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Clicking Together On-line but Not In The Flesh with WLs

Bluegrass9

Bluegrass9

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Once a few years ago I went to a sex forum and got to know one of the WL on the site.
I even sent some of my own poetry.
We seem to really click and so I booked to see her.
This lady had a good pool of regulars and it was hard having a chance to see her.
After around 3 months I had the chance.

She was very beautiful but alas the chemistry was not there and we never had another session together again.
I wonder was this because of our high expectations or we just really did not know each other very well?
And maybe the chemistry really was not there.
For the record I do not blame her and I know she has many very happy clients.
 
Bluegrass9 said:
Once a few years ago I went to a sex forum and got to know one of the WL on the site.
I even sent some of my own poetry.
We seem to really click and so I booked to see her.
This lady had a good pool of regulars and it was hard having a chance to see her.
After around 3 months I had the chance.

She was very beautiful but alas the chemistry was not there and we never had another session together again.
I wonder was this because of our high expectations or we just really did not know each other very well?
And maybe the chemistry really was not there.
For the record I do not blame her and I know she has many very happy clients.
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I know I same some clients I very happy sometime not happy and don't know why. Also sometime know why as we'll
 
Yes, when you have high expectations, the bar is set very high and even if it's met halfway, its going to feel like a letdown. Where as if your expectations are low, anything above that is a bonus.

This always happens when I'm hyped about a movie, by watching trailers. It pumps you up to the point when u go watch it, you are waiting for the awesomeness to set in, but nothing happens and you feel deflated.

Also with online/non face to face interactions, it may appear you connect on a deep level, but when eventually meet, the connection is not there.
 
Ahoy I would have to agree with "high expectations" and the disappointment factor after the initial meeting, I am sure everyone here has had similar experiences, but, as well I do believe in "chemistry factor" We all can spend days talking about bad or boring punts, but, every once in a while, you are at the right place with the right person and its all "PoW and GanGs" for the both of you
 
Bluegrass9 said:
Once a few years ago I went to a sex forum and got to know one of the WL on the site.
I even sent some of my own poetry.
We seem to really click and so I booked to see her.
This lady had a good pool of regulars and it was hard having a chance to see her.
After around 3 months I had the chance.

She was very beautiful but alas the chemistry was not there and we never had another session together again.
I wonder was this because of our high expectations or we just really did not know each other very well?
And maybe the chemistry really was not there.
For the record I do not blame her and I know she has many very happy clients.
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It's like.. the chemistry, dude, it just wasn't there!!
 
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