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Bi-Sexual and/or Bi-Curious

I personally think that we are all Bi Curious. Because of our pre conditioning and up bringing we may hide this and deny it, but I woiuld have to think it would be stranger if someone didn't question what it was like just from curiousity if nothing more.
Imagine being a guy and enjoying getting your cock sucked and not wondering what it felt like to give the pleasure as well as enjoy it.
It dosen't mean that it is your perfernce but from the research I have done I think the bi curious would have to top 90% with the 10% that aren't are in the group that have no sexual drive at all.
 
I agree with the curiousity thing. More than once I've asked myself what it would be like to be with another guy. Wouldn't say no if the chance came along.
Maybe a Better label for me would be try-sexual: willing to try anything.
 
I agree most of us have the potential to be bi but a much smaller proportion of that group is likely to be. Every person has a certain amount of male associated traits, and female ones, in varying strengths. In my opinion the most balanced people have near equal amounts of both; guys who are totally butch are missing something in the same way totally feminine frivalous girls are. Those 2 extremes need each other (male/female; yin/yang) to be complete as a couple and fill each other in a bit (although they will never understand each other) and are therefore much less likely to be drawn to the same sex.

Bi-curious just shows they have a mind and a sex drive.

Bi-sexual can show they have a taste for what they love in themselves. My first experience with a woman was pretty mind-blowing for me - it was a revelation as to what it was that guys liked in us girls - soft skin; the breathing, sighs, and moans; gentle kissing; the soothing comfort of breasts; the pleasure of yielding. I beleive I've evolved into a better lover than I would have been without that experience. Society has made girl-girl love much more accessible and therefore less threatening than the male equivalent.

Gay is a slightly different scenario again. I recently saw Brokeback Mountain and found it deeply moving...
 
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i was chatting to a friend about this very subject earlier this evening and we bot agreed...though we enjoy sex with the same gender we wouldn't necessarily want a relationship with the same gender. Does that make sense?
 
Makes perfect sense beebs. That is how if I am forced to give myself a label I define myself as bisexual. I have in the past had loving relationships with both men and woman.
I personally choose to go with saying I am neither hetero, bi or gay I am just plain sexual
 
I think that everyone is sexual by nature and so to define a preference to which sex you prefer to engage your pleasures with is based on so many factors.

I've only had a few small encounters...before I realised I was attracted to women....it seems so natural, as far back as I remember I've been aroused by women...but attractiveness to me is more than a pretty person, I like to have a connection with them...I particular find an attraction to charismatic people...people who are comfortable in themselves...
 
I am curious about what it would feel like to be a woman....curious enough that I would like to try it....so its pretty clear to me lol
 
I personally choose to go with saying I am neither hetero, bi or gay I am just plain sexual
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Perfectly said Barbie!

While I think our sexuality is far too complex to be explained in one word, I tend to say I'm bicurious simply because I prefer men to women but it varies depending on who, where, when, so many different factors. But from now on - no label just sexual!

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very Bi curious if the oppatunity arose Id defienty try like everything tho the first step is always the hardest :)
 
if I am tied up and blind folded what do I care about who is delivering the pleasure/pain!! Does that make me bi or easy? LOL
 
I have to agree with all of us just being curious... When i was at school I had two interesting encounters with friends and they were definetly positive ones! I can sometimes look at a woman and think that she is amazingly beautiful and sexual and that I would definitely go there with her. I find one of my best friends very attractive and I sometimes wonder what it would be like with her and the things I would do to her...
I think that it's just because I have an imgination and a high sex drive, but I wouldn't want it any other way!
 
I consider myself bi-curious... I don't find guys physically attractive to look at in the way I do women, and I certainly wouldn't have a relationship with one, but I love the idea of sex with guys and my very limited experiences so far have left me wanting more.

After a few more experiences I may upgrade my status :)
 
I'm bisexual and very comfortable with my sexuality. I'm married and rarely have the opportunity to catch up with similarly wired guys so that may be part of the reason why I haven't indulged for a while. Its been a long time since I have been intimate with another guy. For me, its about intimacy and physical intimacy and whether one has a penis or a vagina is a secondary consideration.
I love guys and girls.
 
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