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How people change with a little bit of power

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Dana8

Am so disappointed at some people's choice of words in public.
I really think that don't matter how angry you are at a person or a situation there are things that should never been said in public.
I took a person to the casino the night before her birthday and just because I didn't do what she wanted me to do she said to me in a few occasions and infront of people that she would rather clean people's shit than sell her ass like me (even though she had worked in this size of the industry too). And then took everything out of contest to suite her needs before threatening me with Fucking me up if she ever see my face again. ...
 
Wow, that's pretty low. There is angry but there is also a line.

I would get a VRO if you live with them and they are threatening you.
 
Dana8 said:
Am so disappointed at some people's choice of words in public.
I really think that don't matter how angry you are at a person or a situation there are things that should never been said in public.
I took a person to the casino the night before her birthday and just because I didn't do what she wanted me to do she said to me in a few occasions and infront of people that she would rather clean people's shit than sell her ass like me (even though she had worked in this size of the industry too). And then took everything out of contest to suite her needs before threatening me with Fucking me up if she ever see my face again. ...
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Without a doubt, your relationship (or lack thereof) has entered a new phase. I hope you two aren't in the same workplace or one of you will have to move. It's actually a cause for celebration really - you've discovered what an arsehole this person really is - no matter how many drinks she may or may not have had.

Related to the topic but not the thread; a friend of mine has a theory that many cops are frustrated people who never made it to school prefect in real life or got bullied all the time. And that's why so many are arseholes who wouldn't speak contemptuously like that to their own mothers.
 
Ahoy, I really would avoid this person, they have obvious angry issues and they are directing the angry towards you, just another typical psycho acting up in public hence they are throwing as much full force of there angry towards you for maximum impact. I have to assume as well that all parties were sober, good luck but I would stay away from this person.
Cheers and Pass the Rum
 
Dana8 said:
Am so disappointed at some people's choice of words in public.
I really think that don't matter how angry you are at a person or a situation there are things that should never been said in public.
I took a person to the casino the night before her birthday and just because I didn't do what she wanted me to do she said to me in a few occasions and infront of people that she would rather clean people's shit than sell her ass like me (even though she had worked in this size of the industry too). And then took everything out of contest to suite her needs before threatening me with Fucking me up if she ever see my face again. ...
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if I was in your shoes I would tell this person to use the door and don't let it hit them on the way out :-) with friends like that , who needs enemies
 
Wow what a nasty, bitter person- And a hypocrite as well! Getting her out of your life is your gain and her loss xx
 
That's terrible. Sorry to hear, Dana. Especially nasty because you obviously didn't expect the person to turn on you plus she must have been a person close to you (or how else would she know that you are working).
Grrrrrrrr you never really know what people are made of until a moment of truth comes along. Stay away if you can.

R.xxxxxxxxx
 
Contrarian said:
Without a doubt, your relationship (or lack thereof) has entered a new phase. I hope you two aren't in the same workplace or one of you will have to move. It's actually a cause for celebration really - you've discovered what an arsehole this person really is - no matter how many drinks she may or may not have had.

Related to the topic but not the thread; a friend of mine has a theory that many cops are frustrated people who never made it to school prefect in real life or got bullied all the time. And that's why so many are arseholes who wouldn't speak contemptuously like that to their own mothers.
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Always funny to hear these theories. A few of my friends who are police officers joined because they were always the type that helped people. A couple of them left for being too naive and thinking that people were inherently good only to discover that sometimes stereotypes are accurate.
 
I am sure sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment and can also be taken out of contents....
Sad to hear that you lost a friend that must have been very special to you...........
Ms Sue
xoxox
 
Thank you guys
Its ok I know that is not worth to spend my energy on this person I just hope that no one else get hurt like this. its very embarrassing. I could have said many things about that person as well but I choose not too because it would've only mad it bigger. Now Im being more careful with the people let into my life.....

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Hmmmm........ If a person treated a friend like that especially having been taken out for a pre birthday gathering was to behave like that (which I agree is totally inappropriate), could it be that your friend is hurting badly and is most in need of a friend right now?
 
I agree with Ms Sue, but that's still not on :/

No-one likes to be outed in front of strangers, it's a serious breach of trust and even in the heat of the moment there are some things better left unsaid.

Perhaps give your friend some time to cool down and let them come to grips with what has happened and hopefully they'll realize theeir mistake and try and make things right ?

Head up babes
 
Ms Sue said:
I am sure sometimes things are said in the heat of the moment and can also be taken out of contents....
Sad to hear that you lost a friend that must have been very special to you...........
Ms Sue
xoxox
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True, some things can be taken out of context and some things can be excused with intoxication. When it comes to 'outing' a w/l in public there is no excuse. However pissed, frustrated, angry, pressurized you are with your own life there is no excuse to hurt somebody like this especially if you are close.
As an advise to the 'person':.........if you have an issue with the work Dana does speak to her in private and not in public, if you comments where fueled by alcohol stop drinking or work out why you turned on her so nastily.

R.xxxxxxxx
 
Tell her to get off her fucking high horse!

I wouldn't add fuel to the fire luv, just wash your hands with her and walk away. Don't feed into her drama.
 
Rochelle of Langtrees said:
True, some things can be taken out of context and some things can be excused with intoxication. When it comes to 'outing' a w/l in public there is no excuse. However pissed, frustrated, angry, pressurized you are with your own life there is no excuse to hurt somebody like this especially if you are close.
As an advise to the 'person':.........if you have an issue with the work Dana does speak to her in private and not in public, if you comments where fueled by alcohol stop drinking or work out why you turned on her so nastily.

R.xxxxxxxx
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Spot on Rochelle, I could not agree with you more.

Sad you lost a friend, but feel for you with the embarrassment this must have caused you.
 
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