Was chatting with a mate at work last week and as usual we ended up discussing his punting adventures of recent times. He's a single guy and likely to be his whole life. 6' 5" ish, not much to look at unfortunately and 160kg of BBM loving, he's not the dreamboat catch of many ladies dreams I would think.
Anyhow, as far as he knows all my punting stories are from pre-marriage and I don't bother trying to correct him, we're not buddies outside of work, we just get along well at work.
So chatting away and I mention how hard I always found it to believe WL about how good something's feeling.
He looks at me like I've just grown a pair of horns and says " Who gives a f@#k. I'm paying for it, I couldn't care less if she doesn't get off."
I didn't say much to that, because I knew he wouldn't understand what it is that gets me off.
I find it next to impossible to even get an erection unless I know the other party is genuinely enjoying themselves.
Once I believe that though, no problems, I get so hard sometimes it actually physically throbs with an ache.
But with punting it becomes an iffy thing, because how can you trust someone whose job it is to make every man feel like he's king in the sack.
Are they serious, did they really like that, no other girls made that much fuss over that before, etc, etc...
Surely no one is so naïve as to believe that somehow with a WL all your little bag of tricks have suddenly started working better than with anyone else?
But!
And ladies, please give us your two cents worth on this.
If a punter asks you directly to not fake anything, but just be honest and even feel free to give some instructions....do you?
I would think the answer is sometimes, because sometimes you might not be digging the guy and just wanna smile politely and get it over with.
Or perhaps you've already been with an amazing punter that left you feeling like you should of been paying him.....and now the thought of an hour or so of mundane average sex with someone ' trying' to please you just ain't doing it for you.
Surely there's times were your just to damn tired.
In saying that I have no doubt that at times some of you are happy to help a fella out and honestly let him know when something ain't quite right, tell him to try this or that instead.
But for someone like myself, who needs to know that were both enjoying the activities, it's hard to cast aside all doubt that your not just being deceived by a great actress.
Also I guess I really just don't get it, if your not to tired or worn out from a busy day, why not be honest, why not try and help the guy feel better about himself, for having believed he really did make you feel good?
So how do you feel guy's?
Do you want to know if a lady is genuinely enjoying herself?
Couldn't care less?
How would it make you feel if you asked an honest question and you were fairly certain the response was BS?
Anyhow, as far as he knows all my punting stories are from pre-marriage and I don't bother trying to correct him, we're not buddies outside of work, we just get along well at work.
So chatting away and I mention how hard I always found it to believe WL about how good something's feeling.
He looks at me like I've just grown a pair of horns and says " Who gives a f@#k. I'm paying for it, I couldn't care less if she doesn't get off."
I didn't say much to that, because I knew he wouldn't understand what it is that gets me off.
I find it next to impossible to even get an erection unless I know the other party is genuinely enjoying themselves.
Once I believe that though, no problems, I get so hard sometimes it actually physically throbs with an ache.
But with punting it becomes an iffy thing, because how can you trust someone whose job it is to make every man feel like he's king in the sack.
Are they serious, did they really like that, no other girls made that much fuss over that before, etc, etc...
Surely no one is so naïve as to believe that somehow with a WL all your little bag of tricks have suddenly started working better than with anyone else?
But!
And ladies, please give us your two cents worth on this.
If a punter asks you directly to not fake anything, but just be honest and even feel free to give some instructions....do you?
I would think the answer is sometimes, because sometimes you might not be digging the guy and just wanna smile politely and get it over with.
Or perhaps you've already been with an amazing punter that left you feeling like you should of been paying him.....and now the thought of an hour or so of mundane average sex with someone ' trying' to please you just ain't doing it for you.
Surely there's times were your just to damn tired.
In saying that I have no doubt that at times some of you are happy to help a fella out and honestly let him know when something ain't quite right, tell him to try this or that instead.
But for someone like myself, who needs to know that were both enjoying the activities, it's hard to cast aside all doubt that your not just being deceived by a great actress.
Also I guess I really just don't get it, if your not to tired or worn out from a busy day, why not be honest, why not try and help the guy feel better about himself, for having believed he really did make you feel good?
So how do you feel guy's?
Do you want to know if a lady is genuinely enjoying herself?
Couldn't care less?
How would it make you feel if you asked an honest question and you were fairly certain the response was BS?
Of course. Sorry. Am running on 3hrs sleep and only 2 and a half hours into a 12hr shift. Coffee just ain't cutting it this morning
