Calls and texts after working hours

[Babette of Darwin]

What is it with men who ring you up at all hours of the night, usually after midnight saying are you available? No I'm not available, I'm sleeping! I'm not open 24/7 and advertise my hours of availability quite clearly. I do need to rest and sleep occasionally and I do work as a nurse 3 days a week, but they either don't care or can't read. Thank god my iPhone has a privacy setting where I can switch off all incoming calls except for family and friends, until I worked that one out I had many wake up calls at all hours of the night. It is just plain rude and disrespectful and earns you a place on my blocked contacts list. Why can't men understand the difference between an escort, where you ring and make a booking and a brothel where you can walk in anytime it's open. Seriously men need a bit of education in this area, some escorts work 24/7 as its their only source of income but I don't and it's just plain rude to call out of business hours advertised. Be warned boys you will get an earful from me for calling after midnight. And while I'm on the subject, texting me and saying " are you horny? I want to lick your pussy" or sending pics of your cock doesn't do it for me either. Be respectful and polite and I will respond otherwise you're blocked!

 

[Trickortreat]

What is it with men who ring you up at all hours of the night, usually after midnight saying are you available? No I'm not available, I'm sleeping! I'm not open 24/7 and advertise my hours of availability quite clearly. I do need to rest and sleep occasionally and I do work as a nurse 3 days a week, but they either don't care or can't read. Thank god my iPhone has a privacy setting where I can switch off all incoming calls except for family and friends, until I worked that one out I had many wake up calls at all hours of the night. It is just plain rude and disrespectful and earns you a place on my blocked contacts list. Why can't men understand the difference between an escort, where you ring and make a booking and a brothel where you can walk in anytime it's open. Seriously men need a bit of education in this area, some escorts work 24/7 as its their only source of income but I don't and it's just plain rude to call out of business hours advertised. Be warned boys you will get an earful from me for calling after midnight. And while I'm on the subject, texting me and saying " are you horny? I want to lick your pussy" or sending pics of your cock doesn't do it for me either. Be respectful and polite and I will respond otherwise you're blocked!

• Give it back to them. I work strange hours and called an annoying car salesmen at 3:00am to repeat that i wasn't interested in his car. Don't be calling me when I'm asleep, haha.
• But seriously, u don't have a separate work phone that u can turn off when required?

 

[Babette of Darwin]

• Give it back to them. I work strange hours and called an annoying car salesmen at 3:00am to repeat that i wasn't interested in his car. Don't be calling me when I'm asleep, haha.
• But seriously, u don't have a separate work phone that u can turn off when required?

Hi there
I love that you called the salesman at 3am.....too funny
No I kept meaning to get another phone for work but never got around to it, and it's not an issue really because now I can turn it off to unsaved numbers anyway when I do not wish to be disturbed. The beauty of the iPhone , I love it....also I get men that ring from private numbers even though I advertise that I don't take calls from blocked numbers, reason being they either don't show up and you can't txt them back, it's also a safety precaution to have a number provided, but again they either can't read or they are being disrespectful, private numbers don't get bookings from me anymore either. Thanks for the response tickortreat, I think I'll take the treat every time lol, take care B x

 

[Trickortreat]

Hi there
I love that you called the salesman at 3am.....too funny
No I kept meaning to get another phone for work but never got around to it, and it's not an issue really because now I can turn it off to unsaved numbers anyway when I do not wish to be disturbed. The beauty of the iPhone , I love it....also I get men that ring from private numbers even though I advertise that I don't take calls from blocked numbers, reason being they either don't show up and you can't txt them back, it's also a safety precaution to have a number provided, but again they either can't read or they are being disrespectful, private numbers don't get bookings from me anymore either. Thanks for the response tickortreat, I think I'll take the treat every time lol, take care B x

Hmm, so u turn tricks for a job but want the treat every time? Girl wants it all!

 

[Mrs Langtrees]

Great thread and how true, i am sure you will attract far more considerate gentleman callers through the forum and Langtrees.com

 

[guy83]

Dont worry still alot of decent people in darwin, just a few people rude

 

[Dallas]

Strangely enough I know lots of women from my teenage niece to work colleagues who are on social networking sites and say guys act the same way, trying to call them late at night and expecting them to be pleased, then apparently the best way to introduce yourself to a girl you like is to send her a pic of your.....

 

[Miss Monique]

Same happens here and like you I have just one phone for personal day to day use and work. I work weekdays only no nights and still get calls or messages. 50% or more men choose not to read the ads they look at the pics think yeah I want a bit of that lets ring or text they think with their little head. It's the same with them asking for info that is all ready in your ad. The joys of being a private WL. Then you have the ones who do it purly to waste your time have no intention of making an appointment. It pays to save all the phone numbers of no show, timewaster etc numbers along with your regular gentleman. Plus you have what I call the serial timewasters some of them have been doing it for years. In many ways my advertising may come across as blunt and it doesn't matter how clear you are there will always be the ones who don't read. Perhaps I have become a grumpy old woman lol my expectations on men is just not a happening thing. Wishing you all the best it can be a very frustrating industry for sure.

 

[Babette of Darwin]

Same happens here and like you I have just one phone for personal day to day use and work. I work weekdays only no nights and still get calls or messages. 50% or more men choose not to read the ads they look at the pics think yeah I want a bit of that lets ring or text they think with their little head. It's the same with them asking for info that is all ready in your ad. The joys of being a private WL. Then you have the ones who do it purly to waste your time have no intention of making an appointment. It pays to save all the phone numbers of no show, timewaster etc numbers along with your regular gentleman. Plus you have what I call the serial timewasters some of them have been doing it for years. In many ways my advertising may come across as blunt and it doesn't matter how clear you are there will always be the ones who don't read. Perhaps I have become a grumpy old woman lol my expectations on men is just not a happening thing. Wishing you all the best it can be a very frustrating industry for sure.

Oh miss monique, you are not becoming a grumpy old woman, I can so relate to everything you have just said. I also get guys asking for pics and I say sorry they're on my site, I don't send pics and never hear from them again. I think we need a place in this forum where we can name and shame serial time wasters and put their numbers up to warn all working ladies to not get involved with these creeps. You are spot on when you say they do not read the ads and only look at the pics, and you know this because they ask you what your rates are blah blah blah, all which is already on the site. Thanks for the message, always good to hear from other W/L experiences, we need to support each other. B xx

 

[Babette of Darwin]

Strangely enough I know lots of women from my teenage niece to work colleagues who are on social networking sites and say guys act the same way, trying to call them late at night and expecting them to be pleased, then apparently the best way to introduce yourself to a girl you like is to send her a pic of your.....

Oh yes the cock pics, I mean really what are they thinking, they don't know women at all do they, poor ignorant darlings, men are visual and love pics. Women on the other hand need to be treated with respect and polite conversation, that's what turns them on. Working ladies are often well educated, I have a degree, we are mothers, sisters and daughters, we don't just lay on our backs all day fucking, and sending cock pics just means they have no clue as to what women want. I repost their pics on my Facebook page, name and shame lol. Yes way to introduce yourself to a woman.....not.

 

[Master Yoda]

Totally empathise with you ladies.....with my work most don't call me at times like 2am. There's one moron that does.... and yeah......ignore.....

 

[Strawman]

If using phone for business then must have backup plan. I can get calls 24/7 but if I don't want to be disturbed then I put phone on silent. Home phone then becomes emergency phone or for calls from family / friends. If I didn't have home land line I would have second cheap mobile.
Need to do equivalent of closing your office door and going home leaving the office phone behind to ring unheard.

 

[Dallas]

Oh yes the cock pics, I mean really what are they thinking, they don't know women at all do they, poor ignorant darlings, men are visual and love pics. Women on the other hand need to be treated with respect and polite conversation, that's what turns them on. Working ladies are often well educated, I have a degree, we are mothers, sisters and daughters, we don't just lay on our backs all day f**king, and sending cock pics just means they have no clue as to what women want. I repost their pics on my Facebook page, name and shame lol. Yes way to introduce yourself to a woman.....not.

You are right, what are they thinking? The "best" working ladies are some of the most amazing people a guy could meet, due to their education, depth, strength of character, interests and maturity that has been helped along by their money and travels and diverse interactions with people from many cultures and walks of life, and age really isn't a barrier here. Interacting with an amazing person that I have a connection with gives me a memory that lasts a life time. If I just wanted sex I could pick someone up in a club and get it for free then probably get the unwanted calls and texts !!

 

[Trickortreat]

Totally empathise with you ladies.....with my work most don't call me at times like 2am. There's one moron that does.... and yeah......ignore.....

Well... i did tell you i wasn't interested in the car