Well that 'next move' you speak of may be happening sooner than later... decided to go the basic pathway initally and then look at a transfer to my inital idea down the track... presuming that would work 
So hitting up the training and gym and stuff pretty hard over the next month or 3 and hopefully be there by the end of this year at the latest!!!
Thanks all for the support etc!!! been great having this forum over the last 6months to vent and bitch and moan and tell my story.... I will keep in touch and update if anything happens/changes in the future, keep this thread alive hopefully (that is if my sex life is still alive...... hahaha)

So hitting up the training and gym and stuff pretty hard over the next month or 3 and hopefully be there by the end of this year at the latest!!!
Thanks all for the support etc!!! been great having this forum over the last 6months to vent and bitch and moan and tell my story.... I will keep in touch and update if anything happens/changes in the future, keep this thread alive hopefully (that is if my sex life is still alive...... hahaha)