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leeroy83
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 18months, and have always had a great open sex life, including being able to try new things and pleasure like never before.
In the past 8-12months I've noticed by boyfriend on occasion like's to pleasure himself in women's underwear, including using our sexual toys on himself and sometimes even videoing it, but he always tried to hide it, and does it when I'm not home or hides evidence.
In recent times there's been more developement and i'm now trying to get him to accept it and stop hiding it and enhance it. Told him I'd never do anything that he didn't want me to, and that i'd like to explore it as a couple.
I don't think he realises that the thoughts I have of what we could do turns me on ALOT, and I can't stop thinkng about it. Wether thats seeing him in womens underwear and me pleasuring him, or watching him play with himself whilst I pleasure him otherwise, to possibly introducing a strap on to the bedroom.
I think he thinks I might not like it or that he's ashamed of it and doesn't want to involve me for fear of me thinking less of him. I don't think he realises how much i've thought about it and the amount of research I have done.
Can anyone explain if i'm doing something wrong?? I just want us to be able to be open with each other and explore new things. And I've told him just that. However once it has been mentioned he shuts down and doesn't really say anything. Help??
In the past 8-12months I've noticed by boyfriend on occasion like's to pleasure himself in women's underwear, including using our sexual toys on himself and sometimes even videoing it, but he always tried to hide it, and does it when I'm not home or hides evidence.
In recent times there's been more developement and i'm now trying to get him to accept it and stop hiding it and enhance it. Told him I'd never do anything that he didn't want me to, and that i'd like to explore it as a couple.
I don't think he realises that the thoughts I have of what we could do turns me on ALOT, and I can't stop thinkng about it. Wether thats seeing him in womens underwear and me pleasuring him, or watching him play with himself whilst I pleasure him otherwise, to possibly introducing a strap on to the bedroom.
I think he thinks I might not like it or that he's ashamed of it and doesn't want to involve me for fear of me thinking less of him. I don't think he realises how much i've thought about it and the amount of research I have done.
Can anyone explain if i'm doing something wrong?? I just want us to be able to be open with each other and explore new things. And I've told him just that. However once it has been mentioned he shuts down and doesn't really say anything. Help??