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garth1

Any body ever been offered services for your skill set ?
Ie mechanical work , building, landscaping etc
 
Don't do it. Never heard of these arrangements working out and it's always the punter that's short changed.

Do the job for whatever price it's worth then tell her you'll come back and spend some of it on her. Or you will be left with nothing but empty promises.
 
Horny A said:
Don't do it. Never heard of these arrangements working out and it's always the punter that's short changed.

Do the job for whatever price it's worth then tell her you'll come back and spend some of it on her. Or you will be left with nothing but empty promises.
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💯 agree!
 
Horny A said:
Don't do it. Never heard of these arrangements working out and it's always the punter that's short changed.

Do the job for whatever price it's worth then tell her you'll come back and spend some of it on her. Or you will be left with nothing but empty promises.
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Agreed
 
Horny A said:
Don't do it. Never heard of these arrangements working out and it's always the punter that's short changed.

Do the job for whatever price it's worth then tell her you'll come back and spend some of it on her. Or you will be left with nothing but empty promises.
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Cheers man
Sounds good advice
 
Horny A said:
Don't do it. Never heard of these arrangements working out and it's always the punter that's short changed.

Do the job for whatever price it's worth then tell her you'll come back and spend some of it on her. Or you will be left with nothing but empty promises.
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Ha ha when i suggested payment she mentioned she didnt have the money and it would take a lot of visits to get my return
 
garth1 said:
Ha ha when i suggested payment she mentioned she didnt have the money and it would take a lot of visits to get my return
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Well done, you caught her out. Didn't have the money and not interested in working it off for a $15000 job. The actual nerve. Like I said this wouldn't be her first attempt. She wouldn't have started this big.

Hope you are not seeing her anymore. You will get pressured to still do it if you are. When she realises she can't get it out of you she will stop seeing you and say it's because you are getting too close and want too much. Such an old play that too many try unfortunately.

You should name her because it will save the next guy. She will keep trying. Is she talked about on here a lot? Can dm me the name if you like.
 
Horny A said:
Well done, you caught her out. Didn't have the money and not interested in working it off for a $15000 job. The actual nerve. Like I said this wouldn't be her first attempt. She wouldn't have started this big.

Hope you are not seeing her anymore. You will get pressured to still do it if you are. When she realises she can't get it out of you she will stop seeing you and say it's because you are getting too close and want too much. Such an old play that too many try unfortunately.

You should name her because it will save the next guy. She will keep trying. Is she talked about on here a lot? Can dm me the name if you like.
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Cheers horny A
Yeah definitely wasnt who i thought she was
Ill keep her identity private its just how i prefer to conduct my buisness

But yeah feel free to pm
 
garth1 said:
Ha ha when i suggested payment she mentioned she didnt have the money and it would take a lot of visits to get my return
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So she didn't have the money and wouldn't be able to pay for it in services? How then was she supposed to pay for the job? From your generosity? She sure has a nerve. Another classic case of women expecting free stuff because she is a woman.
 
johnmatilda said:
So she didn't have the money and wouldn't be able to pay for it in services? How then was she supposed to pay for the job? From your generosity? She sure has a nerve. Another classic case of women expecting free stuff because she is a woman.
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I have never expected free stuff as a woman and many of us don't so go easy John
 
Mrs Langtrees said:
I have never expected free stuff as a woman and many of us don't so go easy John
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Not you MAK and no doubt many girls here (there are exceptions to every rule), but in my experience, it is generally true of most women. Just ask me. Every woman I've been with expected me to "be a man and step up" and pay for everything! One in particular expected me to pay for private school for her kid! I refused. She called me cheap (she needs to look in the mirror calling me cheap and the kid is hers!). I'm now a lot wiser ;). My friends have similar issues with the women in their lives.
 
For that kinda money I’d stay well clear of exchanging services instead of cash, maybe for a discount but even then I’d avoid, you can end up out of pocket and screwed over not in a good way, they can easily say sorry too busy how about next week or whatever excuse they can come up with. Doesn't matter how well you think you get along with them when it comes to services and money it’s best to take the easy route.
 
johnmatilda said:
Not you MAK and no doubt many girls here (there are exceptions to every rule), but in my experience, it is generally true of most women. Just ask me. Every woman I've been with expected me to "be a man and step up" and pay for everything! One in particular expected me to pay for private school for her kid! I refused. She called me cheap (she needs to look in the mirror calling me cheap and the kid is hers!). I'm now a lot wiser ;). My friends have similar issues with the women in their lives.
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Jesus John, I was just scrolling through this old thread and read this. You have had a shit full of bad experiences with women, but let me assure you that you are now better at picking the bad ones. There is a bunch of women out there just loooking for an honest guy to grow old with. Dont expect a $450 escort, just choose someone who is not a cranky asshole in the first 3 months, treat her with respect, have fun TOGETHER and dont fight the little things and you will live a happy and not lonely retirement
 
Westozman said:
You have had a shit full of bad experiences with women, but let me assure you that you are now better at picking the bad ones.
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Me and others I know but compared to what I've seen others go through, mine was a leisure stroll though the park. Unfortunately (or fortunately) it's the misfortune of others that prevented me going down the same path. I agree re bad experiences and I'm not a sucker for punishment. Once bitten, twice shy.

Westozman said:
There is a bunch of women out there just loooking for an honest guy to grow old with.
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You're right, just a bunch. More likely to find a female leprechaun sitting on a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow who wants to give me a root and pay me for it in gold!

Westozman said:
just choose someone who is not a cranky asshole in the first 3 months, treat her with respect
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I did (e.g. the single mum who expected me to pay for her child's private school fees) but after 9 months she got a bit too comfortable and started waving red flags in my face.

Westozman said:
and you will live a happy and not lonely retirement
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I am very happy with things as they are, spending time with my best mates, getting more ladies' ass than a toilet seat and enjoying my beach house and rare collectable car which I shall not let slip out of my hands like many others. I've found relationships more stress than they are worth with no return. My dad used to say that if you have to work hard at a relationship, then it's not worth it.
 
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