How much is normal?

Bigdy · Dec 1, 2022

Hi there.

Normal is subjective, and hard to establish precisely, but I want to explore your opinions.

How many times per week do you want to have sex. And

Provided that you cannot get sex all the times you want, how many times per day do you masturbate?

How old are you too? As that's relevant driver to the questions above

Regards

JT777 · Dec 1, 2022

Without going into too much detail I find things ebb and flow.
Sometimes I’m not horny for a week or so and then other times I’ll get three shots out in a day.

sludgie · Dec 3, 2022

It would have been better to start the ball rolling with your thoughts. Fairly consistent from my end, l like 3 times per week and masturbation or porn is now very rare. Prefer to see women and am in my more mature years.

Nevets · Dec 3, 2022

I know a working lady in Mt Isa, who told me she had a client in his late forties who would use 6 condoms in an hour booking.

sludgie · Dec 3, 2022

Nevets said:
I know a working lady in Mt Isa, who told me she had a client in his late forties who would use 6 condoms in an hour booking.

Did they keep breaking?

Bigdy · Dec 4, 2022

sludgie said:
It would have been better to start the ball rolling with your thoughts. Fairly consistent from my end, l like 3 times per week and masturbation or porn is now very rare. Prefer to see women and am in my more mature years.

Lucky you to have a partner willing to do 3 per week

Bigdy · Dec 4, 2022

I would have sex everyday.
Wife hardly get exited once a month, and purse is short to go to girls that often. Currently about 2x per month outside, 1x month at home. And masturbatory every day. Wanting to drop that last one to see how I feel. Althought I am guessing I will just live hornier the whole time

sludgie · Dec 4, 2022

Bigdy said:
Lucky you to have a partner willing to do 3 per week

No partner, this is just punting.

Leroysane · Dec 4, 2022

Bigdy said:
I would have sex everyday.
Wife hardly get exited once a month, and purse is short to go to girls that often. Currently about 2x per month outside, 1x month at home. And masturbatory every day. Wanting to drop that last one to see how I feel. Althought I am guessing I will just live hornier the whole time

Does she know you punt? Not judging or blaming you at all btw. Just curious and feel turned off the idea marriage sometimes. I'm in my twenty's

Bigdy · Dec 4, 2022

Marriage is good, I doubt any man could reach its own potential without having that shackle at least for some time as nothing else makes you mature more than having to negotiate your whole life with another person and having few dependants.
Having kids is the best and harder part of it all. Just make sure to pick one that is not too spoiled by the kardashian culture.

Sex may not be as fun specially ,>10 years but that is just one of the aspects of it.

Some people do grow to be fully monogamous, some others can't. I am on that second group, at least for now. I treat her alright and she don't ask what she don't wanna know.

sludgie · Dec 4, 2022

Bigdy said:
Marriage is good, I doubt any man could reach its own potential without having that shackle at least for some time as nothing else makes you mature more than having to negotiate your whole life with another person and having few dependants.
Having kids is the best and harder part of it all. Just make sure to pick one that is not too spoiled by the kardashian culture.

Sex may not be as fun specially ,>10 years but that is just one of the aspects of it.

Some people do grow to be fully monogamous, some others can't. I am on that second group, at least for now. I treat her alright and she don't ask what she don't wanna know.

Well said and true, in my case sex was regular enough for the first 20 years, my ex wife then had other problems which slowed things down till there was nothing. It was only after the divorce that l started punting.

Leroysane · Dec 4, 2022

Bigdy said:
Marriage is good, I doubt any man could reach its own potential without having that shackle at least for some time as nothing else makes you mature more than having to negotiate your whole life with another person and having few dependants.
Having kids is the best and harder part of it all. Just make sure to pick one that is not too spoiled by the kardashian culture.

Sex may not be as fun specially ,>10 years but that is just one of the aspects of it.

Some people do grow to be fully monogamous, some others can't. I am on that second group, at least for now. I treat her alright and she don't ask what she don't wanna know.

Yeah that gives me better perspective. I definitely wanna have kids too so I'll see how things pan out

johnmatilda · Dec 4, 2022

Bigdy said:
I would have sex everyday.
Wife hardly get exited once a month, and purse is short to go to girls that often. Currently about 2x per month outside, 1x month at home. And masturbatory every day. Wanting to drop that last one to see how I feel. Althought I am guessing I will just live hornier the whole time

I feel you. Mine is more like once in 3-4 months...

naughtish · Dec 4, 2022

Bigdy said:
Marriage is good, I doubt any man could reach its own potential without having that shackle at least for some time as nothing else makes you mature more than having to negotiate your whole life with another person and having few dependants.
Having kids is the best and harder part of it all. Just make sure to pick one that is not too spoiled by the kardashian culture.

Sex may not be as fun specially ,>10 years but that is just one of the aspects of it.

Some people do grow to be fully monogamous, some others can't. I am on that second group, at least for now. I treat her alright and she don't ask what she don't wanna know.

Agree 100%. I’m on the same boat as you ..

mrys · Dec 5, 2022

I'm older but still a 3-4 times a week guy when possible. Married a few times but happily single now. Menopause is the passion killer for woman as they age. Not their fault but when it strikes marital sex is dead.

Lebron23 · Dec 5, 2022

How do you married guys punt without the wife finding out? Do you go before, during or after work? What happens after the deed and you shower and come home smelling of a different body wash etc?

Some girls wear strong perfume or body spray and sometimes it stays on your clothes.

Bigdy · Dec 7, 2022

Lebron23 said:
How do you married guys punt without the wife finding out? Do you go before, during or after work? What happens after the deed and you shower and come home smelling of a different body wash etc?

Some girls wear strong perfume or body spray and sometimes it stays on your clothes.

Technique perfected over years my green punter.
During day week, draft cash way in advance and along with money for other purposes, set apointments from other phone, go With a well known WL that knowns your stuff and won't rub you with any smelly cheap shit. No ubers,
And preferably the same day that you would normally go to gym
If you had ever got near me at 8pm,when I come home, I would smell like a skunk so these are never go days at home. If you eat and rest properly in between training days and your T is not too low you would till have one full load to take home. Have a credible alibi, always.
And never tell other persons about your hobbies (I still don't know why the fuck I keep this account here).

Don't be complacent don't attach to girls and do not make it routine.
I don't know how others do. But it's hard

Lebron23 · Dec 7, 2022

Bigdy said:
Technique perfected over years my green punter.
During day week, draft cash way in advance and along with money for other purposes, set apointments from other phone, go With a well known WL that knowns your stuff and won't rub you with any smelly cheap shit. No ubers,
And preferably the same day that you would normally go to gym
If you had ever got near me at 8pm,when I come home, I would smell like a skunk so these are never go days at home. If you eat and rest properly in between training days and your T is not too low you would till have one full load to take home. Have a credible alibi, always.
And never tell other persons about your hobbies (I still don't know why the fuck I keep this account here).

Don't be complacent don't attach to girls and do not make it routine.
I don't know how others do. But it's hard

Good advice. I will follow these rules except the part where you rub 6 guys. Thank you

Bigdy · Dec 9, 2022

Lebron23 said:
Good advice. I will follow these rules except the part where you rub 6 guys. Thank you

You should give a try, combat sports are truly awesome