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Engagement ring at work?

Kylie Middleton

Kylie Middleton

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I guess this is a question mostly for the men, but if any ladies have any advice I'd love to hear it. I don't hide the fact that I'm engaged from clients and I do wear my ring to work but tend to take it off during sex (no idea why I do that). I've always just assumed that they don't care about my relationship status because they already know that I see several men a day, so wearing a ring doesn't matter. But would you find it at all off-putting? Would I be better leaving it off?
 
I see no harm in it my self
Outside of the fantasy world of LTs The ring means your attached and unattainable
In LTs well...

Anyway I am sure you may have seen a wedding band on a client once before now;)
 
Kelly Malcom said:
I guess this is a question mostly for the men, but if any ladies have any advice I'd love to hear it. I don't hide the fact that I'm engaged from clients and I do wear my ring to work but tend to take it off during sex (no idea why I do that). I've always just assumed that they don't care about my relationship status because they already know that I see several men a day, so wearing a ring doesn't matter. But would you find it at all off-putting? Would I be better leaving it off?
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hi Kelly some men will not rebook you if you are in a serious relationship for their own reasons .
other me like the challenge of playing with a betrothed like yourself .
it doesn't matter if you wear the ring or not . men will do whatever pleases them .

it gets complicated when you try and analyze it :-) :-)

have a great day :-)
 
Wearing a ring is a sign that let's others know the partnership status the wearer wants to display.
It is not necessarily their true status. Some remove their ring(s) to attract attention to show that they're at least approachable. Some wear rings despite not being in a relationship but simply don't fancy being 'hit on' - even is it's just temporary. Perhaps some wear their ring(s) to remind themselves not to stray. I personally never wear rings, necklaces, chains or even a watch for that matter since I find that it's all too fiddly and gets in the way.
If I'm approached by someone who believes I may be available I'd rather communicate that fact verbally and I find that we can still continue enjoy each others' company in generally a more relaxed and genuine way.
I generally don't notice or even tend to look if someone's wearing a ring - I'm too busy focusing on their eyes and expressions - that is where you find the truth.
LOL. I'm going on and on here. What's the question again? Oh. That's right.
Answer. Do whatever you like, It wouldn't matter to me.:)
 
I assume that all working ladies are in some kind of a relationship which is fine of course, so no it shouldn't make a difference to me but given a couple of bad experiences I've had, I would probably turn down a lady I knew that was engaged over one that i thought wasn't. It's hard to say unless I was in that situation again though, but if you're getting plenty of work, I wouldn't worry about taking the ring off.
 
I presume you have it on when you meet guys in the lounge etc and only take it off once in the room getting ready?

I cannot speak for other men, but I can speculate. ;)

I think it will turn some guys off and some guys on. Just like some guys like blondes and some brunettes and some don't care.

Some may find it intrudes into their fantasy of picking up an awesome, out of their league girl and pretending she is his. Others may like the idea of cutting another guy's grass.

There's probably a million different reactions both external and internal.

My opinion is that seeing her wear it would make me baulk. I can't really express why, it just would. But then when I visit WLs I don't remove my wedding ring. So that's seems a bit hypocritical. But you wanted an honest response. :)

End of the day do what pleases you. I think you'll attract as many as you turn off by wearing it.
 
Hi Kelly, I think you should leave it on. It is great that you have found a partner that wants to make that commitment to you. My girlfriend is a WL and she has to keep explaining to clients that she is not available outside of work. Indeed your partner might like the idea that you signal you are not available. I note from another post that you are happy for him to see other women, which is very good of you. My girlfriend is ok with me seeing other WL when she has long bookings ( indeed she encourages it ), which allows us to compare experiences. Although I must admit there have been times when I really miss her when she is on a long booking. We have agreed that I won't go on routine dates. At some point I will probably propose to my girlfriend. If that happens I would like to think she would wear the ring. As mentioned, it is likely that there will be guys that will be put off by it and others that like the idea. Maybe some married clients may feel more comfortable with you.
 
Ozrock said:
Maybe some married clients may feel more comfortable with you.
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Personally, as a marries punter, I feel it is the opposite. Unfair though it may be, I kind of think that a WL who is about to make a lifetime commitment to another guy is going to be less impresses with and more judgemental of a cheating husband visiting her because she would not like her soon to be husband doing that.

Perhaps I'm wrong! Happy to be told so :)
 
Lol yes I have seen lots of wedding rings! I worked as a sugar baby before going full escort and most of the men I saw through that were married and talked openly about the problems they were facing in their marriages. I think if I hadn't had that experience I might have been more judgmental, but I've learned that every relationship is so different, and it's not up to me to decide whether what they're doing is okay or not. But thank you for all your comments, I might leave the ring on and take it off only if requested to do so :)
 
Alice of Wonderland said:
i bet guys would love it! the thought of being bad with another mans women
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Nope. It's just about wanting to be with the woman herself. How far you pursue depends on her relationship commitment - so it's probably more like how bad she wants to be.
 
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