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Happily or Unhappily Married...

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Looking for peoples opinion on whether you agree with having affairs with married women if you both aren't satisfied at home? And when does happily married become unhappily married? Is sex happiness??? Cheers
 
Mate - affairs with married women - no ways.

Too many hearts to break including yours!! The fall-out just goes too far.

See a lovely WL who has a good reputation, takes care of her health (and therefore yours) and enjoys what she does.
Its still cheating but at least no one gets hurt while you're having a bit of fun.

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Tattooooooo said:
Looking for peoples opinion on whether you agree with having affairs with married women if you both aren't satisfied at home? And when does happily married become unhappily married? Is sex happiness??? Cheers
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(In my case) I've been "there" - but nothing good came out of the relationship.

Took me a long time to recover emotionally and be able to think clearly.

I've learnt my lesson and never again.
 
actually sex plays an important part of a marriage..not just compatibility but also your sex life...If sex becomes boring I really think that your marriage will be affected.
 
In my situation I can't see how sleeping with the same person for 20 years isn't boring?

If you have a solid emotional connection and love her to pieces, then why can't you go see a professional who provides a professional service every so often. Wifey doesn't have to know. Your happy, she's happy. Life is sweet.
 
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In my situation I can't see how sleeping with the same person for 20 years isn't boring?

If you have a solid emotional connection and love her to pieces, then why can't you go see a professional who provides a professional service every so often. Wifey doesn't have to know. Your happy, she's happy. Life is sweet.
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I agree with your sentiments exactly. Sex can be absent in a long-time marriage for many reasons, but that doesn't mean leaving the wife for another. Using a 'Professiuonal' is a great relief, in more ways than one, and results in satisfaction which itself is of benefit to both partners, even though one doesn't (or may not) know it is happening. Togetherness doesn't necessarily mean having sex.

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I think women have a level of intuition about what we men are up to. I'm sorry to hear that your situation sounds like it may on going and understand why you are looking for advice on how to fill an important void (sex, affection and intimacy) that we all need. I have been in a similar boat for a while and took the plunge about 6 months ago to see a w/l. It was awesome, I've seen the same wonderful lady quite a few times since then. For me, not telling my wife was easy at the start but the deceit has started to affect me. May be its just me. I can carry a lie for a short time but ultimately my conscience and need to share how I'm feeling with my wife is getting the better of me. At this stage I can't see myself ever telling my wife about my visits. However, I am often amazed at my wife's (and many women for that matter) ability to understand, forgive and work with me with other issues I had kept to myself, then blurted out. If the truth is going to come out, the sooner the better for everyone. So my friend here is my two bobs worth....you don't know how or when your conscience may sneak up you (it may not) but if it does and you confess a month, 6 months or a year down the track, would the effect be worse or better than talking to your wife now about the idea of you both seeing a w/l? I don't know the answer for you or for me. Let me know if you find out:) Best of luck to you.
 
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Tattooo if you are both unhappy why not leave and then start a relationship?
Is is purely physical gratification you seek?
Have you considered why your relationships aren't working?
 
It seems to me that people are unhappy whether they are married or not.

I personally was unhappy because I wasn't married in my twenties, then I got married and was miserable. In my humble opinion, people need to be happy single before they can be happy married.

I would get married again if I found the right person ...
 
Sounds really washed out but happiness can only be found within yourself. No other person can make you happy in the long run. So happiness yes or no....depends where you stand with yourself.
I generally think sexual adventures as an attached man are safer in an emotional sense when you see a professional lady. The exchange of money makes it more like a business transaction.......a service you are paying for.......and makes it harder to get emotionally attached.
If you look for more than just a new sexual experience than you should get out of your relation ship first.

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