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First time at Langtrees, feeling guilty

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Piratezombie

I went for the first time to Langtrees a few weeks ago with my friends, they’ve been there before.
I met this girl, so easy going, I gave into temptation.
Now I’m feeling extremely guilty because I have a partner I really love. I don’t really know what to do.
Has anyone been in this situation? Any advice ?
 
If you really feel awful and don't want to do it again, accept that you did it, move on and don't do it again.

I wouldn't confess. What would you achieve? At best you take your bad feelings and force them onto your partner. At worst you get a divorce.
 
thisisaname said:
If you really feel awful and don't want to do it again, accept that you did it, move on and don't do it again.

I wouldn't confess. What would you achieve? At best you take your bad feelings and force them onto your partner. At worst you get a divorce.
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Next time bring your girlfriend and ask for a lady that services couples.
 
ozwarlock67 said:
Why did you go there in the first place then? Did ypu think it was a social club
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I went there because my friends wanted to, I hanged out with them and then just waited outside for them.
But I came back on my own later that night.
 
Best to learn to forgive yourself PirateZombie. If you live long you will have a trunk full of regrets to drag around. Temptation makes us do things that are often out of character. The behavioural exception driven by temptation and desire doesn't define you unless you let it. It's the other 364 days in the year that do. Learn from your experience and move on. Love your partner and forgive yourself for the mistake. Make sure you take it to your grave though :-)
 
I have actually written a post about this but am yet to post it... ill post it in a few days - so keep an eye out for it... but in the mean time im interested in a update.....

Now that it has been sometime since - how do you currently feel?

Have you been back and had another experience?

Do you think you will go back?
 
Piratezombie said:
I feel better. Guilt comes in at some times.
I haven’t been back. I don’t think I will
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i just uploaded my post about cheating - whilst it doesn't exactly address your predicament - I have been in the industry on and off for 18 years and have spoken to a lot of clients regarding relationship dynamics and emotional responses to seeing sex workers - so it's an interesting read at least. - https://www.talkinsex.com/threads/c...the-safer-option-than-a-random-affair.110208/
 
Hi,
Please don't feel guilty. You paid a professional to provide a service, that was a safe service as all our ladies have health checks and practice safe sex and they are there to provide you pleasure in that moment, they are not trying to have an emotional connection with you. Some couples have negotiated fidelity where cheating is not allowed but visiting a sex worker is allowed. You don't love your partner any more or any less because you spent some time having NSA fun with a professional sex worker.
 
You don’t really have enough evidence to make a scientific conclusion.

I would suggest you go back at least twice so you can do a proper comparative study,

Your conclusion is unsound due to no comparative evidence.

Do it for science!
 
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