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How long should sex last?

But it depends a little on how you define 'sex' In my younger days based on these numbers I went too long with penetrative sex many times (apologies to those women that I traumatised without knowing) These days 'sex' can last for hours if you include foreplay, penetration and after play, oh and round 2 etc. I get way more out of sex now than when I was 20, the focus shifts to her pleasure as one gets older in my experience. Her pleasure becomes yours and visa versa and neither want to stop.
 
Since I find it extremely difficult to bust even after a hour maybe I should consider myself defective.
 
Meanwhile over in Subiaco,
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Liam said:
yes ever since the very first time having sex.
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Bugger. Have you tried exploring different things to help, prostate massage, milking table, Dom/sub etc? You don't have to talk about it if you don't want to mate. You can PM me anytime, I don't have the solution but I'm a good listener.
 
Nah I'm pretty vanilla when it comes to sex, the least vanilla thing I enjoy is anal.

Plus any of things you recommended is way out of my budget, hell the last time i had sex was over 5 months ago.
 
Elle said:
and married women!
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Disagree. Men are ready anytime. Women on the other hand suffer spontaneous headaches, are too tired (but not tired enough to go out with their friends or watch pointless drama on TV), need to be made to feel special to be in the mood, would rather use a dildo than have sex with their husbands, find sex a chore and the list goes on.

A woman can get it anytime from anyone for free. Men must pay for the privilege of a woman's company and intimacy, whether it be monetary or his time and effort.

/Speaking from experience and comments made by other posters
 
Elle said:
and married women!
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Very true! Date night with tequila shots always works though. Johmatilda...... keep looking there are lots of women out there who are as eager for it as men are given the right chemistry and dynamic!
 
mrys said:
Date night with tequila shots always works though
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Too risky, could lead to false accusations about her not remembering giving consent. Let this be a warning to all the guys out there: don't engage with any woman who is drinking or under the influence.

mrys said:
keep looking there are lots of women out there who are as eager for it as men are given the right chemistry and dynamic!
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Where are they? Most women are not my type and don't do it for me. Some of them are just too much work for just a 20 min root for me to bother.
 
Honestly mate. If the lady wants a date night she wants your company. If she wants tequila shots she wants tequila shots with you. Always ask, never assume and just be fun, invested in learning more about her and most importantly be respectful. When the chemistry is right and date night has gone well and she's pulling your clothes off......it's because she wants YOU! Don't over think it.
 
johnmatilda said:
Disagree. Men are ready anytime. Women on the other hand suffer spontaneous headaches, are too tired (but not tired enough to go out with their friends or watch pointless drama on TV), need to be made to feel special to be in the mood, would rather use a dildo than have sex with their husbands, find sex a chore and the list goes on.

A woman can get it anytime from anyone for free. Men must pay for the privilege of a woman's company and intimacy, whether it be monetary or his time and effort.

/Speaking from experience and comments made by other posters
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I know plenty of married women that are ready ‘anytime’. Perhaps none of them are present within this thread is all.
 
Nina Stone said:
I know plenty of married women that are ready ‘anytime’. Perhaps none of them are present within this thread is all.
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Perhaps so but a very small minority that it is statistically insignificant and not enough to meet the needs of the abundant men who go without. For every one such woman, there are 1000+ men. This is why men must pay for company and intimacy which has been turned into a business model.

Please feel free to share my details with them, or send them my way! I will look after their needs 💯!
 
johnmatilda said:
Perhaps so but a very small minority that it is statistically insignificant and not enough to meet the needs of the abundant men who go without. For every one such woman, there are 1000+ men. This is why men must pay for company and intimacy which has been turned into a business model.

Please feel free to share my details with them, or send them my way! I will look after their needs 💯!
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I’ll be sure to pass your details along @johnmatilda 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨
 
johnmatilda said:
Perhaps so but a very small minority that it is statistically insignificant and not enough to meet the needs of the abundant men who go without. For every one such woman, there are 1000+ men. This is why men must pay for company and intimacy which has been turned into a business model.

Please feel free to share my details with them, or send them my way! I will look after their needs 💯!
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In my experience there are 1000+ woman looking for the right man too. God help me, I tried mainstream dating sites 8 years ago and I feel lucky to have survived. So many women just want a good man to be intimate with. Best to leave the past behind (and the baggage that goes with it) and find a women who has done the same.
 
mrys said:
In my experience there are 1000+ woman looking for the right man too. God help me, I tried mainstream dating sites 8 years ago and I feel lucky to have survived. So many women just want a good man to be intimate with. Best to leave the past behind (and the baggage that goes with it) and find a women who has done the same.
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You must be 6 feet tall, have a 6 pack, have a 6 inch pecker and have a 6 figure income!

I hazard a guess that most guys have a different experience to yours, baggage or no baggage.
 
I'm only two of those things. And I don't disclose either. I just try to be fun, inquisitive, interesting and cheeky. Women love a mystery.....and a man that keeps them on their toes.......so as to speak. Always respectful and always creating opportunities for banter that's edgy, fun, and a little naughty. It works for me as a non Adonis type guy. It's been a while since I did the mainstream dating sites but I'm sure woman haven't changed that much in the interim. Most woman on mainstream sites want to find a man that ignites a passion remembered but lost. Be the flame that rekindles it and what happens from there is up to you both.
 
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