Could you have a relationship with an escort if she was still working?

[DDLOVER2013]

Has anyone had a relationship with a lady while they were working?
Would it be possible?
What would make it work? You'd have to block out all thoughts and be trusting big time.. Surely it happens though?

 

[rickman]

Plenty of threads on this but short version i've done it and it was fine for me.

You know what you're getting into what is there to not trust about? In fact i found it liberating because you know whats going on and if you can be open about something like that you can be open about anything.

That sounds if you have doubts now then its simply not for you.

 

[ozwarlock67]

I did it, but it didn't end well and she was a chronic alcoholic.

 

[LongHair]

Interesting subject and I believe there is no "one size fits all".

Obviously it would very much depend on the individuals involved and the stage that each are at in their lifes. I dont see it as a matter of trust as much as a matter of dealing with your own insecurities.

 

[Jasmines & Wellness]

Has anyone had a relationship with a lady while they were working?
Would it be possible?
What would make it work? You'd have to block out all thoughts and be trusting big time.. Surely it happens though?

Yes I was married to one an know have a partner of 13 months no hassles except or leave

 

[miles lagniah]

it would be psychologically tricky

 

[1steelrod]

Yes. Just remember. It's made round to go around.
But if you have trust issues stay away. Your head will need a lot of adjustment,s to make it work.
Good luck if you try.
Respect her for what she is doing.

 

[peartywerty]

No way I could. Couldn't deal with the possibility that a friend or family member could discover her line of work.

Of course it can work for some people.

 

[Vebs]

Sure if it’s an open relationship

 

[Mariah]

My bestfriend married a former client and they're expecting a baby! Sooo it can be done!

 

[DeletedUser]

It’s a weird relationship to have knowing that she / he is having sex with another person.
But hey, it’s possible!!

 

[Mariah]

It’s a weird relationship to have knowing that she / he is having sex with another person.
But hey, it’s possible!!

Just think of the money

 

[DeletedUser]

Just think of the money

Yeah I know..
but still a strange feeling.

 

[Channelle]

My bestfriend married a former client and they're expecting a baby! Sooo it can be done!

Many may do that - but is she still working?

 

[Mariah]

Many may do that - but is she still working?

She was for the first 2 years of their relationship. Then she stopped just before their wedding as they were also trying for a baby - which was successful - Quite the fairytale

 

[lonelyman]

Many men have relationships with escorts. It's a financial one.

 

[Deleted member 56424]

It would definitely be a challenge for both people involved, but what relationship doesn't take work.
If the opportunity arose for me I would definitely give it a go , nothing ventured nothing gained.

 

[C7Vol]

Many of the WLs we see have boyfriends or husbands. It's a question you don't ask.

 

[Bluey]

I think I’d be too paranoid I’d be scared she’d find someone better especially cos she’s always meeting new men

 

[Be Nice]

Many of the WLs we see have boyfriends or husbands. It's a question you don't ask.

Yes, the vast majority are married.

 

[Jordan Jackson]

I have met a client who prefers to only date WL's as he enjoys the feeling of being chosen over everyone else. Each to their own

 

[Master Yoda]

I have met a client who prefers to only date WL's as he enjoys the feeling of being chosen over everyone else. Each to their own

I dated WL 3 times. Yes there is that ego boost. But it was always backed up by a world of hurt.

I don’t wish to that on anyone

 

[DHFH]

I did it, but it didn't end well and she was a chronic alcoholic.

A working lady who is an alcoholic and in a relationship with a warlock. Yep I can understand why that might not have ended well.

 

[Luckypete 08]

I've taken two working ladies out to dinner a couple of times but I've never gotten serious but we had enjoyable times together and I think they just enjoyed not being at work or talking work and being themselves (if that makes sense) and just having a nice night out.....To answer the question yeah I think I'd give it a go ....Honesty on both sides is what its all about.

 

[mrys]

I did it once. We talked and agreed boundaries which subsequently proved to be worthless. It ended badly. I believe the concept can work but there has to be trust, honesty and transparency (like any good relationship) The woman I became involved with lacked integrity. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger they say.

 

[garth1]

Nope

 

[Master Yoda]

I've taken two working ladies out to dinner a couple of times but I've never gotten serious but we had enjoyable times together and I think they just enjoyed not being at work or talking work and being themselves (if that makes sense) and just having a nice night out.....To answer the question yeah I think I'd give it a go ....Honesty on both sides is what its all about.

Don't bro

 

[Master Yoda]

I did it once. We talked and agreed boundaries which subsequently proved to be worthless. It ended badly. I believe the concept can work but there has to be trust, honesty and transparency (like any good relationship) The woman I became involved with lacked integrity. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger they say.

Expected

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

Reverse this ..
I could never be in a relationship whilst doing this! I have nothing but respect for people who are in relationships and there is no judgement at all infact I admire them it's great and as long as your clear and honest with eachother and have boundaries I honestly see no issue however my reasons are completely personal to me.

I just don't have the time to put into a relationship whilst doing this I work 4 days a week sometimes I don't get home until 10 when I get home I just want to go to bed. I would be a shitty partner!

Weekends are spent doing family stuff and fitting in all the stuff I wasn't able to do during the week.

It's just me and my dog for now when I leave the industry maybe I will find someone or maybe I am just super comfortable being on my own I have no idea.

A x

 

[Ramper]

Yes I still do my GF is a Chinese lady who works at an AMP, I am Asian and she only massages and HJ, no head job or boom boom, she make up to 3k aweek, she like job, and when she finish job she not talk about it or worry it is a job and her job is to get money from punters us easy.