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How do you casual sex?

Somedude

Somedude

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Hi all,

I realise this may not be the place to ask as most of the site is dedicated to brothels and AMPs but I don't know where else to go, so here I go:

Where and how does a young single guy find casual sex in Perth? I'm in my early 20's and don't drink anymore so I don't think pubs or clubs are the way to go.

I've tried dating apps but all the ladies I've matched with have ghosted me or flaked last minute.

All the girls I already know are either in relationships, gay or simply not interested.

I even tried contacting a swingers club but I was told I'm too young.

I love seeing working girls on occasion but I'm young and horny and my wallet can't keep up with my desire.

I know this might sound sad and pathetic but I'm at my wits end, any advice would be appreciated!
 
Mate there is nothing sad and pathetic about your inquiry at all. Good on you for putting it out there as this is what a forum is for. Sharing ideas, experiences etc. along with finding the answers you seek.
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Somedude said:
Hi all,

I realise this may not be the place to ask as most of the site is dedicated to brothels and AMPs but I don't know where else to go, so here I go:

Where and how does a young single guy find casual sex in Perth? I'm in my early 20's and don't drink anymore so I don't think pubs or clubs are the way to go.

I've tried dating apps but all the ladies I've matched with have ghosted me or flaked last minute.

All the girls I already know are either in relationships, gay or simply not interested.

I even tried contacting a swingers club but I was told I'm too young.

I love seeing working girls on occasion but I'm young and horny and my wallet can't keep up with my desire.

I know this might sound sad and pathetic but I'm at my wits end, any advice would be appreciated!
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Girls love confident men (don't confuse confident with arrogant) If you and they are under 25 girls will go for the bad boy almost every time. Being shy and awkward will not help your cause. Be cheeky, confident, a charmer, elusive and intriguing and you will have them fighting over you. Girls like the strong silent type.....be that. Bad boys treat em mean and keep em keen :-) It all changes for most girls by their late 20's as they realise bad boys are just bad. And they start looking for the boy next door.
 
mrys said:
Girls love confident men (don't confuse confident with arrogant) If you and they are under 25 girls will go for the bad boy almost every time. Being shy and awkward will not help your cause. Be cheeky, confident, a charmer, elusive and intriguing and you will have them fighting over you. Girls like the strong silent type.....be that. Bad boys treat em mean and keep em keen :) It all changes for most girls by their late 20's as they realise bad boys are just bad. And they start looking for the boy next door.
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Thank you for the advice, but my problem isn't engaging with women, it's meeting them in the first place. The way I live my life I genuinely haven't met a girl my age in over 2 years.
 
Somedude said:
Thank you for the advice, but my problem isn't engaging with women, it's meeting them in the first place. The way I live my life I genuinely haven't met a girl my age in over 2 years.
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How old are you? They are everywhere my friend. Be memorable....... the girl at Coles, the woman who cuts your hair, the MILF on the train. Treat every girl you interact with as a possible, because some of them are. They are just waiting for someone memorable to catch them! Try on line dating again but be the cheeky rogue, charm their pants of literally. Be allusive, girls want what they can't have. I've picked up at Coles, my dentist, the accounts lady where I get my car serviced etc etc. The world is your oyster!
 
mrys said:
How old are you? They are everywhere my friend. Be memorable....... the girl at Coles, the woman who cuts your hair, the MILF on the train. Treat every girl you interact with as a possible, because some of them are. They are just waiting for someone memorable to catch them! Try on line dating again but be the cheeky rogue, charm their pants of literally. Be allusive, girls want what they can't have. I've picked up at Coles, my dentist, the accounts lady where I get my car serviced etc etc. The world is your oyster!
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Thank you, I'll keep that in mind.
 
Somedude said:
Hi all,

I realise this may not be the place to ask as most of the site is dedicated to brothels and AMPs but I don't know where else to go, so here I go:

Where and how does a young single guy find casual sex in Perth? I'm in my early 20's and don't drink anymore so I don't think pubs or clubs are the way to go.

I've tried dating apps but all the ladies I've matched with have ghosted me or flaked last minute.

All the girls I already know are either in relationships, gay or simply not interested.

I even tried contacting a swingers club but I was told I'm too young.

I love seeing working girls on occasion but I'm young and horny and my wallet can't keep up with my desire.

I know this might sound sad and pathetic but I'm at my wits end, any advice would be appreciated!
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I would say clubs and bars are your best bet, if you don't have an issue with going there without drinking.

Dating apps are very hit and miss. It's very surface level so how you come across overall is important, like for example the types of photos you have on your profile. Obviously being physically attractive helps a lot but there's only so much going to the gym can help if you were born with bad looks. Being tall is also an automatic win.

Specifically you could try Bumble, where women message first. Could try being completely straight forward that you're looking for casual sex or you could not.

I haven't had experience with it, but there's a website called Red Hot Pie that is essentially for hookups. You have to pay a subscription to be on it but might be worth exploring.
 
The hard reality is being a young guy looking for casual sex, you're a dime a dozen. Pretty much every early 20's male wants that, so the womenfolk can pick and choose.

My advice would be, be yourself, dont necessarily just look for sex. Try to get to know someone. Don't play games, be yourself and just go with the flow. Have a job, be passionate about something, and have something to share with someone, and you're already ahead of 80% of your peers who are probably douchebags. lol
 
No idea what to do said:
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Is this one of my Son's My Initials JPR and Yours
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I don't know, but if you are: you must teach me the ways, father.

Thank you for the advice, but my problem isn't engaging with women, it's meeting them in the first place. The way I live my life I genuinely haven't met a girl my age in over 2 years.

OK SomeDude
we are not related
You are not my son HAHA

🐸 The Frenchman🐸
 
With a number of Christmas parties coming up, the opportunities are there.
Do your research and find out which ones are single or recently separated and proceed from there.
 
Be unconventional: As a younger man, I used to borrow my mate's dog and go walking on dog beaches around Perth and Freo.

You'll be amazed at the number of good looking girls walking their dogs on dog beaches, and as you walk up to them, you have to stop to let the dogs sniff each other, and then you have something in common to talk about (I used to make up stuff about the dog as he wasn't mine!).

Talk about the dogs, compliment them on their clothing, suggest a coffee, etc.

I picked up several girls in this way, and even moved in with one for a few months.

Smile, be confident, be chatty.

What's the worst that can happen ? I approached lots, and although some were attached, I never once got told to fuck off.

Good luck.
 
I thought of this thread today when I was out shopping. I took the time before leaving home to shower, shave, groom, smell nice, dress tidy.

It was just a short shop trip but I was surprised what some effort does to getting attention while out.

Walk tall and with confidence, look people in the eye, be respectful. Have natural charisma.

Be engaging when doing the simple things in life and sometimes opportunity knocks when you least expect it.
 
Try red hot pie it’s a hook up site.
I’ve had a ridiculous amount of fun from that site😜
Everyone is just there to fuck and have fun.
Lots of swingers party’s too
 
sunyun said:
Be unconventional: As a younger man, I used to borrow my mate's dog and go walking on dog beaches around Perth and Freo.

You'll be amazed at the number of good looking girls walking their dogs on dog beaches, and as you walk up to them, you have to stop to let the dogs sniff each other, and then you have something in common to talk about (I used to make up stuff about the dog as he wasn't mine!).

Talk about the dogs, compliment them on their clothing, suggest a coffee, etc.

I picked up several girls in this way, and even moved in with one for a few months.

Smile, be confident, be chatty.

What's the worst that can happen ? I approached lots, and although some were attached, I never once got told to fuck off.

Good luck.
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Well said Sunyun. Never underestimate the power of a pooch to find pussy. And walking is actually good for the mind and body!
 
WildBrumby said:
I thought of this thread today when I was out shopping. I took the time before leaving home to shower, shave, groom, smell nice, dress tidy.

It was just a short shop trip but I was surprised what some effort does to getting attention while out.

Walk tall and with confidence, look people in the eye, be respectful. Have natural charisma.

Be engaging when doing the simple things in life and sometimes opportunity knocks when you least expect it.
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Well said!! Positive visualisation works!!!!
 
A good analogy of taking your time:

A Young Bull and Old Bull saw the gate had been left open to the cow paddock….

Young Bull: Let’s rush in and grab one…..

Old Bull: No, how about we wander in and mount the lot…..
 
feifei said:
If you listen to my mate's advise....


Go to church.... he said it is always full of horny girls.....


Or maybe it's only his church is like that...


Or maybe he was referring to the old club "Church" at North Bridge? His advise was many years ago 😆
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Who ever said going to church isn't fun, they're missing out 🤣🤣
 
Lep said:
Try red hot pie it’s a hook up site.
I’ve had a ridiculous amount of fun from that site😜
Everyone is just there to fuck and have fun.
Lots of swingers party’s too
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I’ve always wondered about this site, is it really that straightforward?
 
I agree with the church comment. I'm always at church on a Sunday and used to work for a church. Anywhere women are is a good staring point. If you have a dog, take it for a walk. Us girls can't resist a cute guy with a fur baby. Cleanly shaved, nice aftershave and a confidant smile. Good luck sweetheart
 
Went to the ballet on a Saturday arvo with wife and MIL.

Totally out of my comfort zone.
85% crowd where females, the rest I'm sure where gay, or where forced into it.

Got a very sore neck, and met heaps during the breaks.

I haven't been invited back.

A mate of mine had huge success at ballroom dancing clubs...loved it, new partner evey week.

Just some ideas..

Cheers
 
Bickford said:
I’ve always wondered about this site, is it really that straightforward?
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Yeah like all dating sites there’s a few fakes but you gotta just be smart about it, engage in conversation and meet up.
Worked for me 👍
 
I saw profiles on Red Hot Pie of women I knew. They were fake profiles using photos taken from other apps. I let the women know, they asked me to report the profiles.

I got off Red Hot Pie very hit and miss.
 
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