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Do woman like nude photo's of men?

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BigMike

I have read some place that Men and Women react to differing sexual stimuli.

Men are very visual hence the proliferation of nudie magazines. Women on the other hand like stories hence books like the Black Lace series of books. I wonder though if women are just as aroused by nude pics of men. I am excluding movies here as they do tend to be a mix of story and visual.

I think men are far less Interlectual the relpy to the story I posted are all from females so men dont seem to get as aroused by stories as women do. I love to write and read stories I find them quite exciting. Equally I do enjoy looking at pics as well.

There fore i consider my self to be neutral on the question of Interlectual V Visual.

Where do you fall on this scale ?

BigM
 
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Womans POV

I don't think it is a case of men prefer pictures because theyre less intellectual. I am a woman and I love porn and I love erotic stories and I am certainly not lacking on the intellectual scale. I think each serves a different purpose for me. I read erotic stories for pleasure, whereas I watch porn for the sole purpose of turning myself on. They stimulate different parts of me.

Pornography is certainly a visual turn on! But I find that when watching porn I can close my eyes and simply listen to the actors/actresses moans of pleasure and get turned on. Reading erotic stories is different in that it gets my imagination going and my fantasies take over... but it is all mental. Porn means that I dont have to work my mind....I can just work my body
 
I don't actually read stories of the sexual nature - I'm more interested in reading Jack Kerouac, Allan Ginsberg [although, Howl does have some graphic in its words], William Burroughs, Oscar Wilde, etc....

However, pictures don't actually turn me on either. And I must say, pictures of men definitely don't. Now don't get me wrong, I love both the female AND male physique, but pictures don't really cut it for me, neither do films.

I find that my imagination best sets me off. The only way I can orgasm during sex is to either get myself off and visualise the pictures that I'd like to have happen to me, or if someone is damn good with their tongue. Just stickin' yer dick in the hole ain't gonna do it! ahahah

So ummm, I have neither visual, nor intellectual stimulation. Mine's inbetween in a way....more like fantasy.
 
In regards to porn (videos/pictures etc) I find it is the women that do it for me.

The porn industry wants average guys to be able to identify with their product. So they use average looking guys. That way the guys watching can think, "Man if that ugly bastard is bonking that hot babe maybe there is a chance for us". And it also means that guys are covered in terms of their homoerotic feelings. Most guys don't want to watch sexy guys slamming porn stars- they don't want to be sitting there thinking, 'He is really hot and has great muscle definition'. They want to be focusing on the girls!

So anyways for me porn is all about the girls. Which is why most straight girls either don't like porn at all, or like gay porn. And why they like fantasising about sex more than actually seeing it- then the guy can look as hot as they like. And the girl he is having sex with is them- just the way they like it!
 
"head f...k"

I can only get into the mental side. It is a pain sometimes. I need to have some emotional bond with the person I am with, even if it is friendly. Could be one of the following:

Most my mates are gay. (No I am not a closet case)

Way too much education

Having an active imagination



I think it would be easier just to enjoy the sensation alone.

 
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In regards to porn (videos/pictures etc) I find it is the women that do it for me.

This is the same for me...
 
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& me too! I find that when I watch pron movies I find the female more apleasing than the males!
 
Interesting discussion,
I find naked pictures of the male form can be a turn on but need to show at least 1/2 the body and preferrable the face with a smile.Can't stand dick pictures as the first photo I see, if looking at a profile and it had three photo's I would want to see the face and chest first, a full back profile (Butts turn me on) and then a equipment (dick) photo if I was still interested.When I was a member of AMM and red hot pie any one that had dick photo's only on there profiles just didn't rate a reply.
What do the rest of the ladies think?
 
Hm

If there were three guys walking down the beach, one with shorts, one with speedos and another nude id look at the one with the nice face/smile/eyes! Then check out there chest and back and shoulders and stomach and butt.......

Only in pornos with good looking guys (there is one in partic. I like who has strong arms which are accentuated by tattoos) do I ever pay attention to the men. Penises are over rated in the looks department.... How they look is not as important as guys tend to believe

Now if i see a girl walking down the beach............ ;)
 
yeah...


yeah yeah......

yeah..... lol

butts
legs
face
chest
butt again
and then
butt again

yeah yeah
oh... and then maybe bulge (covered)...
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I notice his height first...then his face...

Usually, I like either tall, skinny guys or tall, tubby guys.

But if I don't think they have a cute face, I won't approach.

I don't care about the arse, shit comes out of it. Besides, I'm captain bargearse myself.

And then ladies...I'm probably as picky as the next guy/girl. But yeah, to me, a pretty face is awesome and if they're slim, or slightly pudgy [as I too am pudgy], I dig that.

But after a while, the looks don't matter - personality is the biggest factor...if they have no personality, I say good bye....

Sometimes, I'm evil...
 
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Ma

Have to agree its not how a penis looks its how you use it.Had some of the best sex over the years with guys that had small dicks and one that was mis shappen .Funny thing is after a relationship I remember the guy not the penis.Had some great penis as well but can't remember the guy that well so I think it goes to show its the person that counts.
 
i dont mind nude pics of men... as long as they are tastefully or artistically taken, and not crude. b + w pics or sepia are most of the best, not into the whole "here is my genetalia" thing.. thats crass and off putting. something where a sheet, towel, or shirt covers their bits up.. leaves something to the imagination. kinda like the way the olympic athletes posed.. that looks fantastic
 
I don't really like sepia at all. But B+W is always awesome. Even I look good in black and white lol
 
nude pictures of men make me wild like if they are having a play with them selfs that so does it for me hehehe :angel12:
 
Gay male porn does it for me, whether it's visual or written. Particularly forced male sex, slavery type stories - and yes I'm female, and yes I'm straight lol.

One of the most erotic things I've ever seen was my first dom - who was bi - fucking his malesub while I watched - yum:-)

Chrissie
 
maryanne said:
Interesting discussion,
I find naked pictures of the male form can be a turn on but need to show at least 1/2 the body and preferrable the face with a smile.Can't stand dick pictures as the first photo I see, if looking at a profile and it had three photo's I would want to see the face and chest first, a full back profile (Butts turn me on) and then a equipment (dick) photo if I was still interested.When I was a member of AMM and red hot pie any one that had dick photo's only on there profiles just didn't rate a reply.
What do the rest of the ladies think?


Dead right Maryanne...being a member of AMM myself if the only pic they had was one of the head between their legs and not the ones on their shoulders it was/is an instant delete...
:headbang:
 
The real thing

Looking at photos is fine, but are men are like coca-cola, there's nothing like the real thing!!!!!!!!!!!

Slavegirl Suzie
 
or is that fizzy and bubbly, then once they popped they go flat and life-less???
 
Im with u gals on this one! I prefer sex pics of females than I do of males. Im like Marryanne, pics of guys without dick shots. I love pics of nicley tanned males with a bit of a six-pack, beautiful eyes, brillent smile & one who takes pride in his appearance.

When Im out shopping, at the beach etc, I firstly look at his face than if Im satifiated with that then I'll check out his butt. When Im with friends & I spot a good looking guy before my friends do, I point him out & together we give him a once over, sometime even a twice-over, thrice-over.....etc.

:hello:
 
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