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DISCRETION ‼️🚨

Francesca_LT

Francesca_LT

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I was noticed by a client today, while I was out in public. This client approached me and called me by my work name WHILE I WAS WITH A YOUNG FAMILY MEMBER. Please guys! You know we value discretion and privacy just like you. Just like clients have to remain anonymous and private for various reasons of their own, we do too. PLEASE please do not approach us in public. It is not ok. I managed to get out of it by claiming it was a mistaken identity but I shouldn’t have to. Under no circumstances is this ok. I can’t stress that enough. I have all the time in the world to chat …. Inside the Langtrees building! Xx
 
Francesca_LT said:
I was noticed by a client today, while I was out in public. This client approached me and called me by my work name WHILE I WAS WITH A YOUNG FAMILY MEMBER. Please guys! You know we value discretion and privacy just like you. Just like clients have to remain anonymous and private for various reasons of their own, we do too. PLEASE please do not approach us in public. It is not ok. I managed to get out of it by claiming it was a mistaken identity but I shouldn’t have to. Under no circumstances is this ok. I can’t stress that enough. I have all the time in the world to chat …. Inside the Langtrees building! Xx
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absolutely true, people should respect each others privacy at all stages and occassion!
 
The only appropriate reaction to seeing a wl in public is pulling the awkward face of realization and then a fast exit or aggressively ignoring our existence.
Approaching us and trying to have a conversation could put our whole life at risk. We could be with our parents, children, partners or professionals from our other jobs. Even if we are alone still just do not do it! It's just one of those rules

Also sorry you had to deal with this @Francesca_LT
 
Arabella Allure said:
The only appropriate reaction to seeing a wl in public is pulling the awkward face of realization and then a fast exit or aggressively ignoring our existence.
Approaching us and trying to have a conversation could put our whole life at risk. We could be with our parents, children, partners or professionals from our other jobs. Even if we are alone still just do not do it! It's just one of those rules

Also sorry you had to deal with this @Francesca_LT
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Yes not cool!
 
Goodstuff36 Bon truc in french said:
Happened to me once while I was in the supermarket helping with my mum with shopping working lady gave me a wave and said hi.
Had to explain to my mum that I had met the girl on the train whilst going to work.
Yep descretion is important.
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I’m glad you didn’t have too much of a situation to wriggle out of.
But still, she should have known the code.
 
I can only add that I once bumped into a WL I knew in a professional setting - she was there to see one of my colleagues. There was brief eye contact, maybe some blushing, perhaps half a smile, and I went on with filling my water bottle from the cooler. I know from subsequent meetings that my discretion was appreciated. Cuts both ways. If I was approached by a WL while say, buying Cinema tickets with the kids, it’s a nightmare, and an instant end to any fun times. Some boundaries are concrete for a reason, but I guess some guys don’t get it.
 
Jamie Jackson said:
I’m glad you didn’t have too much of a situation to wriggle out of.
But still, she should have known the code.
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Second this. The code is golden. It goes both ways for the discretion of both parties. This is also why we use an alias! If we wanted to give out our real details, then WLs wouldn’t go through the trouble boys.
 
Francesca_LT said:
I was noticed by a client today, while I was out in public. This client approached me and called me by my work name WHILE I WAS WITH A YOUNG FAMILY MEMBER. Please guys! You know we value discretion and privacy just like you. Just like clients have to remain anonymous and private for various reasons of their own, we do too. PLEASE please do not approach us in public. It is not ok. I managed to get out of it by claiming it was a mistaken identity but I shouldn’t have to. Under no circumstances is this ok. I can’t stress that enough. I have all the time in the world to chat …. Inside the Langtrees building! Xx
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Just wondering if you’ve seen this client since the incident?
 
Such a shame Prostitution in todays society still has so many negative attachments to it that there has to be secrecy and hiding.
Its a profession and a service that doesn't deserve all negativity that goes with it.
A service for an agreed fee. Isn't that what were ALL doing?
 
lebowskidude said:
Such a shame Prostitution in todays society still has so many negative attachments to it that there has to be secrecy and hiding.
Its a profession and a service that doesn't deserve all negativity that goes with it.
A service for an agreed fee. Isn't that what were ALL doing?
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I think you're venturing a bit too close to the nerve .. haha
CLEARLY even many WLs aren't always proud of their employment status/profession. Some even trying to openly deny they are taking blokes hard earned, and clinging desperately to their 'legit' claim.
but discretion is a natural thing too ..
 
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