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Mrs Langtrees said:
I have never expected free stuff as a woman and many of us don't so go easy John
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High value women don't expect stuff for free...only low value women do..

Even when I'm out I'll get women ask me can you buy me q drink 😂 like no!!!! Get lost

It's an easy way to filter our people you don't want to be around example
 
johnmatilda said:
Me and others I know but compared to what I've seen others go through, mine was a leisure stroll though the park. Unfortunately (or fortunately) it's the misfortune of others that prevented me going down the same path. I agree re bad experiences and I'm not a sucker for punishment. Once bitten, twice shy.


You're right, just a bunch. More likely to find a female leprechaun sitting on a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow who wants to give me a root and pay me for it in gold!


I did (e.g. the single mum who expected me to pay for her child's private school fees) but after 9 months she got a bit too comfortable and started waving red flags in my face.


I am very happy with things as they are, spending time with my best mates, getting more ladies' ass than a toilet seat and enjoying my beach house and rare collectable car which I shall not let slip out of my hands like many others. I've found relationships more stress than they are worth with no return. My dad used to say that if you have to work hard at a relationship, then it's not worth it.
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johnmatilda said:
Me and others I know but compared to what I've seen others go through, mine was a leisure stroll though the park. Unfortunately (or fortunately) it's the misfortune of others that prevented me going down the same path. I agree re bad experiences and I'm not a sucker for punishment. Once bitten, twice shy.


You're right, just a bunch. More likely to find a female leprechaun sitting on a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow who wants to give me a root and pay me for it in gold!


I did (e.g. the single mum who expected me to pay for her child's private school fees) but after 9 months she got a bit too comfortable and started waving red flags in my face.


I am very happy with things as they are, spending time with my best mates, getting more ladies' ass than a toilet seat and enjoying my beach house and rare collectable car which I shall not let slip out of my hands like many others. I've found relationships more stress than they are worth with no return. My dad used to say that if you have to work hard at a relationship, then it's not worth it.
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My man. I have had enough with relationships too and plan to make me happy with cars I love.
 
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Seduce me said:
High value women don't expect stuff for free...only low value women do..

Even when I'm out I'll get women ask me can you buy me q drink 😂 like no!!!! Get lost

It's an easy way to filter our people you don't want to be around example
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💯. Also high value women don't engage with low value or equal value men.
 
Or when you see ladies on Twitter saying they feel like a coffee and ask for guys to pay for it. Love, you make $500 an hour. You can pay for it yourself 🤣

Hope Garth is ok and didn't get sucked in to giving her $15000. Bit of a worry he has deleted his account. There are a few unscrupulous so and sos going around using this economy as an excuse
 
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So can I ask a favour? All you guys who are pissed off with women for life...we get that, can you please stop filling all of these posts with your whingeing? If you really are happy then why are you so bitter that you have to make a negative comments on every post? Tell us about how much you are enjoying old age punting instead
 
Westozman said:
Now thats just made up bullshit John
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I know right? It's such a strange foreign alien concept that there is a word for it: Hypergamy.

www.womenshealthmag.com

FYI: You Might Be In A Hypergamous Relationship And Not Even Know It

I mean, Daphne Bridgerton is in one, sooo...
www.womenshealthmag.com www.womenshealthmag.com

"In fact, even as women earn more university degrees than men, they are still 93-percent more likely to marry men with higher incomes, according to a 2016 study conducted by the University of British Columbia. And though higher incomes don't necessarily equate to a higher social class, financial security is one of the main drivers of female hypergamy.

This may be an evolutionary call back to the prehistoric woman’s need for a capable provider. "There are inherited tendencies [for some women] to be attracted to men who have more means, which goes back to our roots as hunters and gatherers. Similarly, there are inherited tendencies for some men to feel attracted to women who appear more fertile (e.g. wide hips, long hair)," notes Sharma. "That said, we are the only species who has the capacity to be consciously aware of those tendencies, and we have moved beyond them as primary drivers for mating in today's more modern world.""

Funnily enough, I stated the second paragraph above some years ago in this forum somewhere out of my own thinking, opinion and observations and voila, the article and I have come to the same understanding!

en.wikipedia.org

Hypergamy - Wikipedia

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Westozman said:
So can I ask a favour? All you guys who are pissed off with women for life...we get that, can you please stop filling all of these posts with your whingeing? If you really are happy then why are you so bitter that you have to make a negative comments on every post? Tell us about how much you are enjoying old age punting instead
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I don't see any whingeing. Are you now going to call out punters who lament when they turn up to an address and find that it is a bait and switch?

I fail to see why you get so offended and disturbed with others expressing their opinions or experiences which are real. People are merely expressing their feelings and thoughts which should not be stifled or belittled just like there are many punters here who express an opinion on a WL. The anguish many men go through during divorce is real when significant assets and children are involved or false allegations are made.

If you don't like a topic, just move on or ignore the user like others do. This forum isn't just for punting topics. A looksie on the public forums and I can see topics on body art, mental and drug health, relationships etc. There is even a sub-topic on "What’s your favourite Shoe".
 
Westozman said:
So can I ask a favour? All you guys who are pissed off with women for life...we get that, can you please stop filling all of these posts with your whingeing? If you really are happy then why are you so bitter that you have to make a negative comments on every post? Tell us about how much you are enjoying old age punting instead
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You are very quick to draw conclusions/put words in others' mouths.
I don't see anyone pissed off with women, for life. At least I'm not.
I just don't want relationships and I think that's my decision to make.
And just because you want to find/found someone to be happy ever after with, and I truely support anyone who wants that, it doesn't make us who don't want that look bad. We just want different things.
 
911TS said:
You are very quick to draw conclusions/put words in others' mouths.
I don't see anyone pissed off with women, for life. At least I'm not.
I just don't want relationships and I think that's my decision to make.
And just because you want to find/found someone to be happy ever after with, and I truely support anyone who wants that, it doesn't make us who don't want that look bad. We just want different things.
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Well said.

We all want different things and outcomes in life and we all have a different outlook on life depending on our experiences. Some have had a bad experience and naturally they will avoid those experiences in future.
 
johnmatilda said:
"In fact, even as women earn more university degrees than men, they are still 93-percent more likely to marry men with higher incomes, according to a 2016 study conducted by the University of British Columbia. And though higher incomes don't necessarily equate to a higher social class, financial security is one of the main drivers of female hypergamy.
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Interesting discussion.

But there's some flawed logic being used here i would have thought given that on average men earn more then women.
 
'Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results' IMO every failure in life is an opportunity to change and improve. This is particularly true of relationships. Changing the 'type' I'm attracted to, changing how I behave in the relationship, modifying expectations (up or down) etc. We have all been in bad relationships at some time is my guess, it's the learnings gained that can provide a better future. There is no harm in being bitter about a past experience but anger often denies us the ability to truly reflect on the part we played in why the relationship failed. Just reset and try again, the benefits are worth it IMO.
 
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johnmatilda said:
Me and others I know but compared to what I've seen others go through, mine was a leisure stroll though the park. Unfortunately (or fortunately) it's the misfortune of others that prevented me going down the same path. I agree re bad experiences and I'm not a sucker for punishment. Once bitten, twice shy.


You're right, just a bunch. More likely to find a female leprechaun sitting on a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow who wants to give me a root and pay me for it in gold!


I did (e.g. the single mum who expected me to pay for her child's private school fees) but after 9 months she got a bit too comfortable and started waving red flags in my face.


I am very happy with things as they are, spending time with my best mates, getting more ladies' ass than a toilet seat and enjoying my beach house and rare collectable car which I shall not let slip out of my hands like many others. I've found relationships more stress than they are worth with no return. My dad used to say that if you have to work hard at a relationship, then it's not worth it.
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I'm reliably informed, and found out by experience also, if it drives, flies, floats or fucks...... hire it by the hour.

Life has been perfect since following that advice.
 
oz-surfer said:
Interesting discussion.

But there's some flawed logic being used here i would have thought given that on average men earn more then women.
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I'm glad you brought this up as it promotes a healthy discussion and better understanding.

I think this video helps bring the truth to light:

And:
 
Westozman said:
So can I ask a favour? All you guys who are pissed off with women for life...we get that, can you please stop filling all of these posts with your whingeing? If you really are happy then why are you so bitter that you have to make a negative comments on every post? Tell us about how much you are enjoying old age punting instead
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I find it kind of amusing that when men call out toxic women its seen as whingeing yet when women do the same thing to men the white knights come out in force and applaud her for her empowerment.
 
Horny A said:
Don't do it. Never heard of these arrangements working out and it's always the punter that's short changed.

Do the job for whatever price it's worth then tell her you'll come back and spend some of it on her. Or you will be left with nothing but empty promises.
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some leave with nothing, empty pockets
 
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