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BODY or PERSONALITY?

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Starbuck Adama

IF IF IF you had to choose between a lover with an awesome personality or your type of sexy body...and they weren't both rolled into the same person. ..which would you choose?
This person is just for company in the bedroom...not particularly for a relationship.

For me...PERSONALITY usually wins...affection and physical attraction can develop and mould into each other but personality and free flowing conversation is usually fore foreplay for me.
What about you? ??
 
Both important but in order!
If there isnt something in her looks to get my attention first up its a no ball. But once i get to know her then the personality take over from the looks.

Had this with a wog babe i met in a club. She looks like model - specially with my beer goggles, perfect face skin makeup. WOW! Couldny believe my luck taking her home. Next day down the beach no makeup more moles and freckles than the floor of a paint shop. No biggy to me im a spotty wog too but she turned out to be one of the coolest fun girls i ever known. Fishing, trail bikes, 4wd, camping, canoing she was in. Only prob with her she had zero self esteem kept throwing herself at any boy that wanted. Probbly explains the 3 hrs it took her to do her makeup every time she went out.

Shared a house with a cambodia gil like that too. Never ever saw her without makeup we joked how ugly is she under the 2pac. Pain in the ass she'd hog the bathroom for hours.
 
Can't answer that one for every situation. ...

I have always exclaimed that I'm fussy andbhownthey must be model like. I'm more like that when I punt.

Sometimes when I meet civilians online I found that at least 3 of them was far from being model like. Yet sex and company with them was near perfect.

A WL friend who was unreasonably attractive physically was so difficult to be around due to low self esteem I asked to stop calling me.

I guess every individual has her own circumstance.
 
Have to say body.
Never met a woman with a personality I could put up with for that reason alone
 
Personality helps an awful lot. Can make an average girl look better.

An attractive woman with no personality is no fun at all.
 
:oops:Will have to be personality for me it's like a guy looking at a larger girl and making dip shit comments about her when I look most times I see something beautiful and some are so sexy with the best personality to go with it :cool:
 
A hot body and a personality that I don't like is fun for about 10 minutes, it's why I never book anyone now without meeting them first, personality is a must and wins me over every time.
 
DDxoxo said:
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I have to say JUST FOR SEX as Starbuck Adama is asking about ...
not a relationship you would sometimes take BODY over BRAINS i suppose....'
Bur for a real friendship and/or relationship I would go for personality...​
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Yep, same for me., Since the OP was about naughty fun times only, not about something else, its body/looks for me. But I don't actually like the 'model' types tbh. Really pretty to look at, sorta like a photo, but I tend to like a different 'look' for bedtime romps.
 
It's funny... Since my time working in the industry, I think my thoughts on this subject have changed quite a bit...

Previously, I think I was pretty damn shallow... If I was physically attracted to someone, I could/would turn a blind eye to all manner of character flaws... Now... Things are different...
I still need for there to be a level of attraction, but what I am primarily attracted to has changed dramatically... Genuine-ness, combined with gentlemanly behaviour are incredibly attractive to me. What lives within a man's eyes attracts me, as does a healthy intellect... I am reminded of a booking a few months ago with an ego-maniac elite athlete, who was probably male-model material, who said to me "I bet you've had to f**k some f**king gross c**ts" to which I replied, with my most million-dollar smile "Oh, darling, I'm doing it now...."
 
Oh, it wasn't the language I objected to Wayne - I swear as much as a hypertensive truck-driver with anger management issues... It was more the general ego-driven attitude and the level of presumption that got my back up...It was just unfortunate for him that earlier in the evening I had had a fantastic booking with a really lovely client, who was polite, funny, gracious, athletic and we had some really inspiring, hot, creative (awesome) sex...Which really only highlighted the contrast between the two experiences.
 
I believe Obbie to be Cool and calm I mean I am sure it was him who accidentally drove a 100Kg over loaded semi down Greenmount hill doing airbrake gearchanges and going over the 40kmh limit with a can of beer between his legs spotted 2 cop cars awaiting him and said "Oh dash it all"
 
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I believe Obbie to be Cool and calm I mean I am sure it was him who accidentally drove a 100Kg over loaded semi down Greenmount hill doing airbrake gearchanges and going over the 40kmh limit with a can of beer between his legs spotted 2 cop cars awaiting him and said "Oh dash it all"
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Scary thing was happy you was right behind me with your grain on oh hang on that was bindoon hill
 
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