Depends on where you are going, Kuta, Legian and Seminyak are easier than Sanur. Any street number with an X in front of it is full on. Other than that look for a place with walled dividers between the tables not just curtains. If you get stuck ask a taxi driver to take you to a plus, plus massage parlour. You can even ask the girls outright for a plus plus massage. The won’t take offence. Happy Hunting