love isn't my forte.

A bit of nuttiness and BS is ok if there's also tru$t and respect... I'm guessing anyway.
 
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