Communication

[AmeliaKennedy]

Good morning,

If there is something you are looking for from a provider don't be afraid to ask! The best way is to ask before hand if you have something in mind you would like them to do, a) to ensure its a service they offer and b) so they know to include it!

I have read a lot of reviews where clients say they wish the girl had done this or she didn't provide enough of something, we don't know unless you tell us, for me personally i just go with the flow of the booking and try to include as much services as I offer as possible however if there is something in particular your hoping for please let me know in a SMS before hand so I can ensure we are on the same page.

I'm pretty sure we all feel the same way be open with communication and it's ok if you don't like to ask or are nervous that's why mentioning it in a sms before hand is fantastic because then it doesn't make things uncomfortable if the provider is not happy to do what you are looking for, she may even point you in the direction of another provider she knows who offers what your looking for.

A x

 

[Vader]

It can still feel awkward making your requests via text though. But you’re right, if you don’t ask/enquire you definitely risk missing out on the services you want.

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

It can still feel awkward making your requests via text though. But you’re right, if you don’t ask/enquire you definitely risk missing out on the services you want.

Correct, I've had clients who have said at like booking 3 or 4 that they want me to go slower or they would like a massage first or something that I haven't been doing and I'm like ahhh tell me this is your experience we just don't know if we're not told. A SMS is alot easier because then if they don't offer it or not comfortable it's not face to face the worst is a no but we are all super approachable.

The worst scenario is when someone wants something and they don't disclose but then attempt it multiple times and it being a service we don't offer and we have to keep saying no and then we feel unsafe.

 

[mrys]

Well said Amelia. Clarity is soo important both in terms of what the gentleman desires and what the provider is happy to accomodate. Being on the same page avoids awkward moments that can kill the vibe in a booking. SMS is the perfect tool to use to ensure the booking will be happy and fulfilling. The more often you see the same person the easier this gets and the more you can explore possibilities together.

 

[AmeliaKennedy]

Well said Amelia. Clarity is soo important both in terms of what the gentleman desires and what the provider is happy to accomodate. Being on the same page avoids awkward moments that can kill the vibe in a booking. SMS is the perfect tool to use to ensure the booking will be happy and fulfilling. The more often you see the same person the easier this gets and the more you can explore possibilities together.

Agreed. There is nothing worse than parting with alot of money and being disappointed because it didn't live up to what you had in your head, if it's discussed already then fingers crossed it's awesome!

 

[mrys]

Agreed. There is nothing worse than parting with alot of money and being disappointed because it didn't live up to what you had in your head, if it's discussed already then fingers crossed it's awesome!

It still comes down to chemistry and connection after the specifics of the booking have been agreed. I've always been guided by the connection within the experience (as you have said earlier) If the connection and attraction is there good things happen. Not necessarily outside of the agreed parameters of the time spent.....but certainly with more enthusiasm and passion because you feel it instead of just doing it. I love those moments